Do u control your self when u are at rage????

Question

I was standing at the hall of my shcool when an albanian classmate hit me with his soulder.I didnt say nothing because i dont like these guys and i didint want to have any troubles.But when i turn my back he starting yelling and insult me without reason.I try to go away byt he was grubing me and teasing.He wanted to play tought to some girls but unfortunately i didnt have his mood.I grab him and powder his jacket very badly.I was cast out for school for 3 days.My father is furious.Was i right to deffend my self??Should i let him insult me infront of the girl i like??????!!!!!!!

I am not get in to fight often.I had fight only 2 times in my life!!!!

I am 16 bytheway

Answer 1

Of course fighting is never right but if you let someone push you around without doing anything they will push you around more and more as time goes by. You do have to show them that you will not be treated like that.

Answer 2

hey, this just happend to me a couple days ago! but im a girl and it was by a boy i like, and i didnt know if i should argue with her, because the guy was sort of upper class and i doidnt know if he would like the arguing, so i told her about herself in a manageable way, not rude or anything, and now i go out with the boy!! *YAY* but just let thebut know who he is and put him in his spot in a manageable way. but yeah, he desearved it for messin wit u! but have the courage to ask the girl out, need any help, send me a message im very good with relationships. by the was i am 16