so last night my b/f's ex called AGAIN last night....when i said something he got mad ( as usual) and was like " i dont know what you want me to do" so called and checked his voicemail...and she said she was coming back home from college, and she wanted to get together. When I asked if she left him a msg he said no. Is this b/c he doesnt want me to get mad...or do I have a cheater on my hands? I told him to call her back and tell her to stop calling, but he refused b/c " he HATES her", and wants nothing to do with her. Is this sketchy or it just me? pls give advice....I feel like Im going crazy. All night long I stay up wondering if hes cheating, Im depressed, and have no one else to talk to.
xoxo
randi
2006-11-02 01:49:03 · 6 answers · asked by RANDI B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds suspicious to me. Are you sure she's his ex? How long have you been together? Call her back and have a girl to girl talk. She'll give you her side of the story.
2006-11-02 01:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calm down i dont think he is cheating she prolly just wants to be friends with him. he prolly didnt want you to know about the message because he didnt want you to get mad and then you two will argue. well my boyfriend still talks to his ex and well i hate her but he still is friends with her but i swears he only wants me and is only still friends with her and he doesnt want to go through the crap she put him through again. so yea just be patient and talk to him calmly and DONT GET MAD!!! Good Luck!
2006-11-02 01:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep a close eye on that one. If he truly hated her he would have no problem telling her to go Sh!t in her hat!
2006-11-02 01:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by noonee333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run...far far away...as fast as you can. He is obviously not committed to you or he wouldn't be talking to her, and keeping it a secret! He is just killing time with you until he can be with her!
2006-11-02 01:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive he will get back with her when she comes home you shouldnt worry your self over him thats why he wont tell her to stop calling cause his *** still talking to her
2006-11-02 01:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by caron d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM
2006-11-02 01:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋