Singles & Dating - 11 December 2007

I asked my boyfriend if he's ever hit a woman before(he told me he dragged his sister by the hair once),and he said he did once and he gave his girlfriend a black eye,he said he would never do that to me,if i got him angry he would just hit the wall or something. My question is if he's done it before could he do it again?

2007-12-11 23:58:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says that it was all my idea and that I wanted to have a threesome with another guy really bad and suggested it. I do get wild when I'm drunk so it's possible that I did initiate it all but I don't even remember! If he remembers, shouldn't he have been to rationalize that it was wrong? The scary thing is that I do remember crying and hitting him and asking him why he let this happen that same night but it's all very faint. I also know that they were talking about someone having XTC so could they have slipped it to me? This is a bf of 8 YEARS! It isn't some casual, short-term relationship. This is the guy that I thought loved me with all his heart and I'm so confused. He keeps calling me since it happened and telling me not to worry and that no one remembers anything or no one is talking. Is is possible they raped me? I do have tons of bruises and I don't recall how I got them. I know that I have a serious drinking problem but he rarely drinks. What do you think of this?

2007-12-11 23:47:15 · 28 answers · asked by jessica 2

please help me!!! what would you do in my situation?!!!

I'm a freshman in college. I started college with this girl I was good friend's with. She transfered after 2 days and moved out. Then, they put me with a Jehovah Wittiness who wouldn't allow me to listen to rap, wouldn't allow me to curse, wouldn't allow me to watch any movie with any sort-of profanity in it, wouldn't allow me to have visitors, and stuck up post-it notes all over my stuff of quotes from the bible.

Eventually, I moved out into another dorm. Then, the girl in that dorm's roommate came back so I was forced to move again.

I moved into a new building where the girl I was supposed to room with became an RA and got her own room and now I have my own room.

I was very upset and having a VERY hard time here at college so I decided to withdraw and return home for a semester.
Last week, the week before finals i made a TON of friend's and now I don't want to leave!!

HERE IS THE PROBLEM!!!

2007-12-11 23:35:27 · 6 answers · asked by Nnay 1

I was with my boyfriend and this guy sat next to me at the movies 3 weeks ago.The movie is playing and all of the sudden I feel tickling on my stocking foot and it went on for 5 minutes.I thought it was an accident but it started again the stranger next to me was playing footsie with me!I wasnt sure what to do I didn't want to make a scene so I moved my foot over but he reached to touch my foot some more.But I was getting turned on a little bit because it was dangerous.So I took off my shoe and played back I was really getting horny because this was so taboo.We spent the rest of the movie fondling each others feet did this stranger uncover a hidden foot fetish?Should I tell my boyfriend?

2007-12-11 23:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this girl for a year and a half and I was head over heels in love with her. I thought that we were going to get married and spend the rest of our lives together. However, about 6 months after we started dating she felt like certain things were missing, but the thing this she didn't tell me about those feelings until a year later. and when she finally did tell me about them she never even gave me the chance to try and fix things and she dumped me right on the spot. I know that she's not seeing anyone else, but I'm trying to figure out that after a year and a half of being together that she not tell me her feelings, break up with me and not even give me a chance to try and make a difference. Any thoughts?

2007-12-11 23:27:02 · 7 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1

She is probably my best female friend. She recently started dating a guy who told her right up front he has herpes. She said he told her that she can't get them because he's never given them to anyone. But she's been telling me that she hopes she gets herpes, because if she does that is her sign that he and she are meant to be together forever. Is this stupid of her?

2007-12-11 23:23:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 22 yrs old and have been with my fiance for 5yrs, lived with him for the past 2yrs. I love him dearly but in reality he makes me feel like worthless crap!
For example he owns the house we live in but im paying half of his mortgage, and he says that if i dont he'll throw me out! the problem is im stuck in a dead end jub that i hate! I want to go back to college to get my nursing degree and also pass my driving test and he says go for it but how can i when he is taking nearly all my money off me!
When all the bills and mortgage is paid im left with only £150 for the rest of the month he has £1000!
We both work full time and i have to do all the house work, cooking, cleaning, washing and ironing, he just sits on his **** and plays on the computer!!!
am i being stupid or do i need to take action!? and if i do what action do i take?

2007-12-11 23:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

not long found out my boyfriend cheated on me by kissing another woman- my mate. i tried to forgive him for it, it lasted about a week. i went home last night and told him to get out the flat and now hes gone.
i feel quite sad, also quite guilty. i shouldnt be feeling guilty should i?
i know he loves me and he keeps beggin me to go back to him
how do i stay strong? anyone been through a smimilar situation?
i was with him a long time and before that he was my good friend.

2007-12-11 23:13:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i do? i don't want to date a boy i m 23 yrs old and single. but he is so excited to date me and has asked me in so many sweet different ways. how can i say him that i do not want to date him. he lives 3 blocks away from my house.

2007-12-11 23:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you tell them that it you would love to be in love with them?

2007-12-11 22:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl at my work who has become somewhat of a friend and she loves me. She has made it very clear that she wants me and that she is very interested in me. Only thing is, is that she is too fat and she looks like a retard and she has facial hair.....how can I tell her this nicely that I don't find her attractive?

2007-12-11 22:49:24 · 17 answers · asked by dumbenuf 1

Im not good at confronting guys because I dont want to be judged, but when I get to know guys, they tend to like me. Oh, and Im also a guy. Aka, Im gay.

2007-12-11 22:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by anddyrew5 2

I feel like my heart is going to pop becoz im so in LOVE :P

2007-12-11 22:11:27 · 14 answers · asked by Dee R84 2

Me and my bf have been together for 2 months. I have really been falling in love w/ him. This past w/e we spent together and everything was great. He was really sweet and went out f his way to bring me a rose and make me breakfast among other things. He left my house frustrated on Sunday b/c he left later than he planned and missed a chance to work on an assignment w/ a friend (he's in college). We got in a bit of an argument on sunday night on the phone as we were both a bit grouchy. He was upset I was acting needy. We both said we didn't want to fight and made up. The next morning I sent him a text saying sorry and explained why I acted like that and I wouldn't do it again. He didn't call or text me all day (which he has never done). I called him before bed at 10:30pm and he said that he was neglecting his school work b/c of all the time he spends w/ me and is so overwhelmed w/ school and work and me that he doesn't have any time for himself. PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW...

2007-12-11 22:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't stop thinking about my EX. =(

She went to study abroad in Europe for 4 months which is why we broke up and she is coming back the 15th but we haven't emailed in 3 weeks and I think she's over me. She expressed she will "probably want to be single" when she returns.

But I don't want to move on in case we might get back together and there's nothing I can do even though I want to talk to her right now and I always think about her. I miss her terribly and I'm afraid she won't even be friends with me now.

I keep looking at her facebook profile and looking at old pictures of us. It's not that I'm worried I won't find anyone else, it's that I have all these great memories with her of college and I can't get that with anyone else... it's just not the same..

2007-12-11 21:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by brodis36 2

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2007-12-11 21:42:54 · 2 answers · asked by Jerry S 7

I am seeing this guy and we both agreed to take it slow, but I get the feeling he is not that interested. Some days he rings and txts and others he dosnt bother. Is he not interested or is he just playing games?!?!

Do men play hard to get like women????

2007-12-11 21:34:17 · 29 answers · asked by billy j 1

I always hear things on the news about men raping women, guys hitting on girls, men cheating, guys trying to impress girls, guys getting in fights over a female and of course there's the usual, "guy gets girl" story. I hardly hear of women taking this sort of role that men take. Is it because they're not that interested in men? It always seems to be the guy who goes after the girl, even to the point of sacrificing his own life to get her, but it's sooo rare that I see a female taking this role.

2007-12-11 21:30:09 · 15 answers · asked by sg-7 1

The guy i was seeing for about 4 months is married, and i just found out about a week ago. it turns out his wife and i have the same hair dresser, infact i found out through my hair dresser. i've actually met his wife before, you know passing in and out of the salon and having brief conversations, she seems like a doll and i was going to tell her but it will kill her, he doesnt know that i know he's married, i've kinda just been ignoring his calls, should i let him know that i know he's married. or just continue to ignore him. i know it might be dumb of me to just let him slide. but i dont want to be the one to break up a marraige. i will let someone else do it. i feel like screwing his life up, but if i do that he wont be the only one affected, she will feel it also. so should i just continue to ignore him. or let her know. since we were only seeing each other for such a short time does it even matter? .. im sooo confused i dont know!!

2007-12-11 21:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by Cami♥ 4

I have been with my girlfriend on and off for a while, about 7months, but for the past month we stayed together the whole time, i have known her for almost a year and i really love her, emotionally.
But the thing is, im not as attracted to her phisically as i was before (it happened after i found out she cheated on me, but i dont want to mention that if i break up with her because i care about her feelings and know she regrets it). I dont kiss her too much, when we have sex, i tend to fantasize it with other girls, or else it just dosen't feel too good.
But she is the best perosn i have ever known and she cares so much about me and i care about her more then anything, we are allways together, but i sort of see her as a friend.
What should i do?

And how do i not hurt her feelings?

2007-12-11 21:15:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 20:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

at times he loves me more of the time he says i m busy so i get tired our maretial relationship is also ok not good enough it feels as if v both have compromised he takes us out spends money but what is my requirement is never fullfilled that in any case, v do not meet on 4 atleast 20 or 25 days on ----- please tell me what should i do is that he doesnt love me or what it is not thjat i m not good looking comparetively im better than him, this i shoulndt mention but i have to.

2007-12-11 20:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by madhu b 1

ive been thru this for years.....ive been keeping what i feel for about 8 years.....i love him......but i never had the courage to tell him that....all he could see from me is his bestfriend whom he treats like a baby sister since he never had one....hes in a relationship and ive gone out with him and his gf....and i was treated like a baby sister who has no one to take care at home so his elder brother took her on thier date... he treats me like a baby though were of the same age...he even calls me "baby"....kisses me in my forehead like a child....and he spoils me....gives me almost everything i ask from him.... thats why i fell for him .....im happy being treated that way....but when reality strikes me....that im just his DAMN BESTFRIEND>it really hurts... im 22 and never fell for someone else.... i want to find someone whom i could turn my love to....but havent found the right one yet...or should i say have not found the one who could surpass his impact in me..help me to forget him

2007-12-11 19:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by gentle 2

Are you taking the time to show your love recently or not. Tell me the truth. If not, will you take the time now?

2007-12-11 19:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by bobe 6

I'm quite the chef. . . . .

2007-12-11 19:32:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

........Then what is the meaning of my relationship with my lover, a repetition of him trying to soothe me from my constant depression and getting stressed out from failing to do so?

2007-12-11 18:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here it goes.My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years yet we do not spend the Christams together because we spend it with our family as it is.We both attend the same university,are going home on the same day and having a fun day of hanging out at the galleria,watching a movie,having dinner at his grandmother's and spending the night there then driving home.So one of my guyfriends today was telling me on how I should maybe spend this Christmas with him and his family yet here is where it would get all sticky.My family and I open presents and then that day is my brother's birthday so we usually throw a party for him with close friends.I do not know when the party would be pushed to now because my folks are having hardwood installed on Monday and then they are painting the rooms downstairs.Then I also want to spend time with my family yet want to see my boyfriend at the same time because he does a lot for me especially after all that happened this semester!

2007-12-11 18:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5

I caught my ex the other day following me to my friends house. How creepy is that?? Can I get some kind of restraining order against him?? He wants me back but I don't have time for that kind of childish games.

2007-12-11 18:35:38 · 12 answers · asked by *Heart~broken* 4

i have lots of secrets, crushes, h8rs, watevr. but i dont know who to trust. i told my best friend something and she told my other friend. well wat if i didnt like that person, not a friend or something? i'm through with all my secrets getting out.

2007-12-11 18:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf double booked himself its my party this weekend but he also said he'd go xmas shopping with one of his mates. He says to me and my friends he cant come to my party, cos he said he'd go xmas shoppin first but i told him like a month ago that my party would be the weekend after my birthday any nitwit knows that the 15th of december is the weekend after the 13th of december. I txted him saying why doesnt he meet with us for like an hour but he hasnt replyd. I know he is really sorry. Do i have the right to be upset with him?

2007-12-11 18:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by Applecrumble 6