Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs have decided to come to an end. buti feel like i made the worng choice. can someone please help me figure out how to do anything to get him back. men, what can a female do to blow you away and give you a clear picture that she appreciates you and needs you. what do men want or need to feel that way? help me please

2007-12-09 08:32:53 · 22 answers · asked by jjzzlove 1

This girl and I have been off and on dating for awhile. Once day when I called her she said she couldn't talk becuase she was practicing her trombone I was a waste of her time. So later she texts me and she tells me how she wants to be the girl that i used to adore and love. Now this morning we talk and when I was about to go she makes a big deal about me leaving. Saying she is hurt I am leaving because she cares about me. But when I asked what she would do if she was me she said "ditch her stupid *** because she is emotionally unstable." yet she continues to say she doesn't want me to leave her life entirely. What should I do with this girl? Should I talk with her about what she really wants or just leave? Or maybe a mix or something....

2007-12-09 08:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Joseph D 2

2007-12-09 08:24:21 · 1 answers · asked by ecwsandman343 1

i didn't have a b/f till I was 16, I'm 18 now but things seem to have changed alot since I was 12. I read on the net about kids wanting to have sex at 12/13, they dont seem to think holding hands and kissing is enough which I find really strange. is this what all kids are like now? i dont want my 12yr old sister to get a b/f if thats what hes going to want...

2007-12-09 08:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by lHeat 1

2007-12-09 08:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by candiecorn 1

im verry young..too young to have sex. my boyfriend is 3 yrs older than me [2 yrs in a couple weeks] but i realllyy wanna have sex with him but hes said how hes turned it down so much and he wants to be the 40 yr old virgin idk what to do....

2007-12-09 08:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

details are helpful here

2007-12-09 08:17:08 · 24 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

2007-12-09 08:15:52 · 16 answers · asked by Kipper to the CUP! 6

2007-12-09 08:13:09 · 4 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3

ok, so on friday my boyfriend of about a month told me he thought we should break-up and that he was sorry. all i could do was stand there and nod so he walked away. thru my last two classes all i did was cry and try to figure out what i had done to make him break up with me. on wednesday he'd been telling me how much he wanted to go to the movies and that he loved me, then on thursday he was acting kinda funny and not really talking much so i asked if he was ok and he said yeah. i asked his best friend if he was ok and he said ya and then out of curiosity i asked if he was going to break up with me but his best friend said definintely not and that he loved me. He was my first boyfriend and i'm really kind of sad about it, but i don't want to make it seem like i blame him or anything because i really don't. My question(s) are 1) what did i do wrong, if anything? and 2) how do i act around him tomorrow at school, we have an english presentation and hang out with the same people.

2007-12-09 08:12:24 · 28 answers · asked by nmwildcat5 1

It's the latest gossip that me and this guy are a potential couple. Supposedly he's scared to ask me out. He's outgoing and confident and really hot so I don't see why he's scared. What can I do to make him less afraid to ask me out?

2007-12-09 08:11:59 · 29 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

ok... another question from me
ok... i'm an 7th grader and she's in 8th grade
can anyone guess what i'm gonna talk about now?
good, now descriptions... she has this really awesome smile that she often flashes at me during band class, the only place i know her of.
but i don't know if that means she likes me. cause i just look average-ish. how can i tell?
how do i nonchalantly start a conversation?
how do i get her to like me?
hell, i don't even know her name!!!
HELP!!! I"M DESPERATE!!!!

2007-12-09 08:04:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to apologize now since he didnt mean it how I took it.

2007-12-09 08:02:34 · 23 answers · asked by eatcreations 1

months ago i got a new boyfriend but my ex one day he saw me on the beach with my guy, so he start kissing me and the my boyfriend went so surprised and when my ex saw him he start touching me and not just that, he took me to the ocean and start touching my bubs, vagina, and i was like "get off !!" so i squeeze his nuts so my boyfriend told me that my ex was jealous and that he will call me later...
next day my ex told him "be carefull..." and he go..

why he doesn't just leave me??

2007-12-09 08:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by fashionista :) 3

Do you think- It is not a good idea?
Ok to do? or depends on chemistry?

2007-12-09 08:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by upsers59 2

So i like this guy and
i thought everything was going good
and Friday night i hear that he made out with this girl in my school!
But this [girl] also did stuff with three other guys that night!
So how do i look at this?
I really like him and
right now i just want to be friends with him until he
starts to like me!
[guys what do you think]???

2007-12-09 08:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we arent rushing at all, we just started talking about it. hes not forcing me or anything, he said he'd wait if i wanted. we both trust each other a lot, and we're in love, but do you think we should just wait it out?

2007-12-09 08:00:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf is like being all.....
Me: Ok then........ i'm gonna go jump off a cliff now........
kris: no
Me: don't try and stop me...............
kris: I Will
Me: Ok then............... i'm just REALLY bored as crap!!!!!!!! and I can't be on the computer much longer...
kris: k
kris: im about to post this vid on youtube\
Me: Cool......................................
Me :-S
Me: Well......... this is really riveting but I have to go......... i'll talk to you later or something...... i can't be on the computer much today b/c of my bro and sis so.........
kris: ok
kris: bye
kris: love ya

Why is he being all...?? Weird and quiet??? We had a who loves who more fight earlier...

2007-12-09 07:56:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've never really been the kind of girl to ask out men, but I've been getting a lot of crap from my galfriends about how it's really silly of me to have that scruple, especially sense I've been crushing on this guy for 4 months and don't want to ask him out even now that he's single. Girls who ask out guys just seem slutty and/or desperate to me, is that a misguided observation?

2007-12-09 07:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jasmine 5

I know im loud during sex, but according to my friend, she is perfectly silent. Now I cant tell, whose the weird one here, me or her? O_o

2007-12-09 07:53:39 · 19 answers · asked by . 5

that a girl does to you.

anything, thank you.

2007-12-09 07:52:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 07:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by norma * 1

Im looking for a guy who is always there for me. Who will protect me. I will do whatever the guy wants me to do. I want a guy who won't use me. And a guy that will never cheat on me.

2007-12-09 07:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by babykitten132001 1

Do you find girls with or without makeup more attrative?

Do you like girly-girls or tomboys?

just wondering. thanks!

2007-12-09 07:41:43 · 29 answers · asked by Glycerine 4

2007-12-09 07:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not dating this guy, but yesterday, this guy i really like came up and told me he liked me. he caught me really offguard, so I pretty moch rejected him. i want to tell him i like him too, but i dont know if he will want me back, and i dont know if i have the guts to. ANY SUGGESTIONS AT ALL ??? please help me. i wont see this guy for another week.

2007-12-09 07:38:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a month after my 3 year relationship ended with my ex i started liking another guy and now we're together and have been for 2 weeks. The thing is, hes a total sweetie but some of the things he says scare me. He says hes already in love with me and that he can see himself being with me forever. Thats exactly what my 3 year boyfriend told me before he broke up with me. Now, my new boyfriends longest relationship lasted 2 weeks.. thats something else that scares me. I really like him alot, we have alot in commen and everything, just the things he says scares me. Another thing is that we are sexual with each other alot.. i know he really cares about me but i dont know.. Everything he says pushes me away. Last night we had sex for the first time together (neither of us are virgins) but we were drunk.. i just feel overwhelmed. Should i get out of this? Any advice?

2007-12-09 07:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by This is me. 1

My friends tell me to get out of my relationship of 4 yrs with my boyfriend whom I love. We get into arguement a lot, 90% they R from him and for stupid things with his trust issues. He starts swearing and I yell back without swearing. But when we aren't fighting we are perfect together. Recently we were fighting and I was fed up with him swearing and yelling at me. I try to leave but he said no cuz I had few drinks, but he was the drunk one. He was holding my arms tight and continued swearing at me. I pinched him to let go of me and he got furious. He squeeze my arms so tight lifting me a little that I screamed in pain. I was in tears. The next day my left upper arm was black and blue. The bruise was as big as a person's hand. He couldn't believe when he saw it. He didn't realize how tight he had done it and apologized. I forgave him, cuz I felt I lead him to do it by pinching him. My friends think he is out of control & abusive & I need to get out now. R they right?

2007-12-09 07:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

is at her house your texting her 6:30 a.m in morning what are you thinking not being smart just wondering

2007-12-09 07:32:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

please give me your opinion or advice.

2007-12-09 07:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by camacholilac 2