So, I'm usually not insecure, but lately I have been getting a lot of mixed messages. Last year I was obsessed if I was overweight, or even a little bit chubby. This year things are starting to change, but recently a boy I like called me fat. When I told my other friends about this they shrugged uncomfortably but didn't disagree.
I'm 5"5-6 and I weight 120lb. I'm not at all muscly and I have more of a curvy build, and not necessarily a "heavy upstairs". I'm lacking all of the attributes that could account for if I was overweight, and whenever I ask my mother she responds with "You're thin, not skinny! Everybody has a little flab of stomach, it's natural. Just eat healthy, and excersise, etc." but she's said it so much I'm starting to think she's hiding something. I have a normal BMI, and but when I look in the mirror I become so upset I scratch my arms until they almost bleed.
Am I overweight, chubby, or even pudgy?
(I'm 14)
2007-09-25
08:45:45
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Xandra M
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