OK so i met a bloke lastnight (hes good mates with my friend) at the end of the night he asked me if i liked any of his group i said yes, you-and he liked me to he said. a few of us went back to his mates to watch the boxing and he was telling me he fancied me and i was gorgous etc. we had a cuddle watching the fight then we all went home at 6 as he had to be in work in 2 hrs!!! so i text him (i know i should play it cool and i normally do! but he seemed keen and i liked him so i thought stuff it! but he hasnt replied!!
i think he has come out of a long relationship and we live about an hour or more apart but we both drive.
2007-12-09 01:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not like me to like someone normally i dont care lol
2007-12-09 01:39:03 · update #1
Well...you're good looking and pretty. So it should not be any problem.
2007-12-09 01:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Caesar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to write this as a lady, ok here is some of the thing you can think about
1) Go with the flow, this is important because it will feel natural
2) Do protect you feelings and refrain from taking the whole plunge all together, this is because he is just out from a relationship and maybe he is just looking for comfort or trying to stand up emotionally with women
3) Play it cool yes, but dont play hard to get, guys can see this sort of thing and they might lose interest afterwards because the more you play hard to get the more men will see you as a prize and the fun runs out as soon as they got you
4) Dont worry too much about he not replying your sms, this is because sometimes men take some time to figure out what they are feeling for you, they do this because they genuinely care for your feelings,
5) Give him the chance to come to you, instead of pushing it on him, give him the space
6) Allways allways moniter you own feelings, you cannot expect someone else to feel the same way and never assume anything
7) Define where is this situation now, is it in the 1) attraction mode 2) sexual attraction 3) infatuation,this is the first three step things that happens during early stage of knowing someone, so get to know yourself first
Hmmmmm better stop being a women now, ha ha, ok this is all my opinion, but its easier if you just have this in your head, your life is in your control, please do take all this as an opinion and nothing more, at the end you need to follow your heart because you are the one who is gonna live with yourself, and never never assume.
2007-12-09 01:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritual Player 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
We men like girls, but it's sort of something we do hesitantly. What seemed like a good idea at the time suddenly becomes quite annoying when you think about her calling all the time and wanting to hang out and know what we've done all day and... and... and...
My suggestion is this: If he likes you, he'll call or text you back. He may be busy, he may have forgotten about you, who knows. Wait 2-3 days. If you haven't heard back from him by then, it's alright to give him a call and see what's up. If at this time he seems chipper to hang out and do things, then he must just have been busy. If he seems kind of aloof and uninterested/making excuses, then let him go and find yourself another guy.
In the end, he's a friend of your friend, so chances are you'll see him again someday. Keep that in mind.
2007-12-09 01:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by yodamoon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say he has just come out of a long relationship, he maybe thinks that you are trying to rush things. Take a day or two then get in touch with him and ask if you two can talk somewhere on neutral ground. Say that you enjoyed his company, and would like to meet up with him to see if the two of you have things in common. It might be that he just has not got around to answering you, but it might be that he is not ready for a relationship and is a little nervous. I wish you luck as you seem to be the caring type.
2007-12-09 02:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy's probably at work. I doubt it would be good manners texting a girl you met last night while trying to do your job. Back off a little.
2007-12-09 01:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by James Bond 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's at work and the phone maybe home/flat/no signal. give it 24 hrs and chill you cant do much more.
2007-12-09 03:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he is either at work still and cant use his phone or he has made it home and collapsed into bed, i'm sure you will hear from him later on.
2007-12-09 01:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by *mental*MooCow* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to go out more often and understand him better. He might be shy.
2007-12-09 01:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Albert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there could be a hundred reasons why,im afraid you will have to wait it out good luck though
2007-12-09 01:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by fozz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh... you need to give him more time! It hasn't even been half a day!
2007-12-09 01:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dave in T Dot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋