2006-11-02 16:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Answers vary from person to person. One person may feel unable to handle the emotional output of one who is dealing with the questionable circumstances. Another may typically want to help/fix/cure but knows it's unhealthy to approach the other that way.
Yet even more reasons can be fear based - fear of the situation causing bad affects on them; fear of the situation growing worse; fear of it repeating. And of course, combinations of all these can be reasons.
Every person has their own issues to tackle. Bringing another person into our life doesn't mean we leave their issues behind. Partnerships are a joining of all things, and where a big problem lay, a bigger problem may develop.
Difficult/Wierd situations don't have to mean a person is unfit for a relationship. The situation needs to have controlled resolve, or the person needs to be working on controlling the things that might make it compromise his/her partners feelings and their life. It's far easier for a new relationship to develop when it has a strong foundation with healthy attitudes!
2006-11-02 17:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by ginger62874 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure why men do it, but it appears to be easier for them to withdraw and avoid any situation that is going to cause conflict with a female. As for women, that's a different story and we could be here all night listing the reasons we avoid certain men. We avoid them when we like them, we avoid them when we hate them, hell, we even avoid them when we want them sexually. Some call that playing hard to get, but when you look at the bigger picture...it's avoidance. It almost seems like both sexes are afraid to make the first move. WIth guys, they can laugh and joke it off with their buddies, but with women, we have journals, a select group of close friends, but even then, we don't discuss our deepest and darkest secrets. Instead we bottle them up and rather than taking the initiative, we stand back, observe and second guess everything we should, could, or would say.
We, humans, are such an odd and complex species.
2006-11-02 16:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't want to mess up a good thing. Sometimes when you tell that person how you feel it can make things worst and sometimes better. Just avoiding the situation is an easier way out altogether.
2006-11-02 16:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by sandysweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally when they are cheating...doing something illegal...or when they are trying to figure out how to break up with you...
I can't think of any reasons, off the top of my head, (other than the above) why a person would refuse to share it with their partner, and would actively avoid that person...
2006-11-02 16:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection....or the fear of it. Rejection of any kind is usually something neither men or women wish to experience. So rather than worry about it, we avoid it, meaning each other....for fear of some type of rejection or other negative fear.
2006-11-02 17:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by John P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are ex's. Just broke up. orrrr, they really like each other. How ironic
2006-11-02 16:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by fancy unicorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid problem of sexual harassment.
2006-11-02 16:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult/weird situations.
2006-11-02 16:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage wanting children comminment or non commintment or just dont like each other any more
2006-11-02 16:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋