I'm forming my wedding around the idea of being a blast for my guests....give me pointers even if you've never been to a wedding. What should I do/not do? I'm having a very short light-on-tradition sunset beach ceremony outside, reception in covered patio area, delicious luau-inspired food, open bar, fireworks, no receiving line....what else can I do that would be cool/unusual/memorable?
2007-05-19 05:11:54 · 20 answers · asked by Lindsay W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Speaking as a guest, I want comfort. Chairs aplenty. Easy access to a rest room. And plenty of food. I don't drink so I don't care about booze. A good deejay or band. I dance, but if the reception doesn't have dancing that is ok. And not having to feel like I was invited for my gift. The bride and groom stopping by for a minute to say hi, glad you could make it. I am easy to please.
2007-05-19 05:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a nice black dress is perfectly acceptable these days- every woman should have one. I have been to a few weddings this summer, and plenty of women were wearing a black cocktail dress. Also, I think it's a little bratty and selfish to make rules for your guests about how they should go about giving you gifts. Um, do you want a gift or not? Forget about this so-called rule of etiquette. I suggest bringing the gift to the wedding- TRUST ME- you will not be the only one to do so. Lugging the gifts from the wedding to the couple's house (or wherever) is the job of the bridesmaids, not the bride and groom. I would say it's a little old-fashioned to open the gifts at the wedding. After all, having a bunch of gifts to open leaves something for the couple to look forward to after the honeymoon is over. As far as food goes... I can completely understand where you are coming from. After you pay for a new outfit, a gift and travel expenses, at the very least, you kind of expect a meal! However, I think a lot of people have forgotten that the point of a wedding is to witness a very special event in a friend/ relative's life, and to basically show up to give your support and congratulations. The reception is a way of thanking people for coming and continuing the celebration. Some people just can't afford to feed everyone, but they still want to have some sort of party, however small. On that note, I think it's a really bad idea to hold a reception during dinner time and not have a meal- Hello! People are going to be hungry and end up leaving early. Just having snacks is totally fine- Just have the wedding earlier in that case (like about two in the afternoon)!
2016-05-17 10:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by juana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
Im also planning my wedding, and here are some things that I am considering incorporating:
1) If you are having kids-you can make a kiddie play pack filled with colouring books, colour pencils, play dough, and other cheap toys. Im sure the kids will enjoy playing, and the Parents will LOVE not having to keep the kids buys!
2) You can consider giving wedding tokens-especially ones that will go back with your theme- i love these matching "flip Flop " favors :
http://www.favorfavor.com/page/FF/PROD/8911
http://www.favorfavor.com/page/FF/PROD/4841
3. Delicious Desserts always impress guests as well- a chocolate fountain will definitely make your day memorable!
4. You can have unique snow cone flavors ( crushed ice with a special blend of your favourite flavors)
5.Try to organise a Fabulous Get Away Boat. Immediately after the ceremony, let the boat drive pick you and your new husband up at the shore, and sail off into the sunset. You can come back a bit later an party with the guests, but this will surely make the first few Mins. of Newly wed life soooo special and memorable!
2007-05-19 05:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Caribbean_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think comfort and food are the most important. Have good food, and have plenty of places to sit, set down plates and cups, etc. I hate trying to balance a plate and a drink in my lap. Small tables would be nice. Also, good music. I think the fireworks are an awesome idea!! How unique and extravagant!! I would leave that as a surprise, and not tell anyone and just have them start going off. :) I wouldn't worry too much about favors. Like, I wouldn't spend alot of money on them. People just lose track of them after the wedding anyway. I'm giving out silver kissing bells. Instead of tapping a glass, they ring the bells when they want us to kiss. I think it's a fun idea.
Also, keep your guests in mind. Of course you'll want pictures after the wedding, but try to get through them as quickly as possible and get to your guests. They'll hate to be left waiting.
Oh and a BIG deal. If it's hot make sure you have some sort of fans or something set up to keep your guests cool! I went to a wedding in the south on July 1st and I thought I was going to melt from the heat.
2007-05-19 05:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I care about good music, good food and readily available booze. I'm a personal believer that its not necessary to have an open bar for the whole night. I think a cocktail hour is more than reasonable. You are already buying everyone dinner, you shouldn't feel like you should buy them drinks the whole night too. Just as long as the bartenders are good and there are enough of them. There is nothing I hate more than standing in line forever to get a drink and missing out on some quality party time:)
2007-05-19 07:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by sjmnstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great music and not the traditional wedding music like the chicken dance and etc that gets overplayed. of course great food and beer. i am planning a wedding next year and i think trinkets for the guest are a waste of time and money. i would not invest in those if not needed. the guests never take them. in your case though, i think maybe giving each person a lei since your wedding is like a tropical theme. sounds really cool and pretty! can i come???? just teasing!!!!
2007-05-19 06:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the dancing, most weddings I have been to have had either a band or DJ or smaller weddings have had music playing, I like that. Of course I enjoy the food and a wee drink as well, but I can't say I remember every wedding meal I have eaten.
2007-05-21 01:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The food should be good and open bar is always great. Try to get a really good dj that plays good music and gets the guests going.
2007-05-19 05:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got it nailed. I was going to say; "Short service, minimal scripture, short speeches!", but it sounds like you honestly have nailed it.
People are trying to look nice (and thin!), so food they can feel good about is nice, and of course, booze always improves the mood!
Ladies like momentos, men like to see nice-looking ladies. Sometimes, "mixer" type opportunities are nice for the singles in the group. Sounds like you could even do something unusual like volleyball or some beach event....
2007-05-19 05:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by The Avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally at a beach wedding i would enjoy lots of thonged big ghetto bootied pretty women who are recovering sex addicts looking to fall off the wagon. That would make many memorable moments for this guest, what time is the wedding?
2007-05-19 05:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋