be the wise way to respond?
2007-12-09 16:48:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's say you are dating.
2007-12-09 16:51:58 · update #1
I would say, "That is an extremely personal question and I do not feel comfortable answering that". Or just a "That's none of business", would probably work great, too!
2007-12-09 16:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Aly R. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how special this date is. My husband's CEO invited us out for dinner, coz he needed my help on something. In the middle of the dinner while we (8 people) were all talking about how young people now a days go for their first time, the CEO directly asked me, in front of my husband (who knows all my life's details) when was my first time. At my opinion he was very rude. If he wasn't my husband's CEO I would have gave him a very umpolite answer like Why don't u care about your business and go get some got manners class, so next time you won't be so umpolite. But since the guy was my husband's CEO, the best answer I could give him was a smile and tell him that would be secret information that is only known by me and my husband. But of course it isn't, my husband knows about it, but I don't think this was a information I would like to share with the CEO. Of course in your case it is your date... If the person is special to you, just give a smile and change the topic. He will get it. If he insists, just ask why he want to know. Then change the topic again. If he doesn't get it, then he is being rude for not respecting you. In my opinion, a date who has no respect is not a good date.
2007-12-10 01:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin and proud of it. I'm waiting until I'm married, and I think that's something to be proud of. If you're a virgin, accept it, admit it, and decide what you're going to do with it. If you want to get rid of it, that's your choice. If you want to hold onto it and make that first time something a bit more special than 5 minutes with a girl off the street downtown, that's what I'd recomend. But don't be ashamed of it.
If you're a virgin, you can be so by choice, or you can be so by accident. By choice means you have the guts to say no when you know it's not right, and that can impress a lot of women, especially if you're seriously dating someone. By chance means you just haven't had the opportunity to lose it yet, but as soon as you do you will, and that's not going to impress anyone. And it certainly won't make you feel any better about yourself.
2007-12-10 00:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Socks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't respond just look at them as if they have 2 heads! If they ask again tell them you don't ask them personal questions so why do they think they can ask you?
EDIT: if you are dating for a while then answer honestly. they are asking if you 2 are going to get intimate
2007-12-10 00:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look them in the eye and say I could answer that but if it will effect the way you'll feel about me and I dont want to do that. Some things are better left not said. some day soon you will know though.
Or " I answer that one day, just not now"
Or " none of your business"
2007-12-10 00:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by joseph j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. If it's someone I am dating and I like them, I'd say something like "That's a strange question to ask. If you're trying to find out if I'm a good, decent, loving person that you would like to continue seeing - just spend more time with me and find out for yourself. If you're asking to find out if I'll sleep with you, we really need to spend more time together before even entertaining that ."
If it's someone you don't care about seeing again - be more frank. "none of your business!"
2007-12-10 00:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind answering that question, it's nothing I'm
ashamed of. (I'm still a virgin)
Just say, "I don't think you need to know that at this time"
Or "It's personal."
Unless you and your gf/bf have been going out for some time.
2007-12-10 00:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Heyya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say " I don't discuss my personal life, it's nobody's business but my own".
And it isn't. It's strange that anyone would ask that, especially if it's a guy asking a girl.
Don't under any circumstances tell him.
2007-12-10 00:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "A gentlemen never kisses and tells" or if your a girl "A lady never kisses and tells" it doesn't say you are a virgin it doesn't say you aren't a virgin, it leaves the asker curious and leaves you looking classy and mysterious. That's how I answer anyway..
2007-12-10 00:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by DavidC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell them "That is personal and I'd rather not discuss it." It isn't anyone's business except yours. If they keep asking, just repeat the same sentence until they back off.
2007-12-10 00:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by HannaRN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋