for 2 weeks a guy has called me everyday. no talk of relationship stuff, dating or anything. just an hour or two conversation about music movies work blah blah..... he came home for his week off (he works out of town for 3 weeks and is off for a week) and i didnt hear from him the whole week. he went back to work 3 days ago. i dont understand. he said something about comin to see me on his days off.... what should i think?????
2006-11-02 00:25:20 · 15 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he got time to waste and has his own agenda
the key to life is to have the key to life-that is the question that is to be asked-does he have it-something will be our god-david in Jesus amazing grace that saved a wretch like me :D
2006-11-02 00:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys, when searching for a special someone (I am assuming that it is not a one night stand and it is for a serious relationship) would try and befriend the one he think he likes. During the friendship period, he would try to learn much about her. If he likes what he sees, he continuous, otherwise he aborts the process (of being friends) This might be your case. But I may be wrong, maybe he just got so busy this week that is why he does not have time to call you. He may also be testing you. Maybe he would like to see your response if he suddenly stop calling you. If you call him, it may give him a signal that you like him and he may continue the friendship and eventually a deeper relationship.
If I were you, I would believe the most positive among the list I have above. I don't think you are not desperate, so never mind if he does not call or see you.
2006-11-02 08:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just got the job and has a widowed or divorced mother in your town he may have been helping her with certain chores that they couldn't get done before he left. Any other situation he could have, should have at least called. Although there again if he's been calling everyday maybe he figured you can at least call once.
2006-11-02 08:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess alot depend how you reponded when he said he would come and see you..maybe he did not feel as welcome as he should. I don't know.Telling you he was going to come and see you may have been his way of testing the waters with you and maybe (right or wrong) he did not feel the waters were warm enough..He may want more of a relationship with you but he may have gotten the wrong signal from you. Take the initiative next time and spell it out clearly so there is not confusion.
2006-11-02 08:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you and would like to get to know you better. It is heartwarming that he just talks about movies and general subjects. He must have a high moral character to want to be your friend before the relationship question comes up. You must be a very special young lady.
2006-11-02 08:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should think that he lied about coming to see you or may be he was unable to, you know a family crisis and stuff like that. Just dont think, and see where it takes you.
2006-11-02 08:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Doc M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't assume anything yet. Probably he enjoys your company and friendship. Take it easy and relax. Keep your mind open. For now, he's still getting to know you and he's taking his time. If he wants to take things further, its you and only you that he will ask.
2006-11-02 08:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about askin' him why...and for all the phone communication does he have any interest in getting to know you in person, or are you just a phone pal?
Communicate with him...that's the best way to get your answers...
2006-11-02 08:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
proceed with caution u have only known him for 2 weeks but having mutual intrest isa+
2006-11-02 09:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by terry c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to think anything. Just have the conversations with him and let things develop at their own speed.
2006-11-02 08:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by Patti T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋