My fiance proposed to me over Christmas. We set the date for this July and began telling our family and friends. A month ago his mother tells me her and her new fiance (together for about 1 year) have set their date for the same date. She refuses to change, for no real reasons (she comes up with excuses for them, already told family/friends, took of work, etc. - all of which I had also done months prior). My fiance is still on my side of this, can't believe his mom did this to him, but he just wants everyone to get along and be happy, and now all of a sudden I feel like the bad guy, have been asked to apologize (by his sister) and more. It's ridiculous! I had set our date first, booked the place, called family from out of state, etc., not only to mention I have sentimental feeling for my chosen date, she told me they wanted it for the pretty flowers in season. So how do I keep the peace without sacrificing MY day to my future Mother-in-Law?
2007-05-18
08:19:56
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Ramsey S
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