what can i do if a stranger scream at my daughter?

Question

the men infront of me was paing and she was abount to put a toy in the scanner and the guy put a strong voice and told her to wait and puch the toy away with her hand onit i told him u are noboby to tel her nothing that way she has a mother i told him so much crup that i madeit seam i was calling the police he said call him and said that i was harassing him how about that it piss me off more and told a lot of shet more my doughter got so sacare she even told me way he did that and that to call her dad im so sad that a men would take avantege like that

Answer 1

HE HAD NO RIGHT SPEAKING TO YOUR DAUGHTER THAT WAY BUT IF YOU ARE QUICK TO TELL HIM THAT SHE HAS A MOTHER THAN ACT LIKE ONE!! DON'T LET YOUR DAUGHTER BE DISRESPECTFUL IN PUBLIC THEN NOBODY WILL TOUCH OR TALK TO HER IN A INDECENT MANNER. BE A MOM-DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN!!

Answer 2

Well first of all, it depends on how serious, but take your daughter and tell him firmly he has NO right to speak to your daughter that way! That's just wrong. Leave, and once you get home, call the police right away if it's serious. If for some reason he would try and hurt you or your daughter or run after you, kick him in the you-know-what. If it's a girl, which noone is reffering to apparently, kick at her shin really hard.

Make sure to talk to your daughter about it... and don't get too overwhelmed because it will make your daughter uncomfortable in the situation. Don't overreact if it wasn't a big deal and keep your good senses about it! This is a priority. If you do this, everything else will just fall into place. Whatever you do, keep yourself together.

Answer 3

Something like this actually happened to me. I have a son with a disability, and we where at a Mall in Kansas City a few years ago. My son had a sort of melt down because of all of the people, and a woman came right up into his face and started screaming at him. I immediately got right in her face and firmly but calmly told she better back off or I would see her in court for harassment and discrimination of a disabled Child. She backed off rather quickly, and then I followed her and told her everything she needed to know about autism between the Gap and JC Penney. She almost ran to get away from me! I was pissed to say the least!

Answer 4

Well I have 3 children- and a child should learn to wait their turn- as for the man yelling- well lets just say hope he never becomes a dad. if a man would of approached my daughters or son like that... I would have made my child say sorry_RESPECTING ELDERS_ even if they are in the wrong-or not- If he touched her or grabbed her arm then yes I would of yelled at him. you'll have to let it go..
Then after i would of told the man- back off- she apologized- your child is going to go through life with all types of idiots- she has to develop backbone.
Children get yelled at all the time- by the grumpy old man down the street- or the woman that hates children- or a spitfull teacher. Let your child learn to have something like that go through one ear then the other..
but alwayz respect whomever because their an elder...

Just think one day I mouthed off to a man that came up to my daughter- an older gentleman and told my 5 yr old to get off the sidewalk- he grabbed her bike- Oh yes I yelled at him- Turned out he waz a cop!!!

Answer 5

If it is a person around the neighborhood, or that you know their name, make a police report of harrassment. Things can escalate more quickly than you may think.

When I was little, we lived in a house, and the back of the house faced a round field, that was city property. There were houses all around this field, and all the neighborhood kids would go there to play, climb trees, etc. We were playing in the field one day, and one of the old neighbors (mentally unsound) started yelling at us kids. At the time, I think I was about 6 years old. We ran back, and told our dad, and went back in the field. Later that day, this crazy neighbor got a shovel (seriously) and told us he was going to slap us around with the shovel (putting it nicely here.). My dad got irate, went down there, and the cops were called, but he could have really hurt one of us kids. Just be careful, you never know who you're dealing with. Let anyone who yells at your kids know that it is not appropriate, and they are your child. I've even had to do this to my sister, for sticking her nose where it doesn't belong, and trying to discipline my child, right in front of me!
Good luck,

Answer 6

What in the heck was your kid doing to make someone scream at them? I screamed at a kid once for hitting my kid on the playground and then I told her mother that she should keep her little animals on leashes and if she came near my kid again I was going to kick the mom's butt just for the hell of it. They both deserved it, and left shortly after.

Some people have stupid, out of control kids and if you don't correct them when they are bugging you, especially if the parent ignores it, then you're a politically correct moron who deserves what you get! In my case, They both deserved to get yelled at 1. Because the kid was being violent and abusive for no good reason and 2. because the mother not only saw it but ignored it twice before I said something. I got right down on eye level and screamed right into her face... and I would do it again too with no guilt or remorse!

I get it from my mother who also has protected my children in similar ways. One time, on the public ice rink there was a father with his two daughters who rather than fall, closelined my then 7 year old son and almost knocked him out. When my mother brought my son to him and showed him his gash on his head, the guy laughed at her and said "he's alright." My mother proceeded to kick the guy in the knees until he fell, crying like a little bit*ch to which my mother added. "Oh shut up it's not that bad and laughed all the way home.

Sometimes... you need to control your kids. If you don't, it is YOU putting them in harms way because some of us don't take sh*it!

Answer 7

Sceamed? as in yelled or sceamed in fear? If a stranger screamed at my kid for no reason I beat the crap out of them and then call the police! Also how old is your kid? and was there some reason the person screamed (was your kids being really bad?) Did you see this happen or did your child tell you about it? Some kids make up things to be interesting.
If the person screamed in fear then that person needs help and I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 8

I've thought about this too. I would have to tell the person that they have no right to yell at my child. But I wouldn't yell back. People who yell at children are often out of their mind so you don't want to engage a crazy person with your child around. If you can remove your child from the area to a safe place and then return to talk to the person. I would only do this if you think you might see the person again. Otherwise its best to walk away from nuts like that. Then I'd make sure to explain to your child that that person had no right to yell at them and they shouldn't fear that person but to get help if they do yell at the child again.

Answer 9

I'd be livid! Depending on ur daughter's age, I'd walk her a bit away and confront the jerk. Tell them that they have no right to do something like that and that you'll be discussing it with your local police department (just as a warning, a threat to scare them). I'd actually call a non-emergency # and ask what they suggest.

Answer 10

Hang on a minute....you said that he "sternly" told your daughter to wait. That caused you to blow up like that???

Ok, yes children need to learn to wait their turn, and yes there are crotchety people out there who don't bend down to children and say "you have to wait your turn sweet heart".

But for an adult to correct a child in a stern voice...hey ok.

When I was a child you repsected adults, when the guy down the street told you to do your coat up in the winter you did it up...even if you undid it around the corner again. Children are taught not to respect adults from a young age now and it is stemming from the parents.

One parent to another can't talk about something happening because everyone is on the hate to one another instead of caring about the children. ie: child kicks your dog on the front lawn and you go to nicely disguss this with the child's parent and they tell you where to go.....what???

Get a grip really....that kind of scene for someone sternly telling your child to wait is surely adding to the downfall of society!!

Answer 11

It depends on the situation. Was he yelling at her because she bumped into him? Or was he yelling at her to get out of the street? Do you have more details?
Also you need to remember that your daughter is watching. If she sees you yelling, then that is how she learns to handle a similar situation. If she sees you stay calm and try to find the whole story, then she will learn that too.