My friend is in a relationship with this guy she has been dating for a little over a year and since summer started he began to act kind of weird with her. He never called her and they hardly even did anything over the summer and now that highschool has started up again he's been talking and flirting with a lot of other girls and he never hugs or kisses her anymore, he never even says i love you when he always used to do that. I really need help with this i can't stand to see her this way she is thinking all this is ok but i don't think it is. he hardly even agnowloges (can't spell) her in the hallway.......it makes me see mad to see her in a relationship like this. What should i/she do about it? Should i even do anything or just leave it alone??
2006-11-02 00:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by kkdej89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like hes not intrested anymore but love is blind and your friend cant see this at the moment if she thinks everything is ok there is nothing you can do its hard to just ignore it but we have to let our friends make there own mistakes and just be there for them when they need us
2006-11-02 00:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get out of it. Its his way of telling her 'i dont wanna be with you anymore' just without saying. He probably wants it to be over, just either dosent know how to tell her, or dosent want to tell her, so he hopes she sees him with other girls, or him not talking to her as a hint, and really thats a BIG one. its not worth it if isnt going to talk to her or anything. sure by breaking up with him he'll get what he wanted, but the longer she stays, the more hurt shes gonna be seeing him flirt with other girls, and ignoring her. Its not easy. But she cant stay in a 'relationship' like that, its not healthy. She needs to end it, and get back out there, find a guy thats better, rub it in her bf(then ex) face that she can find a better guy. Or just live the single life for awhile. Sometimes the best thing to do after a longer relationship.
2006-11-02 00:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone, she isn't going to listen to you anyway...if she hasn't seen the changes yet, then she is in denial. As her friend, the best thing you can do is to be there for her when she falls.
2006-11-02 00:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try talking with her. I don't see that their "relationship" is that of b/f and g/f anymore. It would be good for her to get on with her life. He is soooo not in it.
2006-11-02 00:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋