Weddings - September 2007

ok so heres my dilema...Our bridal party consist of 3 on each side 1 moh 2 bm and 1 bm and 2 gm. My FH added his other 4 closest friends bc he wants him involved. I am okay witht that. So it makes it a total of 7 guys now and 3 girls. I don't have anyone else to add bc well I don't have many female friends. We gettin married in a month. Does any one have any ideas of where to put them? Please help.

2007-09-27 01:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by redsoxchica06 1

Dearest Ains and Claire,

It is with my deepest regret that I have to inform you that I will be unable to attend your wedding. Robyn and I wish you lots of joy and happiness and would like to invite you both to join us for Dinner after you come back from honeymoon and are settled in.

Lots of Love Harry x

2007-09-27 01:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

I have accepted an invitation to my very good friends wedding .... in scotland .... it is a fairly big event spanning 5 days ..... At the time I didnt have a girlfriend .... but I do now .... and assumed it would be alright for her to come along with me .... But the bride is getting a bit worked up about not knowing her .... and apparently there isnt enough room to add one more person for the Reception meal .....

I came up with several alternatives like we would just go to the church and then to the drinks and canapes afterwards and not the wedding dinner ..... but it just seems like the bride doesnt even want my g/f to go to that either ......

I am caught in a real situation bearing in mind I told my g/f it would be fine and bought her two dresses for the wedding ..... I am thinking of not going at all if they are not even prepared to to see her on any level .....

I just need a really nice good way of saying that I cant now make it ..... preferably without offending anyone.

2007-09-26 23:57:20 · 34 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

My dad and I have never gotten along. I'm 28. It seems all the father/daughter dance songs are for those who have close relationships. We do not.

2007-09-26 16:25:49 · 16 answers · asked by First Lady 7

This is my fiance's second wedding and my first. His sister and I are the same age. I don't like her. His mother is apparently mad that she is not in the wedding, but has said nothing to me about it. I don't want her in the wedding. My two sisters are my bridesmaids and they are both in good shape. I picked a dress that flatters them. My fiance's sister is... well... fat and would look horrible in the dress. I know that I will have to bear the brunt for her not being in the wedding -or- have to hear about how inconsiderate I am for making her wear such an unflattering dress. HELP!!! She is such a spoiled brat and gets whatever she wants. I'm ranting; I know... I just need some backup here.

2007-09-26 15:52:45 · 13 answers · asked by tinars02 2

Also should I get a special insignia on my tux because I saved him from alcohol poisoning in college??

2007-09-26 15:51:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 13:59:11 · 16 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5

the first song ever like on one of your first dates?
and what song for your wedding song? everytime you hear it, do you just think back to that day?

my first with my boyfriend (hubby now):
Fools rush in by Elvis

wedding song:
I wanna sex you up by Color me badd

2007-09-26 13:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by loriloriloriloriv 5

I've been reading through several questions regarding Bachelor Parties and strippers and the resounding answer has basically been "Bachelor parties have the old fashioned notion that the guy has one last night to 'sow his wild oats'. If a guy is engaged, all his wild oats should have already been sown." and that basically, all that stuff should have been done before we started dating. My question is: Do you really expect people to act like they do in the movies (love at first sight) and know you are going to marry a girl once you start dating? Or is it that you "sow your oats" right before you propose? I feel that there isn't a clear line between simply dating, finding that you really like the person, and getting into a relationship. Its more of a gradual process as the relationship gets more serious. Isnt the wedding the clear line to say, "OK, I am yours forever"? Isn't that why bachelor parties happen right before the wedding?

2007-09-26 12:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by ZombieExpert 2

You guys give answers. I have a huge proplem. I asked one of my friends to be my bridesmaids I moved out of the house we were living in to save money. One of the other roomates got into a fight with me about me moving. This friend took the roomates side was a huge jerk to me. And hasn't spoke to me in 2 weeks. what do i do with her being in the wedding??

2007-09-26 12:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am on the fence as to wether or not I should get a wedding consultant for day of wedding duties. Has anyone had experience with wedding consultants for day of wedding coordinating only? Or will I be able to successfully delegate these misc. wedding day tasks to bridesmaids, etc. ? I have never been married before, and not been in wedding parties either, so I have no clue. We are on a pretty tight budget - paying for the wedding ourselves (total budget for the wedding day is less than $10K). Thanks for your input.

2007-09-26 11:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by akylehorton 1

I have no Idea where to start. I was thinking of getting a wedding planner. Does anyone know how that works, the cost, and if you have to pay cash or can you finance it?

2007-09-26 11:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by nisseee 1

Who is responsible to buy the flower girl dresses?
When should I register at stores like JC Pennys and Belk? (Getting married in June)

2007-09-26 10:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by *His Wifey* 3

Has anyone been married in Las Vegas and where did you have your ceremoney and reception at ? Im having a hard time finding places that arent that expensive for about 100 peaple and our budget is $5,000- Thanks !!!

2007-09-26 10:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, long story short- I had to get a new wedding gown. This is the gown-
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=962&prodgroup=127

This gown unlike my other first gown is covered in pearls.
My tiara which is non-refundable has NO pearls in it- all crystals- clear crystal beads and rhinestones. My veil also has NO pearls on it- just clear crystals. The dress does have clear sequins all over it so the dress does sparkle/shimmer.
The only piece of Jewelry I was going to wear are these drop earrings that my fiancé bought me and they are white gold with little diamonds and a big 1/4" canary diamond hangs off the stem. He paid over $3,000 for these earrings so I HAVE to wear them. Don’t get me wrong- I LOVE them but I might have gotten diamonds and pearls looking at this dress.

My question is do all my accessories sound OK with the new dress?
And are just earrings OK? I would rather not have a necklace.
Do only brides notice these small details?

2007-09-26 10:11:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-26 09:59:17 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married next year and my parents have offered us some money to help pay for the wedding. I told my dad that we don't need their money and that my fiance and I want to pay for everything. After talking with my mum she told me dad had saved especially for it and that he really wants to help out. I feel really guilty not taking them up on their offer but I know deep in my heart that they can not afford to give it to us and the money would be better spent on themselves. Is what I have done right? and is there any other way I can make them feel like they are contributing?

2007-09-26 09:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my brother's wedding last year and after the wedding and reception were over, I helped him and his new bride carry gifts up to their room. He was exhausted and fell asleep on the couch. She looked so beautiful in her wedding gown. I felt so bad that my brother was not going to make love to her. So, I helped her off with her dress and we made love. And now I feel kind of guilty. Should I tell my brother?

2007-09-26 09:33:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three friends are hosting a bridal shower for me on Sunday. One is my maid of honor. Any good suggestions on what to give them as gifts for hosting the shower?

2007-09-26 09:01:49 · 6 answers · asked by clg1975 3

I just got engaged and we are having trouble deciding what color we want! He mostly left it up to me but I would like to make him comfortible in the color he wears too..... The colors I have found and really like are: Victorian rose, Orchid, Dark periwinkle, Carribean blue, Beige, and copper. I figured if I did a poll on answers some of you could help me decide. Thank you for all who can help

2007-09-26 08:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by lttlbt22 3

My bridesmaids will wear navy with gold sashes and the men will wear black tux's with black shirts and gold tie/vest. My dress is light gold and I need major help with flowers! I would like something very affordable and elegant, hopefully something with a little blue in it and possibly incorporate some ivory roses. I would love all suggestions!!

2007-09-26 08:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer T 3

First off she was mad because I could not be in her wedding because I was pregnant...Now she is mad because I delivered on the same day as her wedding. Its not like I was enduced or anything...I didn't plan on giving birth...I wasn't due for a couple more weeks.
My hubby was a groomsmen and had to bow out because I went into labor...Not really a problem because he had been bumped to the end of the groomsmen line since I had dropped out. She is claiming I wanted all the attention to myself because I don't want her to be happy. (So far from the truth, I'm glad she finally settled down and found the person she wanted to be with, after 3 failed engagements I'm extreemly happy for her.) Anyway, some of the guest didn't stay for the entire reception, because they came to the hospital to see me and the baby..my parents didn't stay to attend the wedding, and some guests did not attend the brunch that was hosted the next day for the couple.How is this my fault? What did she expect me 2 do?

2007-09-26 08:38:40 · 42 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1

I am helping my sister pick out songs for her wedding and she said she wants a duet for the first dance (bride and groom). She wants a duet, because she said that most songs are either from the man's or the woman's point of view, and she wants BOTH for her first dance. Thanks for the help!

2007-09-26 07:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by Amber L 2

Getting ready to propose and I want it to be really special, but not too over the top - not my style. I know my girlfriend would like something romantic, but not cheesy. I am hoping to pop the question late October, Early/Mid November. We are located in Southeastern PA, USA. Any suggestions? ? ?

2007-09-26 07:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by CA241 1

i need a song for my sisters wedding i want to sing for her any ideas?

2007-09-26 07:20:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some good sites to look at for my wedding dress.flowers everything can you help?

2007-09-26 07:11:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did any one had their wedding reception at Ritz-Carlton, Pasadena? Or any one been to friend's wedding at that hotel? I would like to know about the food quality and the service of the staff is good or not?

2007-09-26 07:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by JaDyChInG 1

My wedding date is Dec.3.Me and my husband want to renew our vows (it will be 10 years)The problem is its in winter time and I do not have a house big enough for every one.So it would have to be done outside,but then it might be to cold for the elders.My grandmother wanted me to have it in June or July.And if I have it in June can I use the winter colors for the decorations.This is the time our families get together and see me and my husband recite our vows to one another.When we got married we went to the justice of the peace.We had a lot of hard times and now we are starting over fresh.Bottom line no one thought we would last.So now we want to do this right,in front of or families.We are not having a wedding,more like an anniversary with renewing the vows with the clergy.So even though we got married in december can we do our renewal in june.I want this to be special.

2007-09-26 07:07:57 · 5 answers · asked by shadowmonkeyblue 3

before i pick a florist, can anyone tell me how much they think i could expect to pay all in? i'm getting married in belfast, so if anyone has any handy hints about there, they're very welcome!

2007-09-26 07:07:27 · 20 answers · asked by Maggie S 2

Do I mail is as Mrs. or Ms. or Miss?

ANyone know? :) thanks in advance

by the way the woman is my grandmother

2007-09-26 06:55:49 · 18 answers · asked by cherriwaves 3