is it me????

Question

I moved in with my fiance close to 2 months ago. everything's going fine, except when we have sex, i don't think he wants to ejaculate in me. It's not a matter of pulling out either. He just doesn't come. I told him about a week ago i think, to just 'let go'.. and we haven't had sex since. Everything else in our relationship is perfect. Is something wrong with me, or does he just have issues?

Answer 1

I think it's something he has a problem with, but criticizing him doesn't help. My suspicion is he can't help it, and telling him to do it differently only embarrassed him.

Try getting him off some other way, either orally or with your hand. That way, I don't think he'll be able to avoid letting it out.

Answer 2

I don't think anything is wrong with you, yet you both have a big problem. Whatever the cause, it's going to take a lot of time to solve, and I don't think marriage is the answer. He has a deep-seated psychological fear. You need to think long, deep, and fast. Do you really want to stay in this relationship? There is no magic solution. While making love is not the sole reason you love him, it is such a huge factor in a loving relationship. Dissatisfaction will only grow over time making you more and more unhappy.

Answer 3

You have a way bigger problem than you think. Your fiance might have psycological problems because he is going against everything he was raised to believe in. You both know that fornication is taboo until you are married.
Start over. no sex till marriage.
If we don't do it God's way we will never be happy.

Answer 4

I think he needs to work on his ejaculation. Try talking about giving it him with hand or mouth

Answer 5

maybe he thinks its dirty and doesnt wanna disrespect you. tell him that it doesnt bother you and you want him to ***