my 3 years old daughter is going to playhome, which is house *** school. I leave her 9.00 am to 6.30pm, but is alone after 4.30 to 6.30 pm, i am worried about her and her ajustment with their mam. And i could not do my office work. I always worried about her food, going toilets and other.
2006-12-07 20:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ur child lives in your heart and mind....so please take care of her first and then proceed with ur work
2006-12-07 21:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by vinod_lovesbodybuilding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think children adjust to day care much quicker than their mother's do. It's only natural to worry, but don't. If your daughter senses you are stressed and upset it will make it harder for her. Make sure you are confident with the facility you are leaving her in. Speak to other parents whose children are there, she if they are happy, they probably are or they would take their children out. They will know about how to deal with her food and toilet needs.
When you are leaving her, just hand her over and walk away. Don't make a big fuss about saying goodbye. One of the important things children learn from daycare is that mummy will come back at the end of the day and collect them. It does wonders for their confidence.
Finally, if she is screaming like a banshee when you leave, ignore it. I know it's hard. But there is a very good chance that the moment you are out of sight she will stop. One morning I left my 3 year old (now 19) at nursery, she was howling blue murder but I had to get to work so I had no choice. My friend was walking in with her son as I left. When I called my friend later in the day to ask how Abi was she said "fine" I said, "oh but she was so upset when I left her." "Well she was fine when I arrived" said my friend, I promise you that was less than a minute after I left the room.
Your daughter will do fine, relax.
2006-12-08 05:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying over something you can't control. The best thing to do, is to ask their 'Ma'am" if there are any problems regarding this. If you can do something then do it. If it is beyond your control , then don't worry. These are all part of growing up. Allow your kid some space to think for herself. This will make her character stronger more independent which is a big plus when she grows up.
2006-12-08 04:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will be fine.did you tour the place?and you can all ways just call them up any time you like to see how she is doing.
2006-12-08 04:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by mu_ba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEST FOR YOUR CHILD IS BEING CARED FOR BY HER MOTHER !!!
ARE YOU ABLE TO NOT WORK !!!???!!!
IF NOT THEN MAKE SURE TO HAVE A VERY CLOSE KNIT AND OPEN RELATIONSHIP WITH THE CAREGIVER SO BOTH OF YOU CARE WORK ON A PLAN IN THE BEST INTEREST OF YOUR CHILD !!!
2006-12-08 04:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋