Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

How do I become popular in high school but not act slutty? I want to be popular but how?

2007-12-09 05:04:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

pursued me and lavished attention - everything wz wonderful - until I texted him FU. I now recall he said to not ever say this to him in the past... i am not a crazy, rarely say FU but his behavior really sent me..... he is very driven, in sales, stressful job... probably he is a control freak and I now realize he has probably heard this from women in the past... there are likely control, & anger issues and i will likely back off from him anyway ... he will not answer my calls/texts. i stopped yesterday after a couple of calls/texts/apologizes, he had siad we would talk about this during the weekend but he hz cut off all contact. IS- it over and this is his way of telling me? he teaching me a lesson?control by silence? he is seeing how i handle the silence? or he is trying to figure it all out before he calls? i'm not contacting him again - it his txt to me after F U txt was" very very bad move. me no like F U. no way I deserved that.. will he call? bizarre behavior..

2007-12-09 05:03:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not trying to be judgmental or criticize anyone for their questions or the things that they are going through in their lives, and I've asked plenty of questions that some might not have an answer for, but honestly, questions like "When a girl looks at you, does that mean she likes you?" or "Does this mean he wants me back"? "If a guy slaps you on the shoulder, does that mean that he wants to date you?" "If he picked up my pencil, does that mean he likes me?" It's starting to get annoying as hell! Not because people ask, because they honestly expect you to give you their take on what someone we've never met, is feeling and it's impossible. Nobody can speak for all men or women everywhere and all people are different in their own unique way.

Why don't people ever come out and ask, the person exactly what they want to ask them, instead of sh!tload of strangers who have never met whoever it is that they like? I guess I'm more of a straightforward person, but what do you think?

2007-12-09 04:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ahhh, that felt good

2007-12-09 04:46:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean a guy goes to the bathroom out of that thing and he wants me to put it in my mouth. I think that's gross I mean isn't it dirty?

2007-12-09 04:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

we were together for 11 months, and i think we might be getting back together what can i get him?

2007-12-09 04:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like the above states, I just found the guy that I Iike is gay. Not only that, but he is going out with one of my guy friends. They've only been going out for a few days. This is just according to another one of my guy friends that they're gay, but some of the things they were doing (feeding each other, arms around one another, sitting too close, etc.) makes me believe that they are.

I feel like a, inadequate human being who will never be worthy of love. I'm feeling so many things right now and I don't know what to do. I want to go up to him and ask him if him and the other guy are really going out, and then I'm going to ask him to just be quiet and listen to me. I think I'm going to tell him that I liked him and that I apologize (b/c i kept hitting on him) because I had no idea and that I hope he and his boyfriend are happy together. I think that's the only way I will get to move on.

2007-12-09 04:26:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 04:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by gettapan 1

does your partner reach your expectations or did you just settle.
the question stems from the fact that a friend of mine (married) told me that you never get the one close to your "standards" but some times you have to settle.
Is that the case with you?Is the one you have your dream girl/guy or are they a miniature version of it

2007-12-09 04:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by cleo s 3

Okay I am a girl in the seventh grade. I like this guy and I think that he might like me too, but I am not 100% sure. So here is basically why I think he may like me too:
* He goes out of his way to talk to me almost every day
*He loves making me laugh
*He is always joking around saying things like call me
* I see him looking at me somethimes
*His friends told me he likes me (I dont know if they were kidding) They may have been.

So what do you think?
Does he like me?
If he does please also give me tips on how to "flirt" with him. (Im new to this!)I can be a little under confident and shy!

Also I used to have a crush on his friend and I am pretty sure he knows. I also think he still thinks I am still interested in his friend. How can I let him know I am no longer crushing on his pal without being to obvious about liking him?

Thanks

2007-12-09 04:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by simcrazyr 2

Like how she seems genuinely kind and caring to people around her even if they've never directly spoken to her? What attracts a nice guy when he's never spoken to her?

2007-12-09 04:21:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He loves here, she is not yet sure about her feelings to him, he flirts any time for all the time with her, so he decided to tell her about his feelings to her by giving her his ask yahoo ID name to read everything he asked the community about her, was this a good idea??

2007-12-09 04:12:19 · 2 answers · asked by Words_Unspoken 2

i think the last time was when i was 15 years old, wow thats a long time, and i miss this kinda dream, yeah call me a pervert if you want, im just being honest here,

2007-12-09 04:08:19 · 10 answers · asked by Spiritual Player 2

Im a 24 year old balding single guy and i am hairy everywhere except my head(where i want hair)! My ex and only girlfriend for 18 months said she liked it but she left me for a pretty boy type! I have hairy arms, chest, stomach, bum, legs, basically all over. I have had my back waxed before but it really itches and grows back after 2 weeks! Would it bother you if your man was hairy? Does it put you off a guy? All guys in the papers and films dont even have chest hair!

2007-12-09 04:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What sort of signal are you getting and do you have to tell them to stop cos you don't like being touched?

2007-12-09 03:59:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 21 yrs old and just got otta a bad realationship . my ex boyfriend bit me all over my arms bcuz i slapped him in the face for trying to have sex with me while i was crying becuz he broke up with me.........hes kinda sick in the head well my mom was watching from the window i got outta the car finally and was acting like i was gonna throw my coffee on him but he kicked it outta my hands then my mom called the cops the cops r pressing charges .now my ex b4 that called me telling me my ex boyfriend is trying to get him to testify and tell every 1 that im crazy......y am i crazy? yea for outting up with that crap....y do abusive guys never think its there fualt...y is this my fualt he has a history of hitting me he has left bruises the size of my palm all over my legs just becuz i want to go to piolet skol he threw a lipton bottle thro my car window and sharrtered it ...what the heck is his problem? and when it comes time to go to court do u guys think he will be put away.

2007-12-09 03:49:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa M 1

i started to go out with a man who's twice older than me!i really like him and for the first time...i felt ok,even if i know is not something nice!he has kids and he s married..i see he's wife often...at the beggining they didn't had a good relationship..now...they are improving it...i don't know...what should i do?i think she knows something...when i want to leave him..is too hard...please i need an advice

2007-12-09 03:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by sauvage 2

I'm single but masturbation makes me feel guilty

2007-12-09 03:27:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have a friend with benefit and we do stuff all the time. and last night after he left i asked him out. but he said "he doesnt want any relationships". i guess thats ok, but i still want to do stuff with him, and im pretty sure he wants to too. is that bad? should i just blow off the fact that he doesnt want to date me?

2007-12-09 03:26:50 · 9 answers · asked by volleyballchicka1 1

im pretty bored, so i ask. do all guys prefer the ugly little twiggy girls? or do some lik the curvy voluptuos girls? and wat if u hve a beautiful face but not a slammin bod (but still not lik hideous bod) or a ugly face and a hot bod? lol....and btw alot of guys should know that not all girls lik the really hot guy. w/ aolot of them it makes them self concious. as long as ur not seriously ugly, ur good. =)

2007-12-09 03:22:25 · 15 answers · asked by Mimi 1

my friend is 12 yrs old and she thinks she is ready to have sex im trying to tell her not too because if she gets pregnant its going to ruin her life but she wont seem to listen to me i know its none of my buisness but i still care about her what should i do only serious answers plz and thanks........

2007-12-09 03:17:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

does this mean that he likes me? he said that he really wanted to be with me??

2007-12-09 03:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by Loli 2

we just knew each other 7 days ago...

2007-12-09 03:03:57 · 14 answers · asked by jipsie 2

i just dont' feel close to her at all, she hasn't really done anything wrong . in fact she has pretty much done NOTHING

i am just feeling estranged from the relationship that we had.

She hasn't bought the dress yet and she is no money out of pocket. I just feel as if the friendship is really coming to an end just due to lack of interest with each other and heading in seperate directions in life.

what can i do , how can I say anything, am am only having two girls stand for me so it is importaint that I feel close and when i look back I don't want ot be like what ever happen to that girl.

2007-12-09 02:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by la de da 3

even on a first date - i am constantly knit picking at everything they do or say ... and i feel like i expect so much out of someone before ive even started dating them ...

2007-12-09 02:48:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, as we all know nothing in life last forever. Which is why it makes life ever more sweet. With that said, how would you like people to remember you as, WAY after your death.

2007-12-09 02:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Beamer 3

he was from Four Holes, Oklahoma?

2007-12-09 02:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 35 years old and I've had a crush on him for about a year now. I think I'm in love...I just...can't stop thinking about him. He's on my mind constantly. It hurts sooo much to think I don't have a chance with him...it's just...UGH. :( I can't keep my feelings inside any longer. I'm so lovesick it's not even funny. I can't even THINK straight...I like...cry about him all the time. I don't know. I just don't know. What should I do? Should I tell him my feelings? I can't just 'get over' him...I'm in love! I really, really am...:( Sorry if this is confusing. I'm really tired right now. *sigh*

2007-12-09 02:35:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we go out about every saturday night to his local bar. He does not drink but has ALOT of female friends that he works with. Last night at the bar a female came up to him and said that she missed his nightly massages that he gave to her and others while at work. Then I seen him blow a kiss to another girl across the bar. He also calls them baby. Should this concern me as far as getting into a serious relationship with this man. Yes you can say that this made me a bit jealous as I have never seen this side of him. He does get phone calls and text messages from other woman as well when we r together and says that they r just friends. We are both divorced and in our early 40s. Am I just being an immature and jealous girlfriend here? Or should I be concerned?

2007-12-09 02:30:13 · 14 answers · asked by debbie 2

My boyfriend is getting me jewelry so I want to get him something nice to. Any suggestions.

2007-12-09 02:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Izsk8tr17 1