I had my son at 19. I was clueless at raising a son and since his father and I split up during my pregnancy, I raised him on my own. I never had much money, so even though I provided the necessary things, I never could provide alot of extras until he was older. Now at 29, I am remarried and we have a 2 yr. old daughter. I have enjoyed raising an infant and toddler so much more this time around and I tend to do and buy much more for my daugher than I do for my son or stepson. It is not that she is an easier child, its just that I know more and have more energy,and also because shes a girl and I love girly things. I know that I go overboard buying clothes, toys and little cutsy decorative things for my daughter, but I do it for my own enjoyment, not hers(at 2 yrs. old she isn't asking for all this stuff). I feel guilty for showering my daugher with so much more attention and stuff, but I can't help it. Am I a bad person?????
2006-07-14
08:13:46
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LittleMermaid
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