Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

i went wit a boi for about a month and he cheated on me how can i get over him i done all i could already thanks for your help

2006-11-02 02:26:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've noticed that evertime i walk down the damn street with my black boyfriend, some bitches, blacks and whites, always got something to say. then his ex girlfriend is all like ''you left me for a white *****!'' so what? they act like thats supposed to be embarrasing to him or something. its not my fault he likes cream in his coffee. i think some black women need to get a grip and stop that nonsense. i love him because of his personality and not his skin color and nobodies trying to ''take black men''. Why do some black women get like that? i'm tired of it!

2006-11-02 02:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in NJ, my wife lives in MD, At first we were great together then suddenly she changed her mind to move down to NJ, and she wanted me to move there. Now she aggreed to move with me but she's making conditions. We aggreed that my credit is not so good so we will use her credit as well as mine to purchase a condo, she agreed at first and now she disagrees, and she really being real mean about it. I think this marriage is just so ****** up, she changes her mind so much and she is so disrespectful, things she says and does really hurts my feelings. i tried to work things out but everytime i do less than a week later she's gotta bring up all these demands and conditions that basically can't be fullfilled on my part what should i do?

2006-11-02 02:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by Ankit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

but if i do end up cheating on him , it will be his fault becuz he knew for doing wat he done was going to mess up our relationship

2006-11-02 02:25:23 · 19 answers · asked by latasha s 1 in Singles & Dating

But he saids that he doesnt want a friendship but really does like you.. He start out calling me all the time and the past week he doesnt return my calls. I didnt mean to catch feelings but i really do want to be more than friends. Please Help ME ASAP I'M GETTING DEPRESS

2006-11-02 02:25:04 · 5 answers · asked by Tionna W 1 in Singles & Dating

he said he liked me and was attractive to me and wanted to see me again i like him but he seems differant since we met i no he seemed shy he starred at me alot but have only heard from him one time i like him what should i do he knows how i feel and i have called he says hes busy he will call but nobody can be that busy

2006-11-02 02:25:02 · 9 answers · asked by lady_di298 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in NJ, my wife lives in MD, At first we were great together then suddenly she changed her mind to move down to NJ, and she wanted me to move there. Now she aggreed to move with me but she's making conditions. We aggreed that my credit is not so good so we will use her credit as well as mine to purchase a condo, she agreed at first and now she disagrees, and she really being real mean about it. I think this marriage is just so ****** up, she changes her mind so much and she is so disrespectful, things she says and does really hurts my feelings. i tried to work things out but everytime i do less than a week later she's gotta bring up all these demands and conditions that basically can't be fullfilled on my part what should i do?

2006-11-02 02:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Ankit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found my birthfamily. So far the reunion has been real nice. My siblings are so embracing but my bithmother is kinda distanced. I'm wondering if she could feel guilty cuz they took me from her. I don't want her to be sad or feel embrassed I don't blame her at all. how do I help her get over this? Also Friday the 3rd is my bithday. i would love to spend it with her but I'm afraid on how she'll react. Anyone go threw this?

2006-11-02 02:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by Karen K 3 in Family

I was standing at the hall of my shcool when an albanian classmate hit me with his soulder.I didnt say nothing because i dont like these guys and i didint want to have any troubles.But when i turn my back he starting yelling and insult me without reason.I try to go away byt he was grubing me and teasing.He wanted to play tought to some girls but unfortunately i didnt have his mood.I grab him and powder his jacket very badly.I was cast out for school for 3 days.My father is furious.Was i right to deffend my self??Should i let him insult me infront of the girl i like??????!!!!!!!

2006-11-02 02:24:19 · 2 answers · asked by Tzatzikomouris 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-02 02:24:00 · 25 answers · asked by claire o 1 in Singles & Dating

actually 1day i told him i like him but just as a friend,but he thought that i love him and now i want 2 get away from him.So suggest me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-02 02:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by amu 2 in Friends

2006-11-02 02:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by BT600 1 in Weddings

2006-11-02 02:23:36 · 32 answers · asked by icclesnugglebuddy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy. Actually he is a father of two boys, but having his marriage problems for years. And his reason not giving up the marriage one is because of his wife's disagree and the other is the huge cost to get divorced in US. One month ago, it was his wife brought up the point to get divorced, and he went to the court already and is waiting to sign the seperation sheet, the whole process might take at least 1 year for him to be single again!I can understand it's not a easy time for him now, but at least he should let me know what he plans to do or if he does care about me, he could just tell me sth like: though he is not sure when all the things could be figured out, but he hopes I could give him some time, just sth. But he didn't, only worried that he'll have his life lost after then!

I know from the bottom of heart that I should just get out of the relationship, but it's hard to and I think I've got depression now. Do need some advice now!

2006-11-02 02:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by jennyleeyang530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking for help, because I'm now 77 and no longer able to get out of my home to do my own shopping, so I have to reply on my Home Carers helping me.

What Christmas present do you suggest I buy for my:

a) Niece and her husband and their daughter aged 8 and son aged 3.
b) My Nephew and his wife and his daughter aged 11.
c) My Nephew and his wife, his son aged 3, his stepson aged 10 and his step daughter aged 12.
d) My brother and his wife.
e) My other brother and his wife.
f) My three female cousins and their husbands.
g) My Home Carers (1 Male and 1 Female).
h) My friends - 3 ladies and 2 gentlemen.
i) My next door lady neighbour.
j) My cousin's daughter and her husband and new baby.
k) And finally my best friends for the past 56 years (Mr & Mrs)?

Your help will be genuinely appreciated.

2006-11-02 02:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday, my exstranged husband, who claims am the only woman in the world he loves and trust; left he's cell phone over my apartment yesterday. Being curious i looked at his text messaging inbox and outbox. I was horrified to what i saw. He had just asked me for sex not just moments ago mind you. He seeing more than three woman sexually. He had numerous affairs, but i believe that he understood that our relationship couldn't continue like this. Should I confront him with this or face the fact it's not going to get better.

2006-11-02 02:21:43 · 31 answers · asked by much2deep 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-02 02:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by Tionna W 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with her and she says "We are together" I say no we are not, She says "YES WE ARE" I told her i was going to hang out with my guy friend and she fipped and said that i had to talk to her on the phone the entire time, shes acting crazy. She says she loves me and cant let me go, but i cant be with her mostly of her getting into a bed with another man. I dont know what to do, the more i say no that i wont be with her the more she asks, and the more determined she is to be with me, its crazy! how do you deal with a person like this?

2006-11-02 02:20:39 · 33 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

sometimes if i go past a shop that has products outside, i get a little voice in my head telling me to take something- steal it. I never have stolen anything in my life or done anything like that, but what if i accidently go with the little voice in my head?? What can i do to stop myself from thinking that? I dont think im a bad person. Help! Advice needed!!

2006-11-02 02:20:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

That they only are thinking sexually. I was just wondering because an ex of mine told me that if a guy ever approaches me, he wants sex. I knid of believe it. I just want a guy that want to be with me for me, not my body.

2006-11-02 02:19:55 · 14 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom n dad are giong thru a nasty divorce right now but are still living together, so obviously things at home are a little tense. i dont live at home anymore. my boyfriend finally proposed to me the other day after 2.5 years of dating and i said yes (yay!!). the date is not for about two years (until i'm out of college).

how do i announce it to my parents? especially my mom, who has been very bitter about the divorce, telling me advice like "never get married." and stuff like that. i want to tell her. both of my parents really like my fiance. what do i tell her? do i set them both down and tell them? has neone else ever dealt with a similar situation?

2006-11-02 02:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have heard women say that they would rather date a married man casue of the fact that they dont have to be bother with him all the time is this a true thing for women or what and i think cause of the fact that cause of the fact the these was inpendenpece type women

2006-11-02 02:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by izzo808 1 in Singles & Dating

If a dad has to pay 400quid a month to CSA, and can barely live on rest of wages and is planning children with his current partner how can he do both???? and why is it fair that the other mum can claim never get off **** and work properly but work on side?? why is it fair that the responsible one has to suffer?? can someone please fill me in on the poxy CSA who leave off the arsehole dads who work and are compleate pricks and never see there kids, they get off scott free! whats happening?

2006-11-02 02:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by FINN 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Emory is this guy I've liked for awhile he is 15 and im 13 and likes me too. hes friends with my friends and everything but my bestfriend Andrew says I shouldn't ask him out....because he dosn't want me hurt...But i like Emory what do i do?

2006-11-02 02:18:42 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

When I mention the topic of commitment\feelings and relationships with my close female friend she changes the topic and won't speak about it,even though I'm not referring to 'us'.I only ask for her views,she goes quiet.WHY won’t she talk about this with me???

Recently she thought that I started dating a girl and she practically ignored me for a week and contact is still on-off,not like it used to be.Was this jealousy or just a coincidence?My behaviour HAS NOT changed towards her and I'm not actually dating anyone.I was told she is happy for me, if so,why wouldn’t she ask about this girl,seeing she’s a good mate?

Also when I joked she had a new boyfriend she shouted down the phone "what f**king boyfriend! There’s no one, I wish I had one,f**king hell".Why'd she get so angry?

Am to meet her this wkn,she said no serious conversations(referring to relationships\commitment\feelings I believe),I asked her why and she’s gone quiet on me since.WHY?

Have I done anything wrong?

2006-11-02 02:17:31 · 25 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:17:21 · 17 answers · asked by nicething 1 in Singles & Dating

I told her I was moving back to Michigan from NC and she told me I needed to stay here for the boys 16 and 17. I sold my house now she is letting me stay with her. The past two weekends we have gone out dancing, dinner and a movie. And we have been kissing a little here and there. But she acts like there is nothing between us. Is she messing with my head again? She said we will talk, but I am still waiting.

2006-11-02 02:17:02 · 16 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

inj my school almost no one likes me they curse at me call me names but i just sit there and say nothing but later one the people who hurt my feelings something bab always happens to them i am still in school on my computer class what should i do about the people who hurt me mentelly

2006-11-02 02:16:17 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ NïJâ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been living a simple high sch. routine but it changed when I knew Paul.He’s a great man&I like him a lot so when he asked if he can court me I’ve permitted him.The feeling is mutual between us&he knows that.In a short span of time I’ve been deeply in love w/ him.His courtship lasted for a month but unfortunately things didn’t work between us.He quit courting me, coz’ he said that he’s not ready yet for a relationship and it’ll be better if we’ll juz be friends.For weeks I’ve cried and I began to feel self pity.His words broke my heart but despite of the pain I’d continually loved him.
1 day we came into a party.I got drunk but Paul weren’t.Shockingly I’ve found myself French kissing w/ him.He was my 1st romance&I'm conservative so this is a very big deal for me.We've carresed each other and do the necking.Weeks have passed but i didn't received any words from him, it seems nothing happened. Lately i have a boy friend&i love him but i still love Paul more.Confusion reigns me now.

2006-11-02 02:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by angela kate d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by RANDI B 1 in Singles & Dating