Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

there is a friend of mine say A who is very jolly, good nature, charming but not flirt means he keeps sending kisses and love yous in emails or texts or scraps or whatever to frens in a general way. he's a nice heart person. i cant explain his nature in a better way.

so what happened was just recently my boyfriend went through my orkut profile he saw my frend A's scrap which was dated 2nd august 2007 where he said "love you bye emmuah." something like that & after reading it he asked for explanation. i told him that my friend A did so casually, there is nothing between me & him,i feel there is nothing to object, & i wont ask him change himself because i know he doesnt mean anything when he says like that to people. then he said that i am a cheap person as im ok with people saying lov you & giving kisses & also said "go and wait for your loving friends for hot kisses,you are not my gf". he is been ignoring me since then. i am shattered & very insulted. im feeling very bad.

2007-12-09 21:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by angelic 2

Have you ever loved anyone with your heart,not by their money beauty,or for sex.

2007-12-09 21:50:14 · 26 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5

ok there's this guy that i like and he like tease's me and all this stuff and like insults me but he's not trying to hurt me anyway one day i was standing and talking to my mums friends bf and the guy that i like came behind me and started taking my hair tie off and when i turned around he ran straight out the door i was gonna chase him but i had other stuff i needed to do because we were going to the beach. what doe's that all mean i'm so confused please help.

2007-12-09 21:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for two months now, and up until The weekend he seemed perfect in every way, and almost always happy.

Out of nowhere Sunday morning he began texting me saying that he felt that I still have feelings for not only my ex, but my best guy friend!

Apparently I talk about them too much, aka When he asks me how my day was, my friend is usually involved, and also recently i said my boyfriend reminds me a bit of my ex.

I had had no idea I was upsetting him, and i apologised immediately, denied having feelings for them, and Promised to not talk about them as much.

unfortunately, this wasnt enough, and he began abusing me, saying if it was anyone else they would have dumped me by now, and he also started pointing out every flaw i have.

now he's avoiding me?? what can I do about this!? I don't want to lose him, but I also think he acted unrationally

2007-12-09 21:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by Maybe 2

what if u go to work 6 days and work from like 7or 9 all the way to 3am. but u dont keep the money u make u give it to your lover or husband. do u think one spouse should control all of the money of the whole realationship. occupation really doesnt matter because im not going to state my occcupation. ill jus say that i get paid every nite. so u are dumb if u dont get it. is there anyone going this problem right now.dont call it pimpin either cuz its far from that. oh yeah and u do love this person but u arent happy with the whole relationship and u have no choice but to be with this person.u have no way out. oh they are very controlling and kind of abusive and has more than one partner.somebody please help me with this one. i dont have anywhere to go but i am very unhappy in this relationship and of course i dont have any money cuz it is not keep by me. there is just so much i want to do like get my own crib save my own money and try to find real true love.someonw that dont need money

2007-12-09 21:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by ceceboo87 1

honestly?, is there

2007-12-09 21:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this wonderful girl in my life. We were doing some Christmas shopping over the weekend and also picked up some personal items for her. While we were there, she also tried on some clothes, and I had to admit, they looked really good on her. We just couldn't afford to get them. However I'm hoping to surprise her with them as a late Christmas present, since we won't be able to see each other over the holidays. My idea is to get her a whole outfit, including a bra and panty set she was looking at, and to write a poem to go with each article of clothing, something along the lines of how Romeo wished he was a glove upon Juliet's hand (read the balcony scene). Although there's one catch: this girl is currently seeing someone else. Yet her boyfriend treats her like dirt. She acknowledges this. She's also said many times that I have treated her better then her boyfriend has ever had, and that she can just be herself around me. So, do you think it's a good idea?

2007-12-09 21:32:46 · 16 answers · asked by shadowscarlet 2

2007-12-09 21:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by sexycateyez17 1

please help:-
there was a guy in my school and he was looking at me and me at him well nothing hapend between us but i felt that he has some feelings for me because everytime he was tring to come near to me or to stand whith me or speake whith me everywhere i was standing he was coming and even my friends felt that too but he didin´t say anything because he had agirlfriend ,and he was one year befor me so he left and now i miss him that much that i can´t eat or sleep well i can´t foerget him ,i know that he has a girlfriend and this sound selfish but i don´t know what to do,i´ve tried to love someone else but each time i look at any boy i remember him ( he is the first one) so what shall i do ...

2007-12-09 21:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by debra l 1

They broke up 2 yrs ago. They were 16 yrs together. We have been together for 8 mths - the last 3/4 mths I have suspected that he sees her at least once a wk (stays the night) and goes away with her for weekends here and there- telling me he is on a business trip and not to call him.

He has not told her he is in a relationship with someone else as he says it will hurt her. I have seen texts from her and there are many other signs.

When i tell him that this is unaccetable he blames me, saying i don't know how to love. He told me yesterday that the problem is all mine and he can't go on. I said to him that this is my only issue and why can't he call me when he his away before he goes to bed - he said this is not possible.

I am trapped with someone emotionally unavailable who will not stand up and tell the truth to me or to her. I cannot move from this - i want the truth from him. Why wont he tell me- he wants me 75% of the time and her 25%?

What should I do please help

2007-12-09 21:24:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you experience the pre-marital sex? what are the causes that make you do the pre-marital sex? and what are the effects to you after you do that pre-marital sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

2007-12-09 21:21:44 · 11 answers · asked by mhimhi 1

2007-12-09 21:17:20 · 26 answers · asked by Ruchita Rajput 1

this girl kept making eye contact with me when i looked at her and she approached me a couple of times but i never talked to her and she asked out this other guy she liked, did she like me at all? or was she just trying to not break my heart by not paying attention. and this thing went on for almost 1 years, at work. but the confusing thing is when i was talking to the guy she asked out, he said she had been showing interest in him aswell all that time, and said she had liked him for a long time...did she like me at all or was she just playing around? she isnt a playa, she never had a bf...

2007-12-09 21:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am slightly disabled. The guy that I love has MS for 6 yrs now. I always felt like my normal friends never 100% understood me
& my disabled friends only had 1 thing in common with me.. being disabled.

This guy and I have everything in common and I can be my TOTAL self with him.

He says he wants to visit, yet he doesn't think a relationship will work out because of distance. (He's in Canada, I'm in the USA.) He says he thinks I'm his potiental soulmate and that he deeply cares for me and sees me for who I am and won't let me go, yet he says he doesn't know if he loves me & has never been in love.

He used to be so confident to the point he was cocky and now he is a hermit with no one but me. He is a shadow of the former man he was.

How do I get him back? How do I show him the way to make that leap to love me? I just want to bring him back, restore him.

*Maybe some people with MS could give advice? Greatly appreciated.*

2007-12-09 21:13:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 21:10:16 · 16 answers · asked by TB 1

Hi i need some serious cheering up as everything is going wrong today ive met the man of my dreams and now he wont speak to me for some reason and dunno how 2 sort it out we were ok sat night now he wont speak to me gutted.

2007-12-09 21:09:57 · 24 answers · asked by Alicia27 1

I think I might be pregnant with my second child. Ive been moody and depressed lately. Im young and I havent had the chance to experience what i would like in my life, I know if i have another child opposed to only one it would be majorly hard. My fiance is ready to settle down, so am i, but im so depressed. I dont want to give up my dreams or goals (thats how i put them) I hardly have time to myself, and im not the person i used to be. I dont have many friends, most gave up on me with my first child ( it didnt bother me) but no one understands or can tell me anything. Im sure im not the only one who feels this way. I would like to go back to school, i like going out here and there, but my fiance wants everything to stop (not school or work tho) I still want to enjoy my life and experience things that i should. I dont regret anything, Someone help me? am i depressed?

2007-12-09 21:00:03 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda K 1

I have a girl living next door. ( SHE IS TENANT AT MY PLACE) and for quite a while we have been meeting over for a movie at my place on weekends.
i really like her and as her birthday is approaching i wanna gift her some thing that can make her under stand my feelings for her,
SHE DOES NOT LIKE CHOCOLATES AND IS VEGETARIAN

Also she works in shifts means that the time when i am home she is not and vica versa
till not we are jus friend rather at the very beginning.
it seems as she has a BF too but i m not sure as many of the times she is home all day long and alone.
dunno bout her much but she is chatterbox kind and likes to chat a lot. (can spk on nuthing for quite a long) our chats are flexible and we can talk on anything.
Please recommend what can i gift her as i don have much budget.I am planning to leave the gift at her door to surprise her in the morning.

what can it be. Nothing exotic and straight forward, but just something which can make us come near and she start trusti

2007-12-09 20:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by andy 1

I've known this girl for 2 yrs and i've liked her 4awhile now and I know she likes me becuz...
- she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued
- she said she missed me during the summer
- she emails me & IM's me a lot
-she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f

Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick & thin...& I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im "Just friends" with her but the fact that she lead me and lied pisses me off

2007-12-09 20:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by Just Ask 1

2007-12-09 20:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live close to an old friend, we hook up frequently. Lately, I started to fall for her, despite our personalities were worlds apart.

I told her how I felt last week, she said she kinda felt likewise but not sure if she wanted to be with me and we should talk again. One day, she asked me why I wanted her and I said I had no answer, I just felt that way. Then she told me that she’s still not sure but I should not be in a relationship with her as she had a tendency to mess up guys she dated emotionally (she actually did) and that I was a nice guy, I didn’t deserve it. I said I didn’t care about the past and wanted to take my chance. She said that I felt the way I did because I had been spending too much time with her lately. She told me to stay away from her for the next few weeks and let her know if I still felt that same afterwards.

Did she tell me to take some time off just to turn me down in a nice way or did she mean it?
Should I pursue it any further?
What should I do?

2007-12-09 19:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it really that hard to find a female that would like to wear pantyhose for a guy because it turned him on?

2007-12-09 19:15:29 · 14 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3

Im talking about stuff like, walking around the house naked and not covering up, being able to talk about private stuff.

Can you and your partner do this, or are you more discrete?

2007-12-09 19:13:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

be seriouse don't leave mean comments i really need to know n if i like u'r comment i might WB.

2007-12-09 19:10:21 · 23 answers · asked by la di da 1

Usually go for guys with an inflated ego?

2007-12-09 19:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it is not a good thing to "try" to do, but sometimes it just needs to happen!

2007-12-09 18:38:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

every perons behavier is differ from charecter. some talk roughly their heart is very kind, they wnt harm or cheat others. some are talking very smoothly but their inner mind is very selfish, cheater like. some are smooth as well as good. but some are not good in talk as well as in charecters but some are good in both. Is goodnss in heart is always rewarded or not. Can u plz

2007-12-09 18:35:14 · 13 answers · asked by she s 1

2007-12-09 18:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by highthoughts 4

what the hell is the difference when a girl says i just wanna be alone and she is texting me constanly the whoel time whats the point of being alone and texting me and calling me i dont get her and what about a break she asked for a break i gave it to her she said well talk every nwo and then at night so what does that mean for me can i date while im on a break to me it sounds wrong but if its not going to work out i need to step up and try to do something so i dont dwell on it and stay home thinking oh i wonder who shes AND for everyone whos going to say i dont love her i ******* do with all my heart id kil for her but if its not working out between us and we both realize it why bother fighting a loosing battle?

2007-12-09 18:14:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

In most situations, when a guy is developing a crush on a girl, he is sexually attracted to her... So if a girl is developing a crush on a guy, is she sexually attracted to her?

2007-12-09 17:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous