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Im 14 any tips thanks [:

2007-12-09 10:47:21 · 27 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

im also 14 so i would know pretty well.. being flirty which im sure you all ready are.. not be dramtic, staying calm when guys are calm (girls get alittle carried away at times) just hang around him

2007-12-09 10:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by charles C 2 · 1 1

# Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or the coolest person. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for lies.
# Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
# Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
# Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
# Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
# Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
# Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
# Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
# You need to have the time of your life
# Try to find something you both like.

2007-12-09 10:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by MNM 4 · 1 0

I had my brother write this 1. But u shouldn't listen 2 him he is a 16 year old geek. But really be urself & don't worry about what u look like. The best guys r the 1 who don't judge a book by it's cover!!!
It depends on the guy. 75% of guys like u if ur hot.
if they know that y aren't a FAKE!
if you don't try too hard.
if u r truthful.
if u r sports orrientated/ like sports.
cup size/bra size
MUSIC TYPE
non spaztic
don't dis themselves (omg im soooo fat!!!)
if u r bisexual
girlie girl or tom boy
one night stands

2007-12-09 11:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by solar eclipse 2 · 0 0

Try to look a little shy and look at a guy, and if he looks at you , look away with a smile. If you smile and have a sense of humor, that goes a long way. Guys want to be with a positive girl not a complainer. Accidentally having to touch a guy while you laugh works great, like , put your hand on his arm and keep it there for a few seconds . But you have to be close so you don't have to reach.

2007-12-09 11:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1 0

every guy is different.. they all like different things.

be yourself.
if the pirticular guy doesnt like you for who you are then he's not right for you. there IS a one special made especially for you. and you will only find him if you be your true self.

basic tips to keep in mind...
1. respect him.
2. never say mean things about people to him. [major turn off]
he will only wonder what you say about him behind his back to other people.
3. dont tell him hes gay or question his "manlyness"
4. dont be "easy" guys like a challenge
5. always appricate the things he does for you.
6. let him be the "man" in the relationship.
7. BE YOU!

the right guy for you will come eventually.

:]

2007-12-09 11:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A warm smile, a warm personality, and being interesting to talk to. Good looks attract a guy but he won`t stick around if there`s an empty head.

2007-12-09 10:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by jms043 7 · 0 0

Confidence.

2007-12-09 10:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya 2 · 0 0

many reasons why
1.your personality,
2. how you look(pretty,charming),
3 how you talk,
4 how you walk,
5 grooming skills,
6 cooking skills,
7.babysitting skills
8. how friendly you are
9. your perfume smell
10. your good grades
all this plays a part on whether it makes a guy like or hate you

2007-12-09 10:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Marie Q 4 · 0 1

it totally depends on what the guy likes in a girl; cause every guy's diff.
buh looks and personality really matter to a guy:]
well thats what i think;

2007-12-09 10:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by buttercup 3 · 1 0

I find that they like my deep Manly voice and the way I lear at them in a scary yet...inviting way...At your age I wouldn't waste too much time in trying to real them in...Read some good books watch movies...Don't try to make them like you...Be smart...you'll stand out more...if you focus on your studies and making the right choices in life....Good Luck...

2007-12-09 10:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Trix 4 · 0 1

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