We broke up for 4 days and just got back together. we were living together but i moved out because we broke up. but now im staying with a couple of my friends i know but there all guys. i miss living with my boyfriend and i know that if i go back that there might be a chance we will fight again and not solve any problems we have. the man issues we had was he was jealous of every guy i knew and thought i was sleeping behind his back. this wasnt the case. my issue was i relied on him too much and everytime he was un happy it would make me unhappy. but now that i know that what makes me happy for myself is my dancing and singing. are relationship wasnt healthy when we were together because of the issues we had. i hated him watching porn all the time. and it was a big problem for me because it made me feel intemidated. and now he doesnt tell me all of how he feels when i say i want to come home. im not sure what he wants. i know that he was having very bad panic attacks.
2007-12-09 09:59:03 · 2 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cut your losses and move on.
2007-12-09 10:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live a life where feelings aren't discussed, someone else is always jealous and suspiscious of you, fighting and refusing to communicate in a calm and decent way, then go back to him.
if he has a medical problem with panic attacks then he needs to see a doctor, and get some therapy. you can't fix him... and you can't "make him happy".. happiness comes from the inside, not from other people.
Othewise, i think you can do way better...
2007-12-09 10:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋