I went out on a 1st date, spent 2 hrs at dinner, & later exchanged #'s.-that was last thursday.?

Question

this sunday I tried to call her-she was at work & could not talk
she said. she was away mon&tues out of town, I called her
yesterday (wed.) about 715pm, and she said she was at the gym
and would call me back- she never called back.
I tried to call her back about 930pm- and she never picked up.
I have already invested time-in this-so I have nothing to lose.
If she was not interested, all she had to say was I think you're nice, but etc.etc.etc.....She is an older woman-in her late 30's and
she is not a young immature girl- so why would she just not
say she was not interested if that was the case.???

I am going to try to call her-for my peace of mind- in case
she got back late from the gym and did not want to call too late
etc.etc...I think she owes me the decency of at least
saying she is not interested if she is not...

Any suggestions (helpful) that anyone has for me??
I would rather call and have her say no&, and know for sure,
instead of playing mind games

Answer 1

I think she is probably trying to keep from hurting your feelings. All this calling seems pretty pushy and needy, you keep calling her and she has all the power and control she keeps you looking like an idiot while her and her girlfriends laugh at you for being so needy. Don't call her back!!!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Don't call her. She's not interested. I don't know why, but some people (of all ages) will do anything to keep from just telling someone the truth.

Move on, man. Good luck.

Answer 4

she don't want to hurt Ur feelings..... the writing is on the wall.... how many hints do U need.... if she does not call U back, that right there is a good indication that she is not interested in U.... just an observation ... U seem to be to needy.....

Answer 5

don't call her anymore. She is not interested and simply doesn't want to hurt your feelings. If she is interested, she will contact you. Save face before she thinks you're a stalker lol :) sorry bud

Answer 6

It's possible she's just busy, but it sounds like she's not interested to me. Stop chasing her for a week or so, and see if she calls you. She does have your number, right?

Answer 7

Just wait for her to call you. If she doesn't call in another week. Find you a new lady.

Answer 8

if she was interested in you she would call you
calling her again will only set you up for another rejection

a relationship no matter what level shouldn't be one sided..

spend your energy in asking another person out

good luck

Answer 9

dude get the hint, don't call anymore
maybe she has something going on
with some else.
Walk away with some RESPECT.

Answer 10

sleep and put phone beside u