Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

i broke up with my ex in may bc he was a jerk. i was out of sight out of mind for 4 months, and i see him when i go back 2 work 4 months later and i ignore him. He has a new gf that works there also, and is very mean to me when i dont even talk or look at him! It got so bad, management found out and talked him about it. Why would he waste his energy and be so mean to me when he has a new gf?

2007-12-09 10:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and looking straight into your eyes as if theres nothing else...
i do , this Christmas i hope its the last one of the lonely chapters of my story, miracles do happen people , but always stay true to your feelings and dont stop dreaming !
do you wish you find the love of your life this Christmas , how does
being alone for so long makes you feel?

2007-12-09 10:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf were watching a movie called "Bound" with um
Jennifer Tilly, and Gina Gershon. it's about these lesbian lovers who steals from the mob so that they could runaway together. and they had this lesbian sex scene where they're touching each other, and kissing, and manually stimulating each other, and i got really turned on.

i don't find girls individually attractive but seeing that scene got really really really hot, does that make me a lesbian?

2007-12-09 10:42:14 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-12-09 10:40:56 · 12 answers · asked by Babyruth 1

she would be all over you and want you back but she did the opposite? she ignores you.

2007-12-09 10:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by * 1

2007-12-09 10:38:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can tell this guy is really into me: he flirts with me all the time, sits by me at lunch, and sometimes we see eachother after school. its obivous we're more than friends and sometimes we've been so close to a kiss before but he seems ashamed when his friends show up becuase they all think i'm a nerd or a maniac or something. I really hope that we can at least have one kiss but how important is a friends aproval to a guy?

2007-12-09 10:34:37 · 4 answers · asked by Free-bee 4

What's your idea of geek-chic? What makes some nerds adorable/sexy, while others are a complete turn off?

I'm taking my 23-year-old nerdy guy friend shopping and need some ideas on how he can start attracting girls without denying his inner geek! :-) Thanks a bunch!

2007-12-09 10:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Nata 3

are relationships pointless for me

2007-12-09 10:25:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl i like and i am wondering what i could do 2 make her lik me cause im not shure if she does or dosent

2007-12-09 10:17:16 · 19 answers · asked by obvlious_to_the_obvious 2

hi.... have every body notice that in chat room or just me???
Question Details: if u dont have cam or pic every body well say bye ??? it called chat rooms for chat not the other thinges (u know wat i mean ) so is that happen only with me or all of u ther have the same .... and do any body meet a good person by the chat as frind or a lover may be ??? plzz answer me

2007-12-09 10:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by dolly 2

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2007-12-09 10:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, this guy who sorta kinda talks to me asked me to the ROTC Ball. Now, I'm 15 and he's 17. At first he didn't really talked to me and then on myspace he said he didn't know me. I confronted him of this and he acted like he didn't wanna talk to me. Like 2 days later he apologized and said he noticed i was pretty. Then in my ROTC class, he would just show up and start talking to me. On myspace he then asked me to the Ball. I feel kinda akward for some reason, like i barely know the guy. What should i do?

2007-12-09 10:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 10:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 09:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up for 4 days and just got back together. we were living together but i moved out because we broke up. but now im staying with a couple of my friends i know but there all guys. i miss living with my boyfriend and i know that if i go back that there might be a chance we will fight again and not solve any problems we have. the man issues we had was he was jealous of every guy i knew and thought i was sleeping behind his back. this wasnt the case. my issue was i relied on him too much and everytime he was un happy it would make me unhappy. but now that i know that what makes me happy for myself is my dancing and singing. are relationship wasnt healthy when we were together because of the issues we had. i hated him watching porn all the time. and it was a big problem for me because it made me feel intemidated. and now he doesnt tell me all of how he feels when i say i want to come home. im not sure what he wants. i know that he was having very bad panic attacks.

2007-12-09 09:59:03 · 2 answers · asked by Mimi 1

i used 2 go wit him 4 at least a year on and off until our parents broke us up during da summer. i gain at least 15 pounds during my sulke summer eating tons of junk food. den when i came back 2 da church after summer i realized he was the one 4 me .i miss him and i want him back but i think he has a girlfriend please help me

2007-12-09 09:57:23 · 20 answers · asked by bootyshakers 1

2007-12-09 09:56:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate them. But my boyfriend loves them. He knows this about me but i want to suprise him with one when he gets back from his annual training with the army. He is in a lot of pain so i figured i would try to make him feel better. Problem is. I dont even know where to begin. I have never ever had one. Nor would i like one. But i really want to know how to give him one. Please help. He doesn't come home until saturday. So i have a bit of time.

2007-12-09 09:56:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley K 2

lately i dont know what it is i just constantly am worrying my girlfriend is up to something... she wont answer her phone( then i find out shes working over time or her phones dead) or if shes really home (shes taking a nap sometimes and i overreact) or like today she has this really sexy lingerie and i enver knew she bought it like she was hiding it from i kept asking to see it shes like what does it matter and it still has the tag but i automatically assumed she was cheating on me i don't know why and even she says im becoming psycho and i know its starting to push her away from me what should i do i know shes not doing anything but i cant help to think that she is she says its pulling her away from me she thinks its so bad and unhealthy and i dont want that i love her i dont want to lose her cuz im being stupid what should i do?

2007-12-09 09:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so what happened is that me and this guy and i were just freinds but then i dont really know how i fell in love with him... we talked for about ten months he told me he loved me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he never asked me out.... two weeks before halloween we agreed to be together and for two weeks he was great it was like if finally he realized how much he really did love me. we saw eachother that day and it was great it felt perfect he finally asked me out i was so happy..... however evrything changed after that we didnt talk we didnt see eachother it was hell and then i found out he was cheating on me..... he confesed and told me it was over but that he really did love me and all this other bull... i told him goodbye for good but then i couldnt so i talked to him again but it wasnt the same, just today i found out that hes been spending the weekend with her and that hurts so much because he was my first love.... im just so hurt what should i do?

2007-12-09 09:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by redfairy 2

i dont know what is going on with me?? I feel so sad and cry when he say he want to leave?? I like him but I like to joke with him alot... Yesterday he ask me if i like him. I say i like him but he dont believe me . i quarrel with him and told him that i will not blame you if you dont trust me because it's my fault. instead of feeling more anger i feel sad. Why did he ever pursue a relationship to begin with?I send him a farewell text . He say he is not leaving anymore, he say he love me?? What's up with him?

2007-12-09 09:55:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 09:54:58 · 41 answers · asked by Lorrane 2

I have liked this guy since March. I really think I am becoming obsessed with him. It's hard to explain, but I have never been more attracted and felt more chemisty with anyone in my life. We have hooked up but he doesn't want a relationship and he really doesn't treat me like he cares at all. I know everyone says why be with someone who treats you that way, but he's like a drug to me.. he gives a little and takes a lot and leaves me wanting more everytime. I know I need to move on cuz he's never gonna wanna be with me. How do I move on? Every time I am drunk I get the urge to call him and I do. When I see him I melt. I've even dated other guys but I still think about him. I'm hooked on him. What do I do??

2007-12-09 09:54:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating somebody for almost 2 years now and he can never seem to find the time to call me...on weekends he disappears and if i try calling him i get his voicemail. He doesn't care about how upset this makes me. I know that he really truly does love me, but i've had enough. I really do love him and I know he has it in him to treat me better, but nothing is working. I don't know what to do to get through to him anymore. What should I do? Stay with him and try and make him realize that he hurts me, or leave him? it's so hard on me...

2007-12-09 09:51:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-12-09 09:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been im'ing everyday. he wanted to take it slow and communicate only online till he felt comfortable. his previous gf cheated on him and he was very gun shy. though he said after a few months that he was falling in love with me. we exchanged pictures. well-this past week-after a year-he called me on the phone out of the blue and says he wants to meet.

is this too weird??

2007-12-09 09:47:24 · 5 answers · asked by ronnie 2

I don't want a bunch of commentary on the dangers, and how people can be dishonest, lets assume we're all honest. Is it possible?

2007-12-09 09:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

A grl who is shy and sweet or a grl who is outgoing and talkative at first?

2007-12-09 09:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by nuttiebabie 1

i mean would you rather have a woman who has a perfect body but an average looking face, or someone who has a beautiful face but is carrying a few extra pounds of fat?

2007-12-09 09:42:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous