Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

Hi, my very close friend has had quite a sheltered life and because of this she is still a virgin at 26!, she's had many romantic encounters with men however nothing lasted and none were sexual, she has now met this guy who is not exactly her type (physically) and not very good-looking, however due to her age she complains 2 me that she's tired of being a virgin 4 so long and wants to have sex and is considering this new guy that she's met, she says the guy claims to love her and tells her all the time although they've known each other 4 only a week. its not as if she hasn't been told that men love her b4, its just that this time she's really fed up. How shld i advise her? she's very tired of waiting. Shd she go ahead?, or continue waiting!!!, after all she is 26. I'm scared at this rate she'll never lose her virginity! please help.

2007-12-16 23:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah Obie 1

Thanking you in advance

2007-12-16 23:55:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it is weird, but I'm envious of my bf's grades... I think it is because before I was more concerned with school than he was but now he has started studying and caring and he gets very good grades, top of the class I would say. I know I should be happy for him, but 've noticed this strange feeling inside of me everytime I find out he has an A and I have a B... Can someone please tell me what is wrong with me? :(

2007-12-16 23:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by H! 2

2007-12-16 23:43:40 · 3 answers · asked by jaybird 1

a fear of being rejected,ridiculed or likewise.....

2007-12-16 23:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by wolfmettle 3

I have no idea if I can use the word relationship at this time....

I have been on two dates with a lovely lady and things have gone very well so far. We have at least one more scheduled before Christmas. The dates and the phone conversations are going smoothly and it is obvious that both parties are very interested in continuing to see where this leads us. My question is what, if anything, should I get her for the holiday. Keep in mind that we have been acquaintances for years and have recently saw each other socially for the first time two weeks ago.

2007-12-16 23:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. If the girl is virgin, haven't even used any sex toys, can a guy understand (FEEL) she is a virgin when he enters her? I mean is there a difference between virgins's and non-virgin women's tightness? (let's say they are at the same age)

2. Is there such a "too tight" thing? And if there is, is being too tight a plus?

Serious answers please.

2007-12-16 23:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

And be honest...
Also i'm NOT talking about S&M

2007-12-16 23:28:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 23:24:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought maybe some of me will rub off on her and eventually she could become a Christian.

2007-12-16 23:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend, all he does to me is kiss, we hang in different crowds, and his mom wont even let me be his friend, and I never get to talk to him, unless i figure out how to talk while kissing him. after school is the only time we talk, but we don't even talk, and the thing is he's not even cheating on me. it's secret because his mom even told me he can't have a girl friend til H.S. And it's teen love, so it shouldn't be as confusing as it is. Plz Help, wat should I do?????

2007-12-16 23:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by Patsy ♥♥♥ Rose 3

I read it in the perfect female orgasm book fronted by Sex in the City's Katrell.... well i have tried it on 3 women in the last 2 years and it worked each time. It was like reading good reviews to a play in Time Out.

I felt very James Bond after i had been told how good it was. very warm inside for me too.

2007-12-16 23:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

YOU LIKE YOUR MAN BULKY, BUILT, RIPPED? AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHY, HOLLA ASAP

2007-12-16 23:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by MRDFS2010 1

been dating for last 2 years but none seem right

2007-12-16 23:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been open with my past boyfriends and male friends about porn. I think it is healthy for a male to have some. I have watched it in mixed company. I don't mind it.

However, I understand that men don't like to talk about it. I asked a few close male friends of mine about women being comfortable with porn, they said that it was cool/refreshing to be openminded about it, but it scares them that a women is so comfortable about it, so much that sometimes they think its awkward to watch it together ot even discuss it with a girl. It is considered as a form of speechless male bonding.

I understand that in this day and age, many women are becoming the aggressor. We all like a little porn. But is this something that should be kept segregated?

I wonder in a relationship should the women just keep quiet or speak up about their point of view on porn?

Guys: SHOULD WOMEN express their views on porn or JUST keep quiet.

2007-12-16 22:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i'm 12 week pregnant with my 1st baby and my boyfriend still looks at women and when i ask him does he look he lies to me when i can see him doing it he never looks at me its hard makeing your self look good when you sick every day.

2007-12-16 22:56:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a corse on ict whitch i'm on level 2 right , i got this thing for a girl on level 3 (as in i like her) but there's this girl on level 1 who likes me and i dont no what to do

2007-12-16 22:54:57 · 11 answers · asked by tommy 2

I just brike up with my exboyfriend couple days ago, I really feel so horrible like nothing could cheer me up. It's just the thought that i can't share my life with him anymore in the future. But we decide to be just friend. What do u do to lift yourself up again?I just feel i need someone as soon as posible to replace him but i know iam not ready for any relationship. Please help , iam so lonely...

2007-12-16 22:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im going on a date tomorrow, and on past dates it been really awquard. How do i avoid it? and if we do have a awquard time how do i stop it?

2007-12-16 22:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by Gracie S 1

im not talking about what will make a relationship last....im talking about what causes girls to be attracted initially...
i am not a funny guy i admit...never was never will be...so is there other things i can do or show that attracts girls?

2007-12-16 22:42:26 · 24 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2

i think i am cute, i know i am sexy........i have got the looks that drive the girls wild.....
they hear me talk, then they hear me walk.....
i send chills up and down their spine....

2007-12-16 22:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 22:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKay so ive been with my girlfriend for amonth now and i really do like her and i feel like we can take are relationship to the next level she tells me when ready for anything i wanan do shes a virgin atleast i think im not a virgin tho so yeah
but we can just hangin like when comes over my house all the time we end up just sitting around makeing out and fooling around touching eachother and what not is she ready for Sex what do you guys think?

2007-12-16 22:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw my gf and her mum and daughter eating at a cafe with my gf's collegue mate, whom they went to school together, (but is now married), He used to have a crush on my gf. I was shock to see them yesterday, and now, I'm not talking to her the whole day. She said I dont see anything wrong, Is this jelousness, or is it my fault that I got mad at her and said goodbye... PLease advise me

2007-12-16 22:13:45 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

If you read my last question you will understand this better.

I texted a girl apologising for leaving her hanging 2 days before and she gave me a call and told me not to apologise etc.

I text her later that night asking how work was, she sent me two texts back, then I text her and she ignored it (i reckon she fell asleep)

Basically, I know this is going to keep up this way if I keep contacting her

I've just about given up as she doesn't seem interested in me at all anymore.

What should I do from here?

What do you all think I should do?

2007-12-16 22:07:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a flesh tunnel, and its not huge (5mm) but i will go up to a 10mm, google it if your not sure what it is.
the only other piercings i have are my ears 3times.
do you think its too much?

2007-12-16 22:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just type yes/no
Example: instead of I have and I still believe, type Yes/Yes
Example: Instead of I have and I don't believe, type Yes/No

2007-12-16 21:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by Missy 2

Long story short, this lady and I dated a while back. We ended up breaking up because we had different goals. She went to college and I joined the Air Force. We have both kept in touch over the years, and I still very much love her, and she very much loves me. She got married to this other guy because they got pregnant. She is unhappy with her marriage and we both want to be together. I'm not too sure what to think about this situation. There is obviously only ONE way we could ever be together, but I guess I'm wondering if I should even be thinking about this. Ive dated many girls since then, but in the back of my mind I always know that it is she who I love, and she says the same about me...

2007-12-16 21:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by usafkevinls1 1

my boyfriend of 3 years (we recently broke up and got back together) has been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks online. theyve met while my bf and his friend were playing tennis and i guess they added each other on myspace. tomorrow hes supposed to hang out with her (alone im quite sure) to make her feel better about her failed relationship.

im just wondering...should i be ok with it? i want to be, because one of the things that caused our break-up in the first place was that i couldn't stand him being around girls too much and i promised him that ill try to be ok with him having friends that are girls, but is it really ok for them to hang out? just wondering...

2007-12-16 21:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by JM 2

i kept a relation wd other girl,without her knowledge and sooner dat girl started blackmailing me if i leave her den she will telll everything to my girlfriend,,,but at last i decided not to cheat my girlfriend anymore n i left her and one day that ***** told everything to my girlfriend,,,my girlfriend loves me so much dat she cant leave me also and after knowing all dis she also dont want to stay wd me..i want her back in my life,n i wont break her heart in future,wat shld i do to get her love and trust back

2007-12-16 21:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 1