he currently living with his partner of 5 years in rented accomidation, the lease is until next may. he wants to split up with her for various reasons, does he allow her to share flat and take spare room, or ask her to leave? pls help cause hes driving me crazy
2006-11-02 00:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by rfc_1st_to_50 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a clean break, it won't work sharing the flat.
One will get jealous if the other one brings someone home (most obvious reason).
If they are under the same roof they will end up back in the same bed & then it will start up over again - then break up again & so on.
Maybe she won't want to share the spare room. Maybe she might want him to move out.
Best thing he can do is sit down & talk it out with his partner
2006-11-02 00:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by grumbles1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 10:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be a slap in the face to her. Ok I am breaking up with u but u can stay here and we can be "friends"........hmm not after 5 years, I don't think that would work. Not only that........would your friend really want her staying there after a split? If she doesn't want to split up it's very hard for that person to switch from a lover to a room-mate. As far as the lease goes I do think he should be responsible for living up to that commitment as he is the one asking for the split, it's not her fault. If anything one thing he could offer is for her to stay if she wants and him to move out. Either way he should try to make it as easiest as possible on her.......split-ups are not easy.
2006-11-02 01:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dependant on the reasons and there is no way back, I would ask her to leave, if its his flat!
If its shared then I presume she wouldnt leave without a fight, depends how messy he wants things to get.
If he can afford it either boot her out or find somewhere else and leave her to pay all the bills!!
I had the same situation a couple of years back and she moved out on her own accord and I had the flat to myself for 2 months, best 2 months of the time of my life!
2006-11-02 00:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is paying half the rent, let her stay until he finds a roommate. But if she is not contributing to the bills @ all, kick her to the curb
2006-11-02 00:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Deja' Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the lease is up it might be easier for them both to leave and go their seperate ways! xx
2006-11-02 00:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there my advise would be if this woman of yours is driving you crazy and you wouldnt regret losing her then get rid of her because theres no point of staying with someone who you dont have feelings for.
2006-11-02 00:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of them have to leave. and it doesnt necessarily have to be her, hes the one with the issues the least he could do is let her keep the place
2006-11-02 04:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she moves out or he moves out. The lease can be transferred to either one.
2006-11-02 00:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you pay half the rent , the other moves out and still pay rent
2006-11-02 00:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋