I’ve been living a simple high sch. routine but it changed when I knew Paul.He’s a great man&I like him a lot so when he asked if he can court me I’ve permitted him.The feeling is mutual between us&he knows that.In a short span of time I’ve been deeply in love w/ him.His courtship lasted for a month but unfortunately things didn’t work between us.He quit courting me, coz’ he said that he’s not ready yet for a relationship and it’ll be better if we’ll juz be friends.For weeks I’ve cried and I began to feel self pity.His words broke my heart but despite of the pain I’d continually loved him.
1 day we came into a party.I got drunk but Paul weren’t.Shockingly I’ve found myself French kissing w/ him.He was my 1st romance&I'm conservative so this is a very big deal for me.We've carresed each other and do the necking.Weeks have passed but i didn't received any words from him, it seems nothing happened. Lately i have a boy friend&i love him but i still love Paul more.Confusion reigns me now.
2006-11-02 02:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by angela kate d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Saying he is not ready = not interested.
Move on. You will find someone who lights your fire soon enough.
2006-11-02 02:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from relationships and take time for yourself. He may not want a relationship but I'm sure he doesn't mind the affection. I say the best thing to do is to totally stay away from him, no phone calls, nothing and then see what happens. If you really love your current boyfriend then that's great and that should give you even more incentive to stay away, but don't keep him around if you are just doing it because you may be afraid to be alone. You can't make yourself love somebody and you definitely cannot make someone love you.
2006-11-02 02:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by LMB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your first love I take it. They're always the hardest to cope with once the relationship is over but once you start getting out there again and meeting so much more and new people, you'd forget about him. Just have fun, you're still in high school and you have your whole life ahead of you to seek that certain someone.
2006-11-02 02:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still only in HS. There are plenty of time ahead of you, so I'd say forget about Paul. He doesn't care.It seems to me that all he wants is..you-know-what. Just hang out with your current BF and try to avoid Paul. Soon, your feelings towards Paul will go away.
2006-11-02 02:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems you know who u care about more, so there is no confusion there. You should confront him and tell him that it was wrong of him to take advantage of you after he knew how you felt about him. He seems to me like a guy who does the mini-dates and not relationships. If your boyfriend treats you with respect, don't let him go. It is hard to let go of ur first love but eventually u have to.
2006-11-02 02:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he stold your love with careing so he can get some from you. think about it when he did he left. i think paul is a jerk underneth. if paul finds out about your new boyfriend he might bother you i think he would want your atention all of a suden. if he thinks you are sleeping with somebody now he might look at you thought durty glasses. guys can be posesive like that. well good luck with that. dont worrie about it as much and have fun in life while you still can.
2006-11-02 02:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by jesse g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u still drunk?let it go he doesn't want to be with you and you don't love him any way.you need a hug and a hobby girl.
2006-11-02 02:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋