Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

we finished on pretty good terms but all of a sudden he's being really nasty and offensive and yesterday he said i was minging although when we were together he told me i was beautiful-confused!!! lastnight i was feeling self conscious becuase of what he said!!!!

2007-12-09 02:22:09 · 57 answers · asked by BscHons 6

Not that your the one. Not to say I'm right. Not to say today. And not to say a thing.. tonight

2007-12-09 02:20:58 · 12 answers · asked by nastyblues 1

2007-12-09 02:17:38 · 16 answers · asked by forest lover 2

It hurts my feelings and makes me feel unmportant to him. He says I will get every Sunday night and Monday night. But I dont think I should have to sit at home every saturday night and pine away for him. Especially when I have five other guys calling me who I keep putting off because I dont want to cheat on my boyfriend, but I feel like if I am unimportant to him I am wasting my time. If I tell him how I feel it will start a fight and I am so tired of fighting. I do love him, but I think he wants an exclusive relationship (IE I dont sleep with anyone else) and I want a serious relationship(which includes exclusive but also more). I dont know what to do. He says he loves me and I am someone he can marry but he doesnt know if he sees me in his future (This makes my head spin like the exorcist because it is such a contradiction) Can someone guy or girl please give me some heartfelt advice before I do something stupid. . We have been dating for six months. Do mens feelings grow?

2007-12-09 02:17:35 · 22 answers · asked by theotherwoman 2

I'm going on my 4th date with this boy. It seems everytime on day I am about to go out with him I get very nervous and I don't eat much and I'm fidgety. When I see him the nerves kind of go away. Well about a little over a week ago he asked me how he would know I'm ready to move to the next level. I told him it's only been a month and since I'm a virgin I was very offended. He kept appologizing and said that he had tears in his eyes and he didn't want to lose me. Well my friends and my father are telling me they don't care that he appologized that I should call it off with this boy because that was and is not the right way to talk to me. I am seeing him again tonight and we are going to his house (he lives with his parents) and he is going to make dinner for me and have candles and wine but, as you can guess I am very nervous.

2007-12-09 02:13:11 · 2 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

more precisely a girl you have met in a pu/club a few hours earlier

2007-12-09 02:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by BscHons 6

my bf has this cousin named lil man and lil man has a sister named rochelle she's a slut and my bf has been friends with both of them for 10 years and i asked him one day would he ever have sex with rochelle or has he thought about it and he yeah he thought about but it was before he met me but i can't stop thinkin he likes her and she hits on him alot but he says he loves me but he wanted to have sex with her a long time ago cuz she got a really big butt (i don't) but i love him and trust him but i can't help but think he still kinda likes her and i can't help wanting to kill her everytime i see her cuz she hits on him help plz (guys mostly)

2007-12-09 02:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always had a crush on my ex's best friend, even when we were together. We broke up two years ago, but I recently was lost my apt, and moved into my ex's apt. We sleep in seperate rooms, and their is nothing between us anymore. However, I hooked up with his best friend three months ago, and we have been talking and seeing each other ever since. My ex found out, and was livid, but we were through two years ago! Well, now I cannot see his friend, and we are limited to exchanging emails daily. I really want to see him, and my ex is making life for me miserable. I am a grown woman, but I feel badly about this whole thing. I do not want to stop talking to his friend, we get along better than I ever did with my ex, and he is closer to my age. Am I wrong for wanting to be with this guy, or what? Can anyone out there relate or help me?

2007-12-09 02:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by Gigi 2

I was friends with a co-worker, so I knew it was OK to tell her in a subile hinting way about the dream. She was shocked that I told her and possibly shocked that I dreamed of her. I know she was very flattered. We were in our 40's. When she realised what I dreamed, she screamed "OH MY GOD!!!"
I did not directly spell out the details so as not to be too forward or get myself in trouble at work. Problaby not a good idea to tell things like this to a person that is married that you dreamed of sex with them.

2007-12-09 02:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by OceanBlue0910 2

He's not bad looking and has a good athletic body. He has a job that pays well, a college degree, but he's a loner. He spends the majority of his time alone. He'll travel alone. Shop alone. Work out and train alone. He doesn't have ANY friends.... would you think he's a loser and wouldn't date him?

2007-12-09 02:00:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so we have been dating for almost a year and a half, and well I really have ran out of options, like I already have done all the cute ideas, and the sporty ideas, but I need something really good...and cute. I need help. asap. Thanks so much =)

2007-12-09 01:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by kickitup21 1

I asked a poorly worded question on standards the other day and was brutally attacked for being "mean" and/or putting down the type of the guy that I deem not my personal taste.

So I ask you: why do people attack others verbally for having standards on looks, however minimal they are, if they are not that great looking themselves? Essentially one annoying comment was "you're not Angelina Jolie-esque...[how can you have standards]." So attractive people are allowed standards, but plain folks must take what they get?
All I ask for in a man is that he be smart, funny, proactive, and have a few things in common with me. How else does a relationship spark if not for commonality. As for looks, I just said I don't find large or ugly (I usually find something nice in almost all guys) attractive off the bat. That's not to say if i get to know them, that their attractiveness may go up.
How does this criteria incite such ruckus a la The Lottery?

2007-12-09 01:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by Carolina P 2

i was dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we broke up a few weeks ago. he has been hanging out with this other girl. i know that they have kissed once, but he acts like it meant nothing to him. he still tells me he loves me, and he also tells me that he's in love with me. i'm still in love with him and i would do anything to be with him again. he tells me i'm the best thing that has ever happened to him, so why would he want to give that away? it's confusing for me. he tells me that i am the love of his life, and i know he is the love of my life. i know that we are meant to be together. i just don't know how to make him realize that if he's not careful, he could lose me. i also want him to realize what he's doing to me and how much it hurts me. i love him so much.

i need help!!!!

2007-12-09 01:57:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok for years women have been calling men cheaters, but these days women are on a rampage when it comes to cheating, i've been cheated on once, and i learned that women lies are on point, because you will never know. I have a theory that all women have deceiving ways in them, and i also believe that in a relationship a woman will cheat at least once or more behind your back.

I'm not saying these things because I'm hurt or anything, I'm just deciding on taking the playa route, in that way you can avoid scandalous women, and be single, and date numerous of women. I'm 19, and older men always tell me never trust a woman, because once you do...it's over, and i learned never be to emotional with women, because they can detect these things, i also learned that maybe some woemn from ages 26 and up can be faithful in relationships but younger ages starting from 18 are attention whores, and thats a stage they go thorugh in life before they are mature about relationships..so they will cheat

2007-12-09 01:54:57 · 12 answers · asked by mr discreet 1

I give her private lessons in literature, and she has a crush on me.. She keeps on telling me that I am beautiful, and that she loves me. I have cancelled a meeting today, and she came to my house anyways, because she says she misses me.

She hates my room mate, I think she might be jealous.

I dont know what to do because she is currently under depression treatment. She is 19 by the way, and I am 25.

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I do not teach at the school where she learns. I have tried talking to her mom, but she is blinded by her parenting love. I am just scared that she is gonna do something rash if I end it.

Like today, i couldnt convince her to go away, and I finally told her that I have to go as well. She begged me to let her stay with me while I get dressed, then we left togather, I circled the park and came back home.

I am a woman, by the way

2007-12-09 01:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend told me that my crush told him that he said he had a crush on me, but that was 2 or 3 months ago, and my friend didn't know if he still liked me. He had crushes on other girls and he told them when he did , But why didn't he tell me when he had a crush on me?or does he still have a crush on me and doesn't want to tell me?

2007-12-09 01:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by HopeSo 2

I met this guy online...merely for sex..as agreed..but things goes wrong...I fell inlove with him..and he in the other hand sometimes show same mutual feeling but sometimes give me a cold shoulder.
I would really want to know, would a guy really appreciate a relationship like this? or is just a fling or a convinience?
I am confuse really.
Please help.
Thanks

2007-12-09 01:45:56 · 22 answers · asked by DoubtInLove 1

my friend broke me and my boyfriend up now he is calling me what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2007-12-09 01:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Erh, My friend and i , we were eating pizza in a restaurant and she was using fork and knife and i was using my hands, so we were wondering which one was the right way because both of our families are teaching different stuff. :x

So do you really eat pizza with hands or kinfe and fork?

2007-12-09 01:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by Foo J {: 2

shy & quiet.
i don't talk in large groups of people, but i'm nice & talkative with close friends
especially shy with guys,
they don't seem to notice me,
anyone in the same situation?

i'm 15

2007-12-09 01:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by me 2

OK so i met a bloke lastnight (hes good mates with my friend) at the end of the night he asked me if i liked any of his group i said yes, you-and he liked me to he said. a few of us went back to his mates to watch the boxing and he was telling me he fancied me and i was gorgous etc. we had a cuddle watching the fight then we all went home at 6 as he had to be in work in 2 hrs!!! so i text him (i know i should play it cool and i normally do! but he seemed keen and i liked him so i thought stuff it! but he hasnt replied!!

i think he has come out of a long relationship and we live about an hour or more apart but we both drive.

2007-12-09 01:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by BscHons 6

I love a woman very much, and she loves me. But I hurt her by being in contact with my ex, who ran off and now came back. I only spoke to her (ex) on line never met her. My gf found out and hurt her very much. Stupid me, wanted to know why my ex left. My gf after finding out again, went on-line met someone, and went out ontwo coffee, dates. This upset me, because I never went out with anyone. Just talk online. My gf tell me he's is only a friend and no attraction. Told me she needs to think, but call her. Im really concern because I really love her. I don't love my ex. Should I give her space and wait for her answer, or move on, because she found someone.
Thanks

2007-12-09 01:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2

he told me he thinks im ignoring him! i'm not!

2007-12-09 01:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by jordan. <3 3

I've been seeing this guy for a few months. He's a total sweetheart, handsome, sincere,dedicated,hard working,etc but he's just not the one for me. I'm 31, he's 22 and already he is very attached. He calls all of the time and wants to spend all of his free time with me, tells me he's inlove with me..It's a bit overwhelming considering that I have a full time career and a 7yr old to raise. He thinks I need a man around the house and help with my child because I'm a woman. When in truth, I don't. Here's my delima. He immigrated to this country 2 yrs ago, has one brother who resides in another state. The rest of his family resides in South America. He's only knows 5 words in English..max and there are days when I just don't feel like speaking Spanish. Lately, he has been pressuring me to define our relationship..which I don't want to do. Furthermore, I'm unfullfied sexually- he just doesn't do it for me. I want to continue too see other men. I don't want to hurt him..any suggestions?

2007-12-09 01:23:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i know it sounds silly but hey nothing wrong in having fun with idea`s once in a while, anyway mine would be Betty Cooper from Archie`s comic,

wonder if there`s women like her around ,

Ok your turn

2007-12-09 01:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by Spiritual Player 2

2007-12-09 01:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by Alex B 1

Ok...so last night I went to a dance and i met this kid...he is really cute and i danced with him for basically the whole night...finally the night came to an end and i gave him a hug and then he gave me a kisss...and i let him...is it too soon or no?

2007-12-09 01:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Enitsirhc 1

I love my boyfriend. I would love to move in with him. ( I kinda already do because I sleep there every night) Right now his roommate is moving out and he lives in a two bedroom apartment. Hes paying about $1,200 for rent, utilities, food etc a month. He can afford it on his own but is really upset that he will be stressed and tight for money. He wants me to move in. I currently go to a university and work a crappy part time job that pays me about $150 a week. I have been able to afford gas, food, and odds and ends throughout the week AND put aside a little into savings. Also, moving into a one bedroom apartment for less would be excellent, but all ive seem to find are studion apartments...and he wouldnt like that. Help!

2007-12-09 01:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 yrs old now because TODAY's my birthday!
Okay, I asked this guy out to be my boyfriend, which was CRAZY of me to do [I'm a girl too but my friends said If I'm desperate, I can ask a guy out] & I liked that guy & I wanted a boyfriend for my birthday for the 1st time. I wrote him a letter in homeroom & someone told me his name was Steven Gilbert so I wrote his name on the letter & told everyone that I liked him & asked everyone what was his personality like, I even drew pretty hearts all over it! But turns out, his last name wasn't Gilbert, no wonder everyone was saying ew. I even screamed his name outside the BOYS bathroom to the wrong guy becuase one of my guy friends said he was in there! Wow, I must've been high on suger on Friday. I was searching for Steven the WHOLE day & at last, I gave him the letter & I told him to read it in front of me so I can get the answer be4 I leave for the bus. I was holding on to his friend's arm dying of embaressment & my face turning red!

2007-12-09 01:09:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think its cheating if she is hanging out with them, no kissing or anything...just hanging out.....But then in a couple of months the 2 of you break up and they are dating.....

2007-12-09 01:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous