Parents: do you guys really have unconditional love for your children? every mistake they make, you still love them as who they are? and when do you think that love begins? (during pregnancy? after birth?)
2006-12-07 14:08:19 · 17 answers · asked by BlueGirl007 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
well my parents would say that yes they do love us all the same. but they treet every one else (my 3 siblings) a lot better than me. they are always traeing me down at the slightest misstake and they think that if any thing goes wrong its my fault. they never listen to me and they alwayslisten to my brother who makes me out to be the devil. be careful when asking this kind of question, because people like my parents will say one thing, but in reality it is quite diffrent.
2006-12-07 15:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unconditional love for your children since pregnancy I would have to say. Some crazy parents who kick their kids out of their house for being gay or getting pregnant still do love their child unconditionally, they just cannot deal with their child's mistake, however that doesn't change the amount of love a person can have for their child.
2006-12-07 22:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I can honestly say I do. In fact, because I am learning daily from them, I love them more and more. I don't know for sure when it begins. I think that is different for everyone. I loved my children from the moment I knew they were on their way. (And in 4 of 4 children I knew before that test said positive) My children mean more to me than I do.... I would do anything for them. Even if I thought that what they were doing was wrong. That is unconditional love. It is sooo worth any sacrifice in the end.
2006-12-07 22:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my mother this question many years ago. My sister who was 23 at the itme had gotten mad at my mother told her she was dead to her and even went as far as to tell her son that grandma dies and he wouldn't be seeing her anymore. My mother was heartbroken and for over a year she dealt with this. I asked her then how she could love so much when she was having her heart ripped out and she said she couldn't explain it but someday when I had a child I would know. Now I am the mother of three and from the moment I knew I was pregnant I have felt a deep love for them and even when they are demons I look at them and all I can see is how much I love them and what they mean to me, no matter what they do or where they go they are my kids, a part of me and I will always love them.
2006-12-07 23:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I unconditionally love my kids. I admit that they haven't done anything that has been a true test of this, but I can't imagine turning my back on either of my kids.
When does love begin? Hmmm. I remember when I was pregnant with my oldest daughter, and I wasn't yet married. I couldn't bring myself to have an abortion, but I secretly hoped I would miscarry. So, I guess you could say I hadn't began to love her the way a parent is expected to until I held she was a viable, living breathing outside the womb being. After birth, love grows stronger.
2006-12-07 22:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when my son was 2 and a half, I came home from work and he was asleep in the living room with the babysitter. I picked him up to carry him to bed, his eyes opened and he wrapped his arms around me and gave me a big hug. I felt unconditional love from him. With me it began after the birth. My son is 14 now and I go in to check on him at night, all I can think of is how much I love him now, then and forever. It's more like a spiritual love. Hope that answers your question.
2006-12-07 22:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Christy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. there is nothing in this world any of my children could do that would kill my love for them, NOTHING! I may not like what they did, I may not agree with what they did, but the love will always remain and I would still take a bullet to save any one of them. The love begins when one is pregnant and it is set in stone when you see the child for the first time. There is no way to describe the emotion, the complete wave of love that warms every part of your body, mind, and soul with the first glimpse from the little bundle who was placed in your arms for the very first time.
2006-12-08 01:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We me it was after we decided to have a baby. My wife and I talked to the baby regularly when it moved we touched him. It never goes away and Grandparents can have unconditional love for there Grand kids as well.
To be fair if you truly love your spouse than that should be unconditional love. Why would you only give love on a condition?
2006-12-07 23:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do love my children unconditionally. That doesn't mean that I agree with everything they do, but I love them no matter what. There is no greater love than that of a parent and a child. The first time you see your child you just fall in love and it's an amazing feeling.
2006-12-07 22:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Love for my children started when I got Pregnant.Yes I still love all 3 of my children even tho they have made some mistakes,My oldest is 21 and man was he a hand full.But I love him with all my heart he has grown into a fine young man.
2006-12-07 22:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you always forgive and love your kids no matter what. However, If for a example, my daughter stole something, or committed a terrible crime like murder, I would advise them to turn them selves in. If they didn't I would!! Right is Right, Wrong is Wrong. Unconditional love doesn't mean aiding a felon. I will always love them though.
2006-12-08 02:58:36 · answer #11 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋