Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

hmm..what should i do???he said he loves me but i dont have the same feelings for him,..so what i did is i said no..now,,he's totally ignoring me,but i want us to be friends...

is there any solution for that??T_T

2007-12-09 23:58:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in NYC, and when I go out on weekends to meet women, it is such effort and I get rejected all the time. I'm actually a good looking guy too. I'm 30 years old. But when I travel outside of the US to Latin America, girls are all over me. Hot girls. It's like, why am I still here? Because I guess I can't make any money down there. This whole situation makes me crazy. Please provide me with some input.

2007-12-09 23:45:28 · 3 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

my boyfirend of 8 mo. has asked me to marry him like 3 to 4 times now. everytime he does i question him on if he is for real. he says yes then says no i am just joking. he has even told me that he keeps asking because i do not answer him. the one night i did answer him we had been drinking and i dont know if he remembers or not. what my questions is do you think he is really wanting to marry me. please let me know what you think.

2007-12-09 23:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by maraloves 3

I am still loving my ex...

Although I do not know if she loves me or not anymore...

After arguments with friends (he use to tell me everything about what she says), I learned that 2 or so months ago she wanted nothing to do with me, because she found someone new..

They broke up about a month and a half ago, and I've been trying to show her I changed...

So when my friend and her were talking...she said she still loved me...

on msn:

(3:14 PM) -=name of friend=-: she said u were like a chav, n i said ok, n haha u loved a chav , so she said i still do

Is she saying like friendship love? or do you think its real love?

I know I should ask her, but I'm scared and I do not know how to ask!!! I can't think of what to say!

ANSWER MY QUESTIONS, DO NOT IGNORE THE QUESTIONS, DO NOT SAY TO MOVE ON, DO NOT SAY YOU BROKE UP FOR A REASON!!! FFS. JUST HELP ME!

2007-12-09 23:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by SRT8Challenger 1

I believed that when my husband first met me he truly loved me. He seemed as if he was the perfect man. Yesterday, he told me that he met this homless lady on the bus(he may have known her before me), and he was going to move her into his house without the permission of the landlord. There is only one bed in his house, with no furniture, so obviously she would be sleeping with him. He told me whether I liked it or not she was going to be moving in with us. He even wanted me to meet her. I never knew such a thing was going to happen until that day. He totally surprised me. I feel crushed, betrayed, and confused. It feels like it was just a dream. I broke out into tears. It seems as if substance abuse may have something to do with it. He told me that his nose was bleeding. A few days before this occurred, I felt as if I didn't want him to touch me...it just didn't feel right. How do I get over this?

2007-12-09 23:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do all the good things have to end

i want to be more than just saying im sorry

i've messed up real bad the past couple months

but what i choose is my choice

and there's no changing back the choices you've made

you know that i'm weak

so just sing me to sleep

you need anything, just say the word

i mean anything

2007-12-09 23:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by confused_girlie007 1

There's this gal that I like but we are just friends (i told her last year but some things might change now).
To me: Few days we're quiet but she started by teasing me and conversation... She seemed interested in what i do and once she doodled on my paper w/o my knowledge and once just robs a paper off my hand and say, "let'see what he says..." and smiles teasingfully... During school activity today, she also teased me, seemed interested in conversations and asked for my help. She is also interested in what i do and once took photo when a friend of mine was about to throw me to the pool. Her friends tease her about me.

But, there's this other guy who likes her (i don't know how she feels) but she and that boy doesn't talk much... She doesn't make attempt to see him... She was like trying to avoid him but in today's school activities i saw her talking to him a couple of times - and she was smiling (she was smiling to everyone). One time, she seemed 'interested' and it was like for half a minute. She also talks to other boys though. then her friends tease her and she was whispering to her friend but I notice she occasionally look at me. They were in same group for the activities but didn't talk. Only one or two times inside the bus.

2007-12-09 23:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2

my recent ex girlfriend has accepted my coffe invitation on wednesday. she broke up with me 2 weeks ago. and was hardly talking to me since then even when i told her that we can be friend. so to day she said no problem she will come to have a coffe with me. is there any slight chance that she still has feeling for me and how should i act when i will see her. thanks guys.

2007-12-09 23:23:26 · 12 answers · asked by Mostafiyur R 1

Is it wrong to have sex with someone when you know they have a girlfriend??

2007-12-09 23:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by Mental health 22 2

Ok we started having a relationship past june Till this june- july . She didn't want to go on because of her dad ( who was very strict ) so she tried to break it off 2 or 3 times by saying she's seeing someone else [ but she couldn't everytime] ..finally i lost it. I come from a not so emotionally balanced family ( and so does she ) ..

So I got really angry and started acting possessive jealous..finally it was over ..

Yesterday after months i talked to this girl on the phone for a long time . It was not bad..But today morning i had this dream...

" I was in my church talking to a famous singer ( who was like the church priest ) and after receieving the holy communion from this church I was talking to this famous singer ( who was wearing a priest outfit , i think ) . ... and when this was happening .. my cousin yells out he saw my " X-gf " outside he yells " Anna" Anna" ,

2007-12-09 23:20:00 · 3 answers · asked by sum142121 1

I met a girl I used to know when I was a shorty some 20 years ago when I was overseas in July. We hang out a few days while I was there reminiscing old times and such. The vibe was positive and all was well.

Since coming home I sent her a few books as she loves reading as a thanks for her hospitality. She sent me a handwritten on special paper, letter back in august. the letter was all positive. she requested a letter back but since starting my new job I never got around to sending her one.

Now is December some time has passed. I'm thinking of going back to see her in a few months. I want to see if this means anything and how far it will go.

Question: Do I need to write her more letters?

2007-12-09 23:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by tripppah 3

we have been together a month today actually. But i believe in manogomy and so does he, and he says he cant wait til were together forever... am i thinking wrong?

2007-12-09 23:18:11 · 29 answers · asked by Lyndsay E 1

well there is this guy, well my best friends ex boyfriend, i really like him and he liked me when kept texting each other alot and then we were meant to meet up but he did not turn up, he never text me after that, then i found out he was texting a different friend of mine. what should i do?

2007-12-09 23:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by sportykitten 1

I've followed your advice and I've been very mean to this girl I liked. I've been insulting her appearance, dress, personality etc. Now she thinks I'm a jerk ,and always flies into a rage when I annoy her.

What's the next step to land her as my girlfriend ?

2007-12-09 23:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

But guys are always the one known for cheating. What is up with that...LADIES! I think woman are worst than guys. PERIOD...dont you agree?

2007-12-09 23:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by cheng 3

I really like this guy and I think he likes me. We had sex once and after that i started to think that he just used me for it. A close friend of mine has been through it many times, and says next time you see him joke around and play hard to get because then he will want you more and see your true personality. I appreatiate her advice, but I'm just worried that by playing hard to get, am I doing more harm then good?

2007-12-09 23:04:47 · 15 answers · asked by WaterPrincess 3

do you like talking or shopping?

which do you like more?

2007-12-09 23:00:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy nick. once i told him that jen my friend likes him . he's like " i dont care" and then he's like "i hope you dont like me , do you?" i said "what do you think" he's like "i dont know" and then i said" no i dont like you" and then he started talking about homework!!! what does this mean?? this guy nick is my friend and he flirts with me many a times too but after this incident he's stopped flirting that much !!what should i do ????

2007-12-09 22:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im jealous of HOT guys, they can just get any girl they want.

life aint fair!!!

what should i do?

2007-12-09 22:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone, Im newly single and hating it!
Split up with my boyfriend of 3 years recently and really not looking forward to this festive season now.
Any singles out there feel the same? If so what you gonna do to keep you're mind off all the 'love' drifting around?:)

And YES I have friends and will be spending New Year with them and Family.

P.S Who are you gonna be kissing under the mistletoe and when the clock strikes midnight?

2007-12-09 22:41:26 · 16 answers · asked by Chanté 2

example 1:
On a second date with a girl at my place to cook dinner and she offers to bring over a bottle of red wine, she was refilling both of our glasses while we watched a movie. we finished the bottle and she was open to having sex with me.

example 2

met for the first time a different girl at a bar who was with her friends. while they were taking sake shots, she was pouring for me too. then after we all bounced to another bar and she bought a bottle of red wine for her and I to drink. this girl too was refilling my glass with wine. afterwards we walked to her place.
-however, met up with this girl two nights later she had several drinks, and mentioned I wasn't drinking. I had to work the following morning so I had one drink later on. she avoided going to either my or her place afterwards.

so, do women feel it's ok to have sex too soon if the guy also has been drinking?

2007-12-09 22:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by 33ea 3

Well I Talk To Her Daily ,
But I Have Never Showed In Any Way I Love Her !
How Do I Tell Her ?

2007-12-09 22:33:53 · 20 answers · asked by Rahul 1

Seriously I can't stand it, pretty much the whole world has had a boyfriend/girlfriend in high school and during there teenage years, and has had sex already. Man, I can't believe I'm almost 20, I feel so old. Seriously, how rare is it for a male to be 20 and never had a girlfriend and still a virgin?, I bet there are almost none out there. I refuse to have sex with a prostitute so don't even go there, I also rarely or don't approach girls because I feel I will just be wasting my time because most girls in college are taken already. I don't care if my first girlfriend is special, I don't want my first girlfriend to become my wife, I just want it to be random relationship like everyone on the whole planet has experienced.

2007-12-09 22:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6

I WANT SOMETHING TO LAUGH ABOUT

2007-12-09 22:28:18 · 14 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3

Right..

So ive been thinking..
what would you say was an acceptable age gap between two people in a relationship?
is it ok for a 34 year old guy to be with a 16 year old with the intentions of a long term relationship?
or should 22 be the limit for older men an women to date the younger generation??
reverse the situation too...
is it ok for a 34 year old woman to be with a 16 year old with the intentions of a long term relationship?

Please let me know your views.

2007-12-09 22:23:31 · 13 answers · asked by musicmad_91 1

or would you forgive her and why.

2007-12-09 22:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this guy and i'm afraid that my friends won't approve of him but i know that my bestie will because their good friends. he makes me so happy, i feel so alive with him and i feel like i could do anything we always have fun when were together and were good friends aswell. i don't really mind what my friends do and don't approve of, this is my life and i think i should deserve to be happy like other people. when he's not with me or around me then i'm always having a bad day and don't really feel all that happy at all. do you think i should follow my heart or what my friends think? please help.

2007-12-09 22:18:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend revealed to me, that herboyfriend suddenly began threatening her with physical harm if he suspected her of cheating, or if she committed the act of cheating. He told her he would choke her if she let someone touch her and then proceeded to place his hands around her neck snuggly as they were being intimate. and later again threatened to choke her if she let someone else touch her. what is she dealing with here?

2007-12-09 22:17:42 · 23 answers · asked by kay 1

Ok so....I'm 16 and I haven't really had my first kiss yet but theres this guy that I really like and he wants to hook up with me. I'm planning on hooking up with him but I'm a little scared. Any tips?

2007-12-09 22:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by Molly 1

i have friends who are guys and we are not interested in eachother at all. and a few boys i know like me but i dont like them. every one i like just wants to be my friend. what does it take for a guy to want to be your bf..? i am 5'6' average build and i have pretty blue eyes. i have a great sence of humor. love to party, have tuns of friends, but i have never had a bf.. now that i am older i find it weird that i never have.. waht does it take?

2007-12-09 22:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by Riley E 2