2006-11-02 02:24:00 · 25 answers · asked by claire o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
treat yourself with girl night outs, that the best way to heal yourself. just find some girl friends who are also single presently to hang out with into you will have great fun and i tell you. you will enjoy it very much. and dont rush into anything coz you judgements at the moment will not be objective, you will be trying to do things for showing off to your ex. and one last tip: dont pass by his place at night to find out if his car is parked outside, coz if he sees you, he will know how desparate you are and will come back to exploit you. good luck girl!
2006-11-02 03:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well First of all, moving on has to be a "choice". Your boyfriend broke up with you, because He was a jerk. Trust me, Its better to move on, then to hold on to someone who doesnt want you. I have been in so many relationships, and found that Men cant make me happy, but I have to make myself happy. I now am getting married to a wonderful man.
The advice I can give you is, Someone better is out there for you. Dont look for it, but wait. The right one will come at the right time. You may think the man you just broke up with Is the "One". But dont hold onto that, if He truely loved you, or cared for you, then he wouldnt have broken things off. All I can say is just let him go, Make new friends, and take time for yourself. Find who you are, be content with yourself alone, and wait for the right guy.
2006-11-02 02:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can start out by going off with your friends like going to the mall, or to the movies. Or you can see if your friends know n e one that is available and go on double dates with them. like you and your friends, and your date. I write poems and stuff and usually it helps me stop thinking about them. Just think, there is a reason why he broke up with you. And think if he really had feelings for you, he wouldn't have broken up wtih you in the first place and its not worth being upset still over him. It'll get better. I hope this little piece of advise helped you out.
2006-11-02 02:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by ♥£eah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to us all at sometime in our lives , it will take some time but you will get over him , I remember when I was 16 this guy finished with me I was devastated , I remember telling him my love for him would be forever LOL.
Forever was for about 6 weeks long enough to find the next guy in my life .
That one was forever it is still going 35yrs later.
2006-11-02 02:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by TRUEBRIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone else. Make yourself available to date not be in a new relationship. Just start dating and enjoy that and start hanging out with your friends. Find a hobby, learn something new. Do something you would have never done while you were with him. Change the game.
2006-11-02 02:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the hairdressers and get pampered, new look etc. Buy yourself some new clothes and then go out for the night with the girls and have a laugh. Concentrate on you for a change and not some boy who doesnt think you are worth his affection.
2006-11-02 02:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to move on and get back at him, is to find another boyfriend. Not a sex partner, but a man who really loves you. And don't waste your time thinking about your Ex.
2006-11-02 02:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, me too but just over 8 weeks. Enjoy being you, catch up with friends, do stuff that you couldnt do before, be spontaneous and treat yourself to a break. Flirt and enjoy the attention
2006-11-02 02:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with good friends, positive things and stay busy. Get into projects that you've wanted to do, but haven't yet. Stay out of your head, and don't beat yourself up over it.
2006-11-02 02:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? I can help you through these uncertain days with love, care and lots of rough sex.If its really over then theirs nothing you or anyone else can do, get over the lonley sadness and come party with me .Or sex toys might take your mind off him.
2006-11-02 02:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by pisspot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋