Singles & Dating - 12 December 2007

this is the best way to describe how i feel, i dont even want to ask this question but I have to as I really dont know what else to do... I was raped two years ago, and the man who did it gave me an STI called Herpes, when i got it checked out the Doc said it was a mild form, i was soo shocked and stunned I didnt ask any more questions just left the room..and have tried to block it out of my memory until now, have met somone i think im in love, we get on so well together and i know that he cares for me and that he would never hurt me in that way, i did mention it to him that i was raped ..conversation went awkward he got sorta angry and couldnt really speak to me, we havent mentioned it since, now i have to tell him about the STI and how am i going to do this? ishe going to leave me? I know that I would always use protection but I feel he should know now as it would be worse if we are together for years and then tell him..how do i do this, i dont want to loose him, i hate this ...

2007-12-12 23:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by giggels 2

I chose to see you,
Lied to myself,
Let you hurt me so badly,
Now still alone, deprived...

You pushed my limits,
And yet still in power,
fake grin when you wink
numbs my pain, my tears.

You have this charm,
Though you look like a beast,
irresistible look,
which blinds me utterly.

Thank God my heart cannot be fooled,
too pure to ignore the truth,
disgraceful manner,
deceitful nature...

2007-12-12 23:33:08 · 12 answers · asked by ladybird 3

That playing "hard to get" will make a guy want them more, for me, it is stupid, and makes me confused. I just dont get it, dont you think it would be easier just to go up to a guy and say that you like them back, instead of confusing the grrr out of him? sorry tryin to lay off harsh words, ive been using poop as a substitute but im fine without saying that on here. Lol, anywayyyys, so thanks alot everyone.

2007-12-12 23:26:10 · 12 answers · asked by Dann (: 4

i speak spanish so sry for the bad writing


so me n my ex broke up cause she was moving to jersey after 6 months she found out tht she is moving bac so sicne i luv her n she luvs me( she found out i had a gf alst night cause i told i ahd one n broke up tht same day)i broke off with my current gf but my ex is pregnant from her last bf she broke up with him 2 months ago

she is my true love,she is thinking of giving the baby for adoption is tht k? wat u think?

im18 she is 16

2007-12-12 23:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Puertorican 3

2007-12-12 23:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been told it was a fire that can burn a house down...a movie said it wasn't a feeling but a skill...what do y'all think?

2007-12-12 23:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by saeuta 3

we broke up after i played an immature prank on her to see if she still cared or not 3 months ago. Recently, she sounded so worried through her text messages to me and she kept sayin that i have a gf when i assured her that i dont and she said that i cant move on if i dont have a gf(i texted her a month ago and told her that i moved on). She even called me sweety o_0 she never called me that bfore LOL. How will i know if she still likes me? im meetin her friday after 3 whole months! and shes coming to my bday on saturday :D

2007-12-12 22:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3

anything wrong with a 15 year old and a 30 year old marrying?

2007-12-12 22:53:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 22:49:56 · 25 answers · asked by Smudge 3

pliz need help. imagine i applied for a job and under normal condition, am qualified for the job, but i have been refuse the opportunity because i didnot do what the manager asked me do.
yea, what did he asked me to do? he told me, that inorder to show my appreciation, i needed to make love with him.
and that could be the only way out.
actually, i need a job, but how do i over come this temptation. he is not the first that has approach me like that. sometimes i think because the know i need the job despirately , that is the reason why, am been ask to..

2007-12-12 22:49:42 · 13 answers · asked by R.M.zoneziwoh 1

I'm sorry hon...i just get hurt very easily.

2007-12-12 22:47:40 · 23 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4

the one which goes like ' i met this guy on this cruise blah blah blah' Holy Hell, i wanna strangle her

2007-12-12 22:41:56 · 14 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3

i have known this girl for two years. we lost touch and now i recently start talking to her again. She used to call me sexy, pimp, etc... but im still not sure what she wants.

2007-12-12 22:40:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel that i want something new i dont know whats wrong with me really but for qiet a while now ive been feeling like i dont like anything about my boyfriend no more i seem to not like his body not like his face not like how he acts & everything, the other night we were having sex & after a couple of minuts i just stopped because i just was not interested its not that we have sex too much cause we have it stuff all but when we go to do sexuall stuff im just not interested in him i feel kind of bad but when i picture me & another guy doing stuff together it kind of turns me on and interests me? its hard to leave him because i have a 18month son to him i feel trapped sometimes i feel like i hate him? what can i do? & no its not hormones either. we are both 20.

2007-12-12 22:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, me and my bf were doing great, and then he tells me, when things started to get a lil rocky between us, that he wanted to ask me to be his fiancee but was worried about me being afraid of commitment and how early it was in the relationship.Then he asks 4 a break, coz he thought it would make us closer.I told him it would make us further apart and it did.he started to get angry at me for no reason and now we r split. he has not told his m8s yet, and he wants to still try and work things out. However, every time we try n spend sum quality time together, he tells me just b4 we go out that he needs to be back 4 a certain time, coz of going to the pub with mates or sport. So i say, well dont worry going out with me then, coz i dont want to rush our time 2gether.Does that make sense?His bday is coming up and he still hasnt told his friends yet. Ive asked him whats going on in his head, but i dont get a clear answer. He answers my questions with questions.Any1 have an idea wot hes thinkin

2007-12-12 22:38:52 · 11 answers · asked by louise 3

2007-12-12 22:36:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

to me every night some times more than once and im like can i just have one night off and he thinks its like the end of the world almost im not complaning id like to no if this is normal

2007-12-12 22:32:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 22:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean we only know each other 2 dates.

2007-12-12 22:20:48 · 33 answers · asked by Janie J 3

sexual attraction, or romance????

is it about getting attracted to someone or caring about them

2007-12-12 21:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

2007-12-12 21:10:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 13 year male old high school student and when my older 17 year old sister is not home I like to wear her cheerleader uniform.I don't see anything wrong with it,what's the big deal,some people might take it the wrong way,I'm not gay,no one is home at the time.I think it's really not fair that a guy can't wear what he wants to,there are too many rules in this country,who else thinks the same way?
My older sister is taller and bigger so I don't strech out her clothing,I don't want to wear women's clothing just my sisters,I don't wear her clean cheerleader uniform only her dirty ones,she looks like a miss teen usa,I don't see what the big deal is,no one is home when I'm wearing it.

2007-12-12 21:04:03 · 31 answers · asked by enigma 2

the pics were taken when they were about 2 they were naked on the carpet when i was changing them

2007-12-12 21:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend and I split after I looked at his ex girlfreinds mypsace profile and she claimed they were back together. She had all these pictures and plans about their life together. I should have just asked him, but I flipped out. He dumped me claiming that his ex probably just did that to spite me and that he doesn't even talk to her. Now, 3 months later, the pictures are back up again. What is going on here? I know I shouldn't care, but I am wondering if I was lied to by my ex boyfriend? Are they back together? What other reason does a girl have to keep a picture of them kissing as her profile picture? To ward off another guy maybe?

2007-12-12 20:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I like this guy but we just met like 3 weeks ago. And we talk all the time but he doesnt know me that well yet. Hes coming to my friends on Saturday and I wanna tell him how much I like him but I'm scared he wont want to speak to me again. I dont want to loose him as a friend if he doesnt want to date. Theres a lot I need to tell him before I tell him I like him. Because I have trust issues and I hate liars and cheaters. And I'm bipolar. But I dont think he would mind any of that. I just dont know how to tell him. I'm very shy and hes kinda shy himself. Any advice?

2007-12-12 20:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by girlnamedmorgan 1

Two Couple. One Story.
One girl asks for time with her boyfriend because she feels he is so distant physically and emotionally. She wants to be reminded how much he loves her everyday. She wants him to know that she wants to be part of her whole life. But it is too much for him.

Another girl asks for space from her boyfriend because she feels she needs time alone to find herself.
She wants him to give her time with her friends and family. She wants him to know that she still loves him. But it is not enough for him.

It is so simple yet so complicated. One person understands the other person’s partners feeling. It is so difficult when the person you love feels the contradiction of your emotion. Who makes the sacrifice?

2007-12-12 20:30:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years. They were planning to get married. He met me 3 months after they decided to split. He dated me for 3 months. I think we had a great connection, but I had trouble believing he was over his ex. He dumped me and found a new girlfriend in a few weeks. Whats going on here? What is with guys that go from one relationship to the next? He is only 23 and seems anxious to get married (since his last 2 headed towards that....)

2007-12-12 20:29:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so this is wierd its been a while but ima get to it! when i have sex i cant get off but if i masterbate or get oral i get off fine!!!
i dont think about it when i do it and its happened with the last 2 girlfriends! i dont know why! can anyone help me!
im not fat im in great shape and i can get off anyway but having sex my girlfriend gets off many times but me none??
............

2007-12-12 20:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by CaliBoy 1

I've been posting here about him for many times. I dont care about the number of points. Sigh. ): I'm just very troubled.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071213003410AAHxpIg&r=w
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqFB.5bXb5stjECWgkqHoAnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071213000836AAKMfx5

And is he true:

~If he sends alot of love emails/smses to you, telling you not to leave him, and i will be in his heart, etc etc.
~He says he wants to marry me, when i become 21, and by the time he is 28. He claims that he has already planned for valentines day, christmas, when we have only known each other for 3 days. I've promised to be his girlfriend though.. He says he hopes for me to be his last one...

Thanks...

2007-12-12 20:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

I'm almost 22, have not dated in 3 years, and have a job paying well enough to live without worries if i'm the only one in the picture. I had a girlfriend in high school for two years, followed by a few short ones (or long dates, you could say) and another girlfriend in college that was a manipulative, using, evil woman from which i could hardly escape, and ended up causing me to end up on too many medications for the problems she'd convinced me i had, which led to a mental breakdown and my dropping out of college, and so on Christmas Eve i called her fat and was living in another state by New Year's, where i recovered from stopping all my meds cold-turkey and got my life back. Now that i'm back home and making great progress in my career, i havn't really DONE anything lately, just working and buying stuff i've always craved, but is it normal to think that the last 3 years of no dates could be actually the start of a lifetime as such? I feel like im okay with the idea of living solo

2007-12-12 20:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by Spanky Monkey 3