Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

Soooo my gf and I have been going out for 6 months but we've known each other since 2004...we are about to move into an apartment in a month or so, her best friends are a couple minutes away from us. These are 2 guys that I haven't met and they've known her for years. Her question to me tonight was what if I go out and I spend the night with them and spend the night over would that be ok? Uhh no I mean what is so special to spend the night with them? Isn't spending time with them enough? Help how should I even explain this to her....thanks for your time and answer away

2007-12-09 17:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by wtnprez 1

I met this guy in Paris. He is from Italy. Then I went to China for work. He has visited me twice in Paris and twice in the Far East. That's a total of three years long distance relationship. We both spent a lot of money in internaional phone calls, sms. We chat almost everyday on yahoo. I have been trying to get employment in his area Luxembourg, but it's not one of the easiest places to find work as a teacher. But inspite of how much he "loves" me, he is not willing or ready to marry me, since he said it's against his principles. But I don't see it that way. We love each other and this distance is causing us a great deal of pain. Besides, he said I'm one woman he truly enjoys conversations and exchange of ideas, even outside of the relationship. Now I'm working on getting an employment contract in Spain, it's nearer to Luxembourg than China just to stay nearer to him. I'm now very close, it will take less than a year. But he says he wants to stop this relationship.

2007-12-09 17:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Katie 3

Asides the, you smell so nice, you taste nice, your skin is soft, your skin is smooth. What else can I say?

2007-12-09 17:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by Adam S. 3

2007-12-09 17:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi!
well obviously my professor has a crush on me and I kind of like him back, and in my country there is no rules against dating your professor, but I don't want my friends to think I date him because I want an A. And I will get an A without his help anyway. What should I do? go for it or leave it?

2007-12-09 17:34:35 · 27 answers · asked by Nuwanda 3

Why do I like him?!

He's cute, but he's so goofy, like so socially awkward, although the "pretty" girls like him a lot...like he can chill with them without any awkwardness...
...but he just acts like ridiculous around me, just stares at me, but looks away and won't talk to me, but always STARING...never a time when we're not in the same vicinity that he's NOT staring...most people talk to me like a normal person, but he like gasps when he sees me...weirdo...

SO WHY AM I STARTING TO LIKE HIM?! Am I bored? Do I like him because he acts as if he likes me?

2007-12-09 17:27:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seperated for a while from my husband , the divorce is still pending. I am feeling very lonely and want to get into the dating seen. My circle of friends is also very small so I have not met any intresting guy. I get the feeling that I am a very boring person . Every guy that I met is either a jerk or a total loser. Most of them see me as a good friend or a sister. I am not sure how to come out of this situation.

2007-12-09 17:22:57 · 12 answers · asked by VIVO 1

i'm gonna try it.

2007-12-09 17:20:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my questions long but please read I need your help........My ex and I went out when we were 16 years old. We had to break up because my parents didn't like him. Plus on top of that neither did my sis, she told me one day that he was cheating on me with another girl from my neigborhood. He claimed to never have known the girl.
Anyway later his mother died an he had to move away to pennislyvaina, I went away to school. When I came back home I found out from my best friend that he was now living in new jersey a little while away from the city. Thanks to her he got my number and called me. We were reminising over our old relationship then started hanging out again.
He told me that he had just gotten out of a relationship with his ex 2 days ago. And he had been talking to this girl for a year and going out with her for 2 months. I really used to love this boy(I still do alittle) he loved me to. I really want to try at having another relationship with him now that were both 18 we don't have to worry about any family problems. I always said if it was ment to be god would let us meet again, now here we are. What do I do can we go at another chance or and I just his rebound girl. I really want this to work he's always been the one I ever envisioned ending up with......thanks

2007-12-09 17:19:48 · 2 answers · asked by pitbullover 2

and move on with there life... caused i been dating and it so happens my ex's finds out the gossip.... doesn't that mean to stay out my relationships.... i don't bother with theres....... sos why do they like to bother with my relationships with whom i see or date

2007-12-09 17:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Mark and I have been very close friends with Katie for two years. We have been best friends in college (only friends nothing else). A year ago she went out this a guy and became very attached to him but they ended it after 4 months. The guy broke her heart and I had to console her. She said she would never talk to him again and that she hated him. So I said i will do everything i can to prevent it. So I found out last week that they have been getting with eachother.... He is a player and just wants *** but Katie thinks there is a real chance between them. I had said to katie that if she started talking to him again I wouldnt be her friend. I dont want to have Kaite get hurt again. Should I stop being her friend if she keeps talking to him or what?

2007-12-09 17:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by Joey MacNamara 1

I've been single for the past year and i met this girl who is absolutely beautiful, she's everything i'm looking for when it comes to girls, of course i'd have sex with her but it's not something i strive for, i just want her love and be able to express mine without scaring her off, she has lots of guy friends but i want to know how to make myself stand out above these other guys so i'm the one she ends up with, but she says she doesn't want a bf, i want to wait for her but how do i make sure i'm the one she will want when she does want a bf? Any advice is appreciated, thanks

2007-12-09 17:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by Jeremy B 1

So I've been talking back and forth with this girl for quite some time. I've known her for around 9 years, but I've only recently taken interest in her. The problem is that she perceives me as a brother-like figure. Is there anything that I can do to make her see otherwise, or even to convince her that I can be more?

2007-12-09 17:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

be the wise way to respond?

2007-12-09 16:48:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

well he's never brought up his wife but I know from a friend that he is married. he talks to me all the time and i think he likes me too. I've tried but I just can't get him out of my head. Please someone knock some sense into me. But maybe he's not happy with his marriage?

We're both in our early 20's. thanks.

2007-12-09 16:46:25 · 58 answers · asked by Jae Lynn 4

If you have teens, and they don't work? What is your reasoning? I just like to know when this ideal changed and why?

2007-12-09 16:45:02 · 20 answers · asked by Xena77 3

Is it only for sex ? or is there anything else ? I am starting to date this man who is twice my age but I am insecure on what is on his mind. Plus he is really rich, so that makes me doubt even more. What should I do ?

2007-12-09 16:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice because I am not really sure on what I should do. My "First" has been trying to come back around. Yeah, we have a history and I know it didnt work out before but we both had alot of things we needed to work on plus we were young too. He married young and had a child and when we dated to begin with he had just come out of that relationship. That was 10 years ago and we have remained friends throughout the years. He has come back around now wanting a relationship but I am not sure if I should try it again or not. I am just coming out of a relationship and have been terribly hurt and I am afraid of being hurt again. Plus, I have my daughter to worry about too. I dont want her to get attached and then lose them too if something were to happen. Please help. Thanks

2007-12-09 16:35:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

To Guys: What do you want a girl to do during sex? Or What do you like?

I know everyones different, but I need any idea because I want to surprise my bf with something he likes but i dont want to ask him.

2007-12-09 16:31:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 16:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is 19 and 4 months. I am 14 and 8 months.

We have been best friends FOREVER. We've now been together for about 6 months. I know we are in love, and I have decided I'm ready to have sex with him.

I've asked him twice now, and both times he said 'No'. I get the distinct impression he is trying to protect me from myself (hes a virgin).

Advice? Also, I get some pretty horrible comments when people find out about the age difference. I don't really care, but am interesting to know what you all think. Is it too much?

2007-12-09 16:23:32 · 58 answers · asked by half_evil333 2

Yeah, I'm really not one of those giggling, teasing, simpering girls with a bangin body and helium voices. But I'm feminine and intelligent and really want guys to be interested in me.

Are there more 'sophisticated' ways to flirt that don't involve acting like a complete airhead? Thanks a bunch!!! :-)

2007-12-09 16:19:33 · 14 answers · asked by Nata 3

what does it mean when he calls a girl cute...not sexy...hot....pretty....or gorgeous just cute?

2007-12-09 16:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by la_la_love 1

Yeah i was wondering how long is to long to be a virgin,cause i'm 17 & out of all of my friends only 6 of them(6 counting me) where the only virgins i know,and trust me whenn i say this,but i have alot of friends(not ot say that i'm popular cause i don't see my self as being that,though it's not to say that i'm not either),and we're all in the same age range of 17-19,except for those 5 & me everyone else has lost there virginity. So i was wondering about that cause trust me i don't want to stay virgin i'm kinda saving it for the right person yah know,and it's not like i'm shy or anything cause then i wouldn't have as many friends as i do now,so what do you guys think about that?

2007-12-09 16:14:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a tall, attractive, blue eyed, athletic, young 38 year old guy with a great career and a nice apartment on Central Park West and I have no issues meeting women...I do, however, have issues meeting women I see myself forming a future with.

I usually meet high maintenance women/girls which isn't a real issue unless it becomes so expected that there's no appreciation for the little things.

Anyway, just throwing this out there to see if somebody can help me find someone to put a smile on my face...and vice versa of course.

Thanks!

2007-12-09 16:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by lewpaff 2

When watching movies at my friend's house...my best guy friend...randomly when he gets up and back to sit down...comes by and tickles my feet. He then he tells me to come sit by him..when i'm sitting on the other couch. He also plays with my hair. Do you think he's flirting with me or do guys do this all their best girl friends?

2007-12-09 16:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started going out with this boy... Ryan. I have been single for almost a year, and i was getting tired of it so Ryan asked me out and i just said yes. I had only met him twice and we had been texting only a week, so it was really a get to know you relationship. First two weeks were amazing. Everything seemed really good. Then the third week. We go to the same church and apparently i was 'flirting with the whole f****** church' even though i am really outgoing and i didnt intend to flirt at all! we resolved that but then problems kept showing up. so i broke up with him. a couple days later i had the most horrible feeling and i just cried and cried. We got back togather but lately i havent felt anything with him. I feel like we cant talk and our relationship is all physical. i dont know if i should just wait it out, and see if this is just a phase... or break up with him and move on

2007-12-09 16:00:46 · 24 answers · asked by An Untold Story 2

we are fourteen.. and i dont want to spend a ton of money, but i want to get him something cute. i was thinking a $10 girftcard to a local movie store (blockbuster or something), his favorite candy,drink and some popcorn.. then i was thinking we could hangout one night and watch the moive he picks out.. is this to girly? guys would you like this? if not ideas please??

2007-12-09 15:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

or if someone says she is a lovely young lady?

2007-12-09 15:46:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Single dad with 3 boys age 7,10,11 keeping me very busy. Been divorced for almost 1 year now but have'nt been out on a date due to exe's inability to help with kids. Looking for some dating advice for meeting, and quality date ideas that are exciting but not all day or all weekend affairs, just to get back into the seen. I'm an attractive 40 y/o, intelligent, honest, compassionate, professional living in Dallas metroplex. It should'nt be as hard as it's been. Any good ideas?

2007-12-09 15:46:11 · 26 answers · asked by sap62_99 1