Please, help me.
I have just been talking to a classmate (a friend of mine), and he told me that I need to relax, that I'm a nerd and that I'm never going to find a girlfriend.
Though objectively that's not true, (girls like me, and a lot of girls find me cute, they say so), and I'm pretty hansome, after he said that, I feel terrible.
I feel like I'm no one.
I feel wortheless.
I feel traumatized. I feel like I want to die... How come that I get so easily affected by words? How come that other people can hurt me?
Now, I feel like I'm myself --- in his eyes. That's why I feel so bad.
He's not right. Is he?
Note: I'm 15. I never had a girlfriend, but not because I couldn't find one, but because I'm waiting for the real one and I don't want to talk about my feelings with my friends.
Can I rely on objective proof (that girls like me) or on his words (that I'm no-one when it comes to girl?)
Help me.
2007-03-23
06:58:41
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ciomlol
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Mental Health