I let me one year old take spills when she's out in the yard without tagging below her shadow helping her up everytime. She can walk and run well, and she's strong as a bull. I want her to help herself sometimes. People look at me like I am crazy though. When people tell me something my kids have done that is negative, I ask (my 6 year old) and if it has been so, I apologize for their behavior and make them do so as well.
My baby enjoys her little personal space. Sometimes, she wants to play with her stuff alone and will swat me away. I've been called bad because I didn't hover near regardless and force my company upon her. Granted, if anyone did something cruel to my kids, I'd be pissed, but it seems a lot of parents (esp. moms) are on the razors edge anticipating a row about most anything someone says contrary about their kids. This seems to be teaching confrontational behavior and weakens the kids own defenses, in my opinion.
2006-12-07
10:57:46
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