Singles & Dating - 12 December 2007

lately ive been feelin so irritated and frustrated. im taking it all out on my bf. we had the best day today.. he treated me to a massage and dinner. and now im being a ***** bassically. what the crap is wrong with me.. help me.. its really startin to get serious.. help. what could it be? and its not only him im taking it out on.

2007-12-12 17:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by Maria D 3

this evening GULP ihave said we can have back door love
never done it before and want to ask does it hurt what is it like and what should i use to make it easyier on me

this is a real question
so real answers please

2007-12-12 17:04:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Friends! Help! A guinea pig tricked me!"

2007-12-12 17:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by refuse2lose_2006 3

This guy asked me to homecoming this year, and he's great, funny, sweet, etc. but I'm not interested!!

He made a huge deal about homecoming too.. at one of our all highschool assemblies, he got up there and serenaded to me on the piano and then pulled out a bunch of roses and asked me in front of everyone!!!!

But i felt SO bad because I couldnt make it to the dance!!!

Anyways. It's still been really awkward between us because I can tell he still likes me. But I wouldnt mind if he was one of the more outgoing and easy to talk to kind, but he's really shy, and it's just always always awkward.

What's a good way to show that I'm not interested? Because I dont want to be rude to him or anything by cutting him off harshly.. But I dont want to lead him on or anything, just in case he has plans for asking me to something else.
Plus, our highschool has like 300 kids, so everyone knows everyone else, and I dont want to seem like a ***** to someone so sweet!

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2007-12-12 17:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Ugh, it's like there's a party in my mouth and everyone's throwing up."

2007-12-12 17:02:17 · 15 answers · asked by refuse2lose_2006 3

The other night I had this really enjoyable dream as in sexual but instead of having sex with my bf I was having sex with his best mate while he and a lot of others were watching. We were kinda on this stage and all the other people were just ignoring it like it was normal practice there but my bf looked a little upset. Anyways afterward I remember still fancying the guy I had sex with (bf mate) but going back to my bf and hugging him and him saying that everything was Ok and we were all friends again. Does this mean anything?

2007-12-12 16:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wounder can he fire me?

2007-12-12 16:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by saveitok 6

2007-12-12 16:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 and have my first boyfriend who is 16. We've been going out for two months, and about a week ago we had our first kiss, then like three days ago we went to "second base"- him feeling me up and me feeling him down...

I really liked it and didn't mind him touching me at all and thought touching him was mighty fun as well, but afterwards I felt a bit bad about touching him.
He was my first kiss and such so this is the farthest I've ever been with someone... I don't really know how far to go and how fast.
Well- that's pretty much as far as I really wanted to go for a long while, so in my mind it's like we already had sex and can't go any farther. haha I've reached my limits

So, I'm just wondering- as far as your relationships have gone- is this a decent speed to be moving (taking into account our age and 2 months of being an "item")?

I know that everybody's different, but I can't help but be curious to compare with others.

2007-12-12 16:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by tiediemonkey 3

2007-12-12 16:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf and I of 3 years just broke up. For a a while I havent been as attracted to her as I once was and it was clear our relationship was spiraling. We are also going in two opposite directions. I feel like breaking up was the only right thing to do but I also feel intensly sad about not having her in my everyday life anymore. Is this normal. I love her but I dont want to be with her anyway. What does this mean, should I not have broke it off?

2007-12-12 16:48:44 · 1 answers · asked by Orion B 1

OK I'm 18 ,Ive never been kissed, Still avirgin And the last guy that i actualy went out with was when i was 13.

To get to the point..... There is a guy that i work with that i like and i think he likes me too but he is 21 And has alot of xperience ( if you know what i mean) So what should i do ???????????


I mean if he asks me out should i say yes or no

2007-12-12 16:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by just me 1

There is this guy, who I swear was nice to me and all, always waiving when I drive past him, asking me how I am doing, and find ways to get close to me pretending to do something else. So I started responding back, smiling back, saying hi to him, asking him if he wanted to work out with me. I find out that ever since I've been doing that he's been going around talking crap about me yet still continues to be around me all the time! What does this mean????????

2007-12-12 16:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by Behave 5

she let me go cuz her work and school. shes also 16. but then the next day she told me how she made a big mistake and didnt want to let me go. she was just scared that i was gonna dump her and hurt her agian. like i did last time, and like her other ex did. but i wasnt. and she realized how much i loved her when it hit me hard when she dumped me.
but now the problem is she really wants me back and all.. but my bestfriend knows how much it hit me hard, and my brothers knows aswell. my bestfriend says go for it, if itll make u happy, but my bros like stay away from her cuz she'll hurt you again.

but i really doubt she will. and i dont plan on hurting her at all.
so what should i do?

2007-12-12 16:40:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend really likes this white guy and she's asian. She's worried he wouldnt be interested. how would she approach him even though they are in the same class but he sits on the opposite side from him?

2007-12-12 16:39:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes we like someone, but they just don't have that special something. In your opinion, what makes a girl "girlfriend material"?

2007-12-12 16:39:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

of them is in a relationship living with thier partner with two kids) and talking almost daily on the phone without seeing each other physicaly though

2007-12-12 16:38:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently learned from my boyfriend (dating for one month) that he cheated on his previous girlfriend. He was studying abroad for some time over the summer and had casual sex with someone he met there. He never told his ex and said, "she had it coming to her."

Both of us have just been going out in the traditional dating sense and haven't gone beyond kissing. It took me by surprise since we were friends first, and he'd always said in the beginning that he took relationships slowly.

In light of this new information, I do not want to pursue anything further with him. I feel bad since it will blind-side him. We get along great, sharing many interests, sense of humor, and academic goals, but in my heart I don't trust him.

If he did that to her with no remorse, he will do it me.

Any advise on how to end it?

2007-12-12 16:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by HallamFoe 4

Why can't I get a smart pretty girl?

2007-12-12 16:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when you lock eye contact with a certain guy for a few seconds across the room? He and I always glance at each other and we both used to look away but now I find it hard to turn away and he seems to look at me longer also. I can sense when he is near, like I just have a feeling that I need to look in a certain direction and he happens to either appear at that moment or is already there. I get nervous and find it diffcult to talk when he is around. And I haven't felt that way since I was like 11! My face feels hot when he appears out of no where and I become more aware of the way I'm standing/breathing, etc.

He also talks louder when he notices I'm near and suddenly stands up straighter and looks directly at me and doesn't pay attention to anyone else

2007-12-12 16:33:36 · 24 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1

here's the situation.Im try my best to make a long story short.

Im 23 and my girl is 20.we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.we live 2gther She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother though that she considers her mother and her fam.The problem is that her family dont like me(long story behind that) and the house is over crowded.Its basically like almost anybody can walk in and stay there.
Here's the rundown of people who live there,godmother,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin and also her ex boyfriend stays there sometimes.
also her babyfather friend who got of jail even stayed there one nght.
There's more to the story than this but its too much to explain.She goes about once a month.I told her I didnt want her going there too often cuz her ex be there and his freinds be there too.What should I do

2007-12-12 16:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

GUYS do you like girls with southern accents I am from Alabama and just curious if guys from other states think the accent is horrible or cute

2007-12-12 16:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by MaeLee 1

why do the men around thirty five like older woman

2007-12-12 16:25:57 · 33 answers · asked by shirley s 1

So, this guy and I have been dating for 5 months now exclusively. we hang out about 4 days a week, text or call daily, buy each other birthday presents etc and spend the night sometimes. we have already discussed that we are not seeing other people. I don't know if I'm just retarded or what?? But I have yet to hear the word girlfriend.....and it bothers me. I have met his family and I know that he talks about me to them. But he has never called me girlfriend to my face....I'm confused

2007-12-12 16:25:36 · 4 answers · asked by Heeheheehee 2

ok well i like this guy that said the only reason that he doesn't like me is because he thinks that i am annoying. but he doesn't know me very well. and then he acts like he likes me.
WHAT DO I DO??? because i like him a lot.
then there is this other guy that his friend asked me if i still like him and i said i don't know why and then his friend said for his personal interset(the guy that i used to likes interest)
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????

2007-12-12 16:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by lindss<3 1

My BF can be so great - he is very funny, smart, sexy.. He says I love you, can say sweet things - but he can be very subtlely manipulative and abusive. He makes comments that make me feel insecure -- he says we will break up, he wants to have sex with other people, if he worked out more he would leave me, etc. -- these are always told as jokes, always with a smile. I don't find any humor in any of that -- it has left me feeling constantly insecure. I hate the feeling and my behavior has become suspicious too. He is friendly with all of his exes; they have dinner, etc. I have never met any of them -- I like to share my feelings and thoughts honestly -- when I express concern (in a gentle way), he says I am insecure. He came on very strong at first and is a beautiful guy but I can't tell if my insecurity stems from him or from me -- I have never felt like this (insecure) in any other relationship.....but this is my longest.

2007-12-12 16:24:57 · 3 answers · asked by seeksadvice28 1

there is this guy that is my friend but on like 4 different occasions when we were sleeping at the same house he has woken me up by rubbing my back or my hand and we end up fooling around. it always ends up him wanting me to give him head. i hate that this happens because he has a girlfriend but he comes on so strong and i cant say no because i do have feelings for him. its weird he doesnt say anything at all and when we are done he just goes to sleep and the next day acts like nothing happened. i feel horrible because he has a girlfriend but at the same time i am so confused. does he like me or am i just convenient

2007-12-12 16:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by freakydeeky 1

Someone that you now know would be "the one"

2007-12-12 16:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Aussie Jo ♥ 5

Is it weird that after breaking up with someone, it is hard to imagine having sex with anybody else? How long does that feeling remain?

2007-12-12 16:14:41 · 2 answers · asked by runofthemill 4

A few days ago I was with my boyfriend and we were walking through the park at night. It was cold and snowing. Then he started talking about how we have been together for a long time and about when we first met. I just laughed when all of a sudden he grabbed my arm and when I turned around he was on one knee! I was confused. I was like what are you doing. Then he pulled out this tiny black box and when he opened it I saw the most beautiful ring. It just sparkled and shimmered. He said I can't see myslef in life with out you being right beside me. I love and no matter how many times I have to say it, I will say it again and again and again. I love you. Will you marry me. I froze! Then I did the most stupidest thing. I said look over there, then I threw a snowball in his face! I think that it is so sweet the way he cares and loves me. But marriage? I wouldn't mind marrying him, but marriage. I do love him alot, I mean come on we've had sex I don't know how many times. What should I do?

2007-12-12 16:12:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous