I live in NJ, my wife lives in MD, At first we were great together then suddenly she changed her mind to move down to NJ, and she wanted me to move there. Now she aggreed to move with me but she's making conditions. We aggreed that my credit is not so good so we will use her credit as well as mine to purchase a condo, she agreed at first and now she disagrees, and she really being real mean about it. I think this marriage is just so ****** up, she changes her mind so much and she is so disrespectful, things she says and does really hurts my feelings. i tried to work things out but everytime i do less than a week later she's gotta bring up all these demands and conditions that basically can't be fullfilled on my part what should i do?
2006-11-02 02:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Ankit 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you both need to realise that no matter who's credit you put it on it is an obligation to both of you if purchased while married. Using her credit however will save you a lot of money with a better mortgage rate.
Even if you divorce it will be an asset/debt to both of you, and financially she is in for the ride.
2006-11-02 02:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by David W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you all discuss homeownership and things of that nature before you got married? It sounds like she may be acting this way to make you want to continue living apart. You need to find out why she reacts to you the way she does. It may be possible that she has someone else in her life.
2006-11-02 10:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a man or a mouse? Give me a break, Stand up Man, Stand up!
2006-11-02 10:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce her
2006-11-02 10:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋