but if i do end up cheating on him , it will be his fault becuz he knew for doing wat he done was going to mess up our relationship
2006-11-02 02:25:23 · 19 answers · asked by latasha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is to many things to ask right now, like how old are you? How long have you been together? How long is he in for? If it is short time and you are old enough and love him then wait like any great wifey or girl would do. If your young and it is short time then I guess it comes down to how long you been together. If you think this is the one for you only you can say if you should wait or not. If your thinking about cheating that tells me that your gonna cheat and your not that into him. I understand the whole girl thing about well he's gone so I don't know if I can wait . It will be hard but if you love him or think you love him then wait. Was he good to you when he was out? Did he cheat? Tooo many questions involved. Check your head first then at least let him know you are not going to be with him and that your moving on.
2006-11-02 02:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not assume this operating. You cheated and he did improper by way of hooking up with you so he isn't probably the most dependable and honorable man or woman. He appears like he has some thing to cover. You want time after a foul marriage to be on my own and to get better and heal, no longer leap into this drama. Take a while for your self to discover out what you relatively wish in a person. This is not it. After a foul marriage you deserve a loving courting established on honesty and believe.
2016-09-01 06:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by vandevanter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? How Much? It all depends on that..Dont cheat on him. If you think it causes that much trouble, then dont be with him, cuz you could be hurting him in the long run. If you love him enough, you need to wait. Your supposed to be with him NO MATTER WHAT, and that counts as one of them.. I can give you honest advice about this cuz i know this from first hand experience.. But never cheat on someone, no matter what the circumstances!!
2006-11-02 02:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Beatty's♥Girl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean locked up? but if that is what you mean. I think that you should wait for him because you knew what he was doing also. If you did not know then you should leave him. Dont cheat! That shows your weakness.
2006-11-02 02:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one diserves to be cheated on. you wouldnt want to be cheated on would you? You should just move on. save both of you two a world of hurt. its better to leave someone then to loose trust in everyone else ahead of you. on both sides. Do what your heart tells you but not what pain is showing you. It doesnt matter.. any source of pain, is not worth going to his level. any amount of pain torwards girlfriend/boyfriend. you should walk away. and never look back, and move on to someone better.
2006-11-02 02:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean locked up? He deserves the same respect as you would want him to show to you if you were locked up. Don't cheat, finish with him first, then you will be free to see whoever you want.
2006-11-02 02:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering cheating on him and aren't willing to wait for him, you don't really love him. And it is YOUR fault, not HIS, if you cheat on him.
2006-11-02 02:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl id do my thang, id see who i want to but id let them know that your not looking for anything serious, if you get feelings then you can write your bf and tell him so. Why wait, its his fault. Unless he's in jail for a crime you did or for beating up a guy who was trying to rape you or something, but if he's in jail cause he robbed people or sold drugs instead of working, cut him loose.
2006-11-02 02:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by rosie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never cheat. you will regrate it. well most females do. nothing is worth spreading your legs over out of spite. unless your are talking about being a whore because whores dont really have worth and plenty of them play a spitefull game so they can clean there contionse. if you love sex have sex for the love of it not just out of spite.
2006-11-02 02:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by jesse g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you get a taste of the cheating lifestyle, it's so easy for you to do it again, and then again.
2006-11-02 02:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by stevieeee12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋