my boyfriend is getting his own appartment in fall of 08, and if I don't get the position as RA at my university i'd rather have an appartment with him but I think my parents would flip out. granted it's very possible we'll be engaged by then or soon after at which point I don't care what they say. but your opinions may be helpful. thank you.
2007-12-16 13:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't ever move in with my bf until I was planning to think about marrying the guy. When you move in with your bf, you have to be prepared to give up your private life and fun. You have to be completely comfortable with him seeing how your daily life is and vice versa. The good thing about living with him is that you get to be with him everyday, which is a good feeling. But, when you guys have problems and need space, things don't work well. So, I suggest that if you feel that you are close with your bf and have known him for a long time, then go ahead and move in with him.
2007-12-16 13:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idt its 2 yng, if u feel ready, u feel ready. besides, i say that before you get engaged @ least like live wit him for awhile so u can see what he's like every day, when he wakes up, when he farts, ect.
2007-12-16 21:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to u, but make sure u have a job to support urself just in case u cant live with him anymore.
my friend is 15 and she is moving in with her fiance (i know) soon, but shes indonesian, so i think its different.
2007-12-16 21:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are old enough to make or own decisions. follow your heart and i know u will make the right choice
2007-12-16 21:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by MARKY MARXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved in with my boyfriend as soon as I graduated.
2007-12-16 21:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we were married then so its not too young and you may find your parents will not flip out ---- best wishes
2007-12-16 21:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, argh! i'm 18 and i don't think i'll move out until i'm like 22 or 23, gosh people are getting more independent these days.
2007-12-16 21:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm why would they flip out? i bet thats the age they were when they got pregno with you!
2007-12-16 21:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by negaduck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.....i dont think its a good idea, forget the engagement too...keep the college.
2007-12-16 21:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Silvia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋