Singles & Dating - 9 December 2007

Sex before marriage, to get some experience in?
Or wait till you get married, for sacredness?

2007-12-09 12:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 2

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2007-12-09 11:57:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is this just a guy thing?

For example. I will check out her face - then her hands - then her legs, then her chest.

Of course after the initial physical attraction then it is all personality.

Thanks for answering ladies!

2007-12-09 11:56:28 · 28 answers · asked by Christian 1

I am 16, almost 17
and my boyfriend is 17.

We are thinking about being engaged but don't want to rush things.
We do love each other, we've been through a lot and have gotten through it all. We've never even had a real argument or fight.

What do you think?
If we were engaged we WOULD NOT get married still we are in a stable postion.

2007-12-09 11:55:40 · 28 answers · asked by southernsweetie 3

Ok.... i am 5'11" i have medium length light brown hair with green eyes i am ALWAYS told that i should be a model i have been asked by hollister to model for them but boys at my school dont really seem to pay attention... well i guess they do its just not the right ones...lol... so would you date me??? this is just for fun so all you girls that wanna send some bitchy comment dont... because i just wanna hear from the guys on this one...

2007-12-09 11:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by brunettbabi 2 1

2007-12-09 11:51:48 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend has been spotting dancing with a girl at school, giving her his hat [which he doesnt let ANYONE touch, not even me], sitting with her on the bus, pretty much checking her out, and he even got my name wrong one time.. Is he cheating on me, and should i dump him? a lot of my friends have told me i should.. but idk. I've heard those accusations from a variety of people.. even people i dont know but they know im dating him.. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

2007-12-09 11:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by Helena's Nobody 2

I don think wanting a beautiful, smart, confident woman with standards who dont want/like men to treat them like yesterday's garbage would be all that hard to find......sadly, it is, so why shouldnt I give up?

2007-12-09 11:46:06 · 32 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

A girl said this to me the other day and now I'm confused. Was she hitting on me?

2007-12-09 11:44:38 · 35 answers · asked by Ross 1

should it be top priority in a new relationship if we are not considering intercourse right away?
and is fingering considered just another way to say intercourse or just another name for it without getting pregnant? how may people oppose of it and should it be practiced as safe sex when my guy thoroughly washes his hands so we are protected.
more safe than sorry, but as a new couple we will be eventually having sex, just not right away. we want to be very careful and very safe.

2007-12-09 11:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by 3LL3 e VAT3 1

I'm 19 and i have found an amazing girl who I love. We have been together for almost 8 months and have grown so close and we have become pretty serious. I was a virgin before i met her and That is fine with me. I wanted to wait for someone special. I did discover that my girlfriend had sex with her previous boyfriend and it hurts every day. I HONESTLY feel a queaziness in my stomach and a pain in my heart when i imagine the love of my life with another guy. What is worse, is that she broke up with him on good terms because she had to move. I want her to HATE him becuase i still wonder if she thinks about him because he was her first. I really do love this girl, and i accept her past. I just wish i could get rid of the thoughts. I want to talk with her about it and how i feel, i just dont know how. Is this normal? Thanks guys.

2007-12-09 11:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im looking for a guy that is fun and has a great personality, I keep on running into the jerks of the world, how do i find the right person for me?

2007-12-09 11:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by fairygirl888 2

ok so we dated for about a year and a half and he was such a pain and he acted like a baby and i am NOT ready to be a mom yet..... so he just had to go... so i thought that i loved being single but after a few weeks i miss him sooo much and he has totally moved on and he is dating another girl and it kills me to see him happy with another girl but i DO NOT want to get caught up in him again and i do not wanna go out with him ever again!!!! how do i get over him... i have another boyfriend already and i really like him i just cant seem to fullly get over that BAD HABBIT.

2007-12-09 11:31:09 · 25 answers · asked by brunettbabi 2 1

I'm 19 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. My mom and I don't really have the relationship we once did, and I want to talk to her about it so badly, but I think she will be appalled if I told her. I'm hesitant to tell her because I'm not dating this guy and she has no idea that I've even KISSED someone let alone slept with them. Shes always been like "Your body is a temple and wait to have sex until your married" so I have no idea how she is going to react. What can I possibly say to start the convo?

2007-12-09 11:26:37 · 17 answers · asked by longislndgrl114 2

I've been going out with this guy for like nine months now. I told him that I wanted to give myself to him after my senior prom, which is in May and would make our time together a year and two months. We both discussed it, and we're both alright with that date. He says he wants to make sure I'm perfectly ready for it. My problem is, I'm beginning to fear it, because my friends who have already had sex tell me it's really painful. Usually I'm very tolerant of pain; Tampons don't hurt me at all and such, but I'm really starting to be afraid it.

Am I making too big a deal of this? Does it really hurt that bad? And what can I do to ease my mind?

2007-12-09 11:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Xanthyan 3

Iv just started working in a nightclub thats just opened,and one f the bouncers has been touching me, it first strted on friday when he told me to take him upstairs to show him around, and asked him to show him the cloak room. And kept cumin out wth remarks like hmm like it round their we can get up to owt, hes asking personal questions, asked if im easy in bed, touching me up. I dint say anything only to a mate who said she will talk to the boss but i told her not to. but yesterday we had a lock in party and my boss kept asking me whats wrong cuz he could tell something was wrong i ran off crying so my mate who i told had to tell my boss everything and hs promised hes going to sack the bloke and hes never stepping foot in the club but aint going to tel him wy hes been sacked cuz i asked him not to. But know i feel as if i ruined everyones(staff) night although i did cheer up,and feel guilty for him getting th sack.

2007-12-09 11:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the best way to turn a girl on... like get her in the mood

2007-12-09 11:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by washable mist 4

But then, I'm not so ideal, I'm not gentle or gentile, so the question should be what does he see in meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

2007-12-09 11:11:41 · 20 answers · asked by Bollo 2

I like this one person, and my friend said "So, what do you think about her?" and he was like, "Herrrr? I think she's way outta my league." What does that mean?

2007-12-09 11:11:15 · 20 answers · asked by danishfilipina 3

I started seeing a guy 4 months ago he chased me down asking me on dates for months. He was married before and has been divorced 18 months, they were only together for about a year. She initiated the divorce & totally destroyed him, I was there when he came back home with nothing, I saw the pain he went through. We kept the relationship fairly quiet as neither of us knew what to expect & didnt want to have to explain to everyone if it all went wrong, 2 days ago he said he was too scared to move to the next level, too afraid of being hurt again, he said he would rather be alone forever than go through that again. I said we could take it as slowly as he wanted, he said he couldnt give me 100% and that was not fair on me, then he told me how much he would miss me and how sorry he was that it had to be this way, he thought he was ready but not just yet, its still too raw, I am not going to wait for him as that could mean forever, what do I do to make him see he is still letting her win?

2007-12-09 11:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so why?, why do women invest in the relationship more so than men?Why can't we be like them?

2007-12-09 11:06:44 · 18 answers · asked by ~Jessi~ 1

My guy is an a.s.s man.
any tips on satisfying him with the assets?

guys comments very welcome!=]

2007-12-09 11:05:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 11:04:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy that lives 2 hours away from me. He is 30, which is 5 years older than me. He is a very nice and caring man. We are 'In A Relationship' together!! The thing is though, I have no heard from him (or chatted with him on AIM or through e-mail) since like Thursday I think it was. ALSO, he goes bowling some nights....Sometimes poker, and sometimes plays pool. He says its with his friends. Should I be concerned?!?
We haven't met yet. We haven't talked on the phone yet.

I called him yesterday like 2 times and texted a few times also. Heard nothing back!!!

2007-12-09 11:01:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

okay so ive been on and off again with this boy for over a year and a half and like 3 weeks ago we started going back out and 2 days ago i lost my virginity to him but i dont know hw to tell my mom. its not that im afraid of what she is going to say becuase she reallly likes my boyfirned but i just dont know how to tell her. i also have 2 older sisters that told her about their 1st times im just nervous too. i was thinking about telling my oldest one who is 19 bt i dont know how o bring it up. please help me.

2007-12-09 10:58:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant leave my house, what should i do?! :)

2007-12-09 10:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 10:52:38 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if he knows you like him too because there this guy and people say hes down to earth and talkative but he dont act like that around me.

2007-12-09 10:52:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

Ok if you liked a girl that you didnt really know that well,what would be a sign that you like her,in an non obvious way?

2007-12-09 10:52:23 · 5 answers · asked by becka 1

Im 14 any tips thanks [:

2007-12-09 10:47:21 · 27 answers · asked by jenna 1