Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

Im 29 and my fiance is 35. 98% of the time we have sex is when he wants it. Almost every time i want it he gives me these excuses: Im tired, Im old and cant do it as much as you want it, or Im not in the mood. Do you think hes being truthful or what? Also, when im on my period sex is out of the question for him! Are all guys like this? I mean thats why we have showers! Please be respectful with your answers!

2007-12-16 13:33:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom never gives a straight answer how old i should be before i get a boyfriend. i ask other people and they all say different things. what do you think?

2007-12-16 13:29:29 · 42 answers · asked by Carrie 4

okay so im 18
my boobs are small ever since i was 12 i was like " this year is the year my boobs will blosom. lol
newyear resolution??? to get ****.
wtf- im 18 and a 34a/ almost b
and i hate it
honestly i think my eyes play tricks on me and i seem to think there getting bigger'
THERE not
my bf of 9 months
says he loves them
but of course hed say that
i cant help but think when we watch porn wtf.
he likes boobs
there bigger
i look like a man
i need some advice
should i just say **** it and get breast augmentation?
ive been researching it for 1 year now

2007-12-16 13:28:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This boy i have known for years has been clowning me since i can remember. But now i have matured and i got a banging body, he still clowns me around certain ppl {not clowns my life but like 1 funny joke and then he be like aww im just playing}
but now he keep telling my brother that he wanna "make love to me" and "ya sister got a banging body" and "ima hit that when i come over for winter break" and "you goin hear ya sister screamin my name tonite."

He really cute. and i always have liked him. But he seems like he only want one thing from me. SO what should I do.

2007-12-16 13:26:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is getting his own appartment in fall of 08, and if I don't get the position as RA at my university i'd rather have an appartment with him but I think my parents would flip out. granted it's very possible we'll be engaged by then or soon after at which point I don't care what they say. but your opinions may be helpful. thank you.

2007-12-16 13:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im dating this great girl and i need some ideas for dates, because all we do is go to movies, and i can tell that she is getting boerd

2007-12-16 13:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 13:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by boobear 1

Well I have a "crush" on this guy at school. I don't really know him, I pass him in the hall sometimes. I've never talked to him or anything, but I'd be too shy. I mean it would seem weird if I went up to some random kid and stared talking to him. I would feel even more weird if I just went up to him and told him that I liked him. Well, I would be terrified if he thought I was creepy or something. I don't take rejection very well. I've never talked to him or anything, but he's really cute and I want to get to know him more. But how? What do I do?

2007-12-16 13:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

cause a lot of guys stare at me and i cant stand the thought of them thinking about me like that! please tell me im wrong and they are just thinking about something less gross!!!

2007-12-16 13:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now.We get along great,there are some complications in the relationship.I know he loves me and cares about me,he said last night that this is a chapter in his his life,what does that mean??? PLEASE BE KIND....

2007-12-16 13:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by shy_smileyfun 1

If you live with a girlfriend who periodically treats you like dirt, her friends bash you, and she deceives you. She cheats on you, and denies it even though you saw it with your own eyes. Anyways, she breaks up with you one night, to get with another guy. You gracefully accomodate her request to make her happy and yourself happy. The two of you lived togetheir for 2 years, and the very next day you gather all of your belongings and move out. Days after of which, she wants you to take her cats, give her money, and pay bills in her name so she can easily move in with this new guy. Now the question is, was I in the wrong for respectfully rejecting all of her requests (as it felt as though she was just trying to use me as a fool) even though to some extent she was good to me by buying me gifts and helping me a few times in the past? The reality is that she deceived me, and that the relationship wasn't meant to be, but does that mean I should still be nice to her after what she did?

2007-12-16 13:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you see a girl walking, How should she walk to make you think she has a sexy walk? fast? slow? ect..

2007-12-16 13:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by No Name 4

I have met some really wonderful people, but they all are pretty much married with children. i really would love to met people who are around my age (31) who are single. Any ideas? thanks

2007-12-16 13:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by carriec 7

Well Im 17 and my boyfriend is going to be 19 he is LDS and so am I. He still lives at home. But his mom is always always calling it drives me nuts. He has to lie cuz were not suppose to spend 1 on 1 time together so he lies i hate it. But i mean if its what we have to do to see each other. But i mean were really in love but i never do anything right i live in a small town and everything i do gets right back to her.. She even got made because i held is hand to intimatly.. were not suppose to kiss hold hands or anything and she thinks he is going on a mission and he does not want to.. his mom and dad are freaking nuts... what can i do? I love him but i mean do i have to do this tell i graduate? I really love him so i should stickk it out.. but i mean.. i have been but how long must i stick it out before i completely just say forget it.. whitch i never want that to happen

2007-12-16 13:04:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

At a dance party last night, this amazing guy danced with my friend and I for two hours, we just had a great time. He favoured me more and more as the night went on, and at one point he gently put his arm around me to dance closer, but I slid away and he said "sorry!" .. I feel uncomfortable grinding with guys I don't know personally.

Then, later, when I went to the bathroom he caught up with me and asked to get me a drink, and I said "no, I don't drink alcohol" and he was like "so if I get you a drink you won't drink it?" and I said "no, my friend could have it though?" And he was like "yeah."

Then afterwards I left with my friend and saw him outside and he just started blushing.
And ... I am attracted to him! I was for the whole time but something is holding me back. I don't know what it is. Could I have just asked for a pepsi? I've been upset all day ... he was so sweet. He was sort of tipsy .. but genuine. I don't know. Am I stupid?

2007-12-16 13:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

No girls thus far want anything to do with me, should I throw in the towel and give up?

2007-12-16 13:01:44 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i have like short hair and no guy has ever asked me out...is that a problem?

2007-12-16 13:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by V 2

i only have until thursday to get a present for my boyfriend. i have kind of a small bugget though. He is EXTREMELY tall, plays on like 3 basketball teams, he is black, and he does a bunch of stuff with his family.


WHAT DO I GET HIM?!? HELP PLEASE!

2007-12-16 12:57:48 · 21 answers · asked by ~*Georgia Babii*~ 2

I just don't like it. I enjoy the forplay and everything. But when it comes to sex I hate it! I love my partner...and I know he is not the problem, because I never enjoyed it before! He tries to do everything he thinks I like but I am just not into the intercourse. I just want to fake it and get it over with? Any ideas of what I can do?

2007-12-16 12:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Beatriz C 1

Say about, 9 or 10 inches off.

2007-12-16 12:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made friends with this girl last Tuesday and I really liked her. I had a girlfriend that I had been seeing for 2 years and I dumped my girlfriend to be with her. She asked me if I liked her like 2 days after I met her and I said yes...but i wasn't ready to jump into a relationship at the moment.

Yesterday, she asked me to be her girlfriend. I was very taken back and tried to turn her down nicely but felt awful so I said yes. She drove 2 hours away to my house yesterday to see me we went to the mall i bought her ice cream etc. It was nice.

We kissed a few times but i felt very uncomfortable with it. We cuddled a bit too and I continued to feel very uncomfortable. I was also uncomfortable with her staying at my house. I actually tried to get another one of my friends to stay at my house too so it wouldn't just be her and I.

I kind-of "forced her" to leave this morning. I feel bad. I made up an excuse. She wouldn't leave!! Today..I told her how i felt...below is what I wrote.

2007-12-16 12:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1

2007-12-16 12:48:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A cute guy smiles at me Im lost...so, plz don't smile in my direction.?....how would you get a girls attention...?..(plz be civil)

2007-12-16 12:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do???

2007-12-16 12:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by KeeKee 2

Maybe I have been wrong about you...you arnt so bad afterall...in fact some of you are just great..what qualities do you think you have which are noteworthy.?

2007-12-16 12:45:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been having some issues with boyfriend and it's really trivial stuff. He says I don't care about making him happy because when we're on webcam he wants me to do sexual stuff, and I don't mind to a certain extent. I get bored with it and get tired of doing it and some stuff I just don't feel comfortable doing. Well for the past week or so, we've been getting into an argument every night and he says I don't care about him being happy and sarcastically he says we'll just focus on me and all I care about is my happiness and I'm not willing to bend for him, which isn't true. I told him I could make him happy in other ways besides that. I sent him a very long IM me today (he had signed off and went to work), I basically told him I can make him happy in ways as such as just being there for him, talking to him on the phone, talking in general, and other things that haven't came to my mind yet. How can I drill it into his head that he can be happy with me and not need sexual things daily?

2007-12-16 12:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by youresoscene_xxx 1

I'm in love with a Guy who is 15 yrs older than me... I am 27 and he is 42. We love each other so much.. We are in a relationship since years.. I feel that he is my soul mate... Sometimes, I get confused because of the age differnence. What is your opinion

2007-12-16 12:42:18 · 91 answers · asked by Steve b 1

On the weekend, I went to visit my sister and meet the guy she is seriously involved with. She had mentioned to me that he was a person of color and also an actor in movies. Of course I googled him and yes, his bio was there along with some handsome pictures of him. My sister is very fair with very long blond hair and quite beautiful inside and out. When he arrived, I was surprised that he was very, very dark which did not show in his pictures which is why I was surprised. I hid my surprise and soon found out that he is witty, charming and a truly caring and loving person, at which time his color just went out of my mind. Now I am home and I am wondering if, because of my initial shock, I am prejudiced against black people. I have never been around black people much as I live on Vancouver Island where you seldom see black people. I really hope I am not prejudiced, but I am troubled about my reaction. Comments, please.

2007-12-16 12:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Lean_on_Me 1

2007-12-16 12:39:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

does playing hard to get with a guy make him more interested? There is a guy that told me that he liked me so when ever we talk via text i always lead him on with leading questions.

2007-12-16 12:34:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous