Singles & Dating - 20 December 2007

I am here to lend a hand (or 2)
in the interests of medical science
not a smutty attempt near a global h0oliday
to weed out the more lonely & horny
females amoungst you.







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coughs .....

2007-12-20 23:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this wonderful guy 2 weeks ago. He got my number and we went out and had a wonderful time. I don'tthink I have ever gone out with anyone I liked better. He is from Germany, in the process of moving here; he has a great job he can take any time. Right now, he does 3 months in Germany; 3 months here. Anyways, he told me finally he had a girlfriend at home--of 9 years--but the situation had become complicated. She does not want to move here, but he does, and he has not missed her since he came. He said he would probably be interested in me if he were free, but he did not want to tell me he wasn't right off because we would not have been able to know each other. He is obviously a good guy, has never cheated, very thoughtful, worried about what he is thinking. I offered to be friends but no more unless he is single. We went out the night before he was going back to (to return in 3 months). As of current date, we have exchanged 3 emails. They are getting very friendly. What do u think?

2007-12-20 23:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Christina V 1

They call each other bi(ches and are more critical/judgemental of each other. When the guy cheats, the woman automatically blames the other woman. What if the women didnt know? If you didnt notice, guys like to lie to get sex.
Many women dress don't even dress for men, they dress to compete with each other. You know who you are.

If women dont respect each other then how can we expect respect from men? If women don't respect each other can they be leaders of nations?

2007-12-20 23:42:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that I am feeling like this?? Ok Yesterday at 5:00 pm I got a phone call from a friend of mine in Tx telling me that my ex-boyfriend died like 1 day ago. I was with him my freshman year, and well we went out as friends one time in my junior year before I moved to Florida. But anyways when she was telling me I couldnt say anything I was speachless. Then when I hung up with her I was crying practicaly all day! I dont even know why? I mean I have a fiance and a son. Why am I feeling like this? Someone please help. :'(

2007-12-20 23:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5

Long story made short: I like this guy but he likes another girl and the girl he likes is my friend, and she knew I liked him but she started flirting with him. I know I cant make him like me but I think she enjoys making me suffer instead of just going out with him? What do you think? Does she like him or is she just being a 13itch ?

PS I hate drama.

2007-12-20 23:09:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much did it hurt?

2007-12-20 22:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole W 1

What should i do? I love my fiance but he beats me when we argue. Is there any solution?
I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 2 years. We are engaged to be married but there are some major problems. Each time we have an argument he will beat me or threaten to beat me. I know he is a good person deep down but I can't keep putting up with the physical abuse. I love him very much and it hurts to leave. What should i do or say to try and make things better with my fiance? Or is it a better idea to leave him or be alone for a while? Please help

2007-12-20 22:42:14 · 26 answers · asked by vanell 1

I feel like I slept for ever, I had tha wildest dreams. Tell me about one of your dreams.

2007-12-20 22:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5

My first boyfriend never wanted to be close to me and it made me feel unattractive and unwanted. I later found out he was gay. Boyfriend #2 was a virgin and he was like dating my brother. He would kiss me but that was it. I’m 25 and I still attract guys who have very little relationship experience. They seem to really like me and want to be in a relationship but are afraid to touch me. What is the point of asking for a relationship if you only want to have a friendship? Maybe guys like that just want to take it slow but it just seems cold to me. I am hurt by the lack of affection and I desire a more intimate relationship. I feel bad about this a lot. I feel very unattractive because my boyfriends wouldn’t touch me. Sometimes it ruins my confidence when I do meet new people. How can I overcome the feeling of failure with these non-relationships that I've had?

No offense to virgin guys, this is about wanting to feel special. I want someone to really care and be attracted to me.

2007-12-20 22:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote a love letter for her, but I wrote it so you have to look at a mirror to read it. Do you think she'll like it?

2007-12-20 22:08:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know how other people would react if they found out that I like this guy, or if he likes me back.

2007-12-20 22:06:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 21:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by skiguy 1

2007-12-20 21:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me start off by saying that this is going to be long, I just want you to see the WHOLE situation..

Im a guy (im 17), my bestfriend whos a girl (shes 16) thinks theres 2 sides to me.. We have been close friends for 4 months now.. When she first met me (judging by my appearance) she thought I was a player,sleaze,violent towards girls,violent in general, etc.. But she said she thought i was attractive.. When she got to know me she said her opinion changed completey towards me, and that my I look nothing like who i really am inside.. But she would always snap every noe and then and say to me she thinks im a fake, and that theres 2 sides of me, and that im not showing her the real me, and that im just putting on an act.. But REALLY I aint..

I see her VERY rarley but we talk over the phone everyday for hours.. we talk about everything, shes told me alot of personal things about her which she doesnt really tell anyone.. (e.g the depression she went through)..

2007-12-20 21:11:36 · 2 answers · asked by rejiogrejiog89u43ut83w 1

OK..so, as the title says, i'm having a dinner in a few hours with 4 girls! OMG! just me and 4 girls..im 15..they are all good friends.but i feel very nervous and intimidated! please help! what do i do??

2007-12-20 21:01:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 1

and if so, how do you deal with it. leaving the relationship is not a option rite now.

2007-12-20 21:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by ms attitude 2

i sometimes wish i wasnt so normal.
and that i could be somebody with alittle more....
umn something.

2007-12-20 21:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by jason D.C 4

I sort of suspect that its a possibility my partner is having an affair. he's an absolutely fantastic liar - seriously, the best anyone has ever met, honestly.
I have never confronted him about this as it has only just occured to me, but last night he told me he didn't trust me at all.

Do men tell their aprtners they don't trust them when they are the ones having an affair?
And if so....why?
Are there any other tell tale signs, and no silly ones like lipstick on his collar, he really wouldnt be that stupid!! Thanks

2007-12-20 20:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by sweet_steph27 3

Okay, so there are these two guys that i've liked for a long time. I think they like me too though. Today, (Thursday December 20) was the day that we get off of school for winter break. I didn't want to leave these two guys for three weeks without them knowing that I like them. (Note: these two guys are like really good friends) So after school, I each told them. They didn't seem that surprised, or maybe they were just realy shocked. So I give them a hug and everything, and I go home. The second I walk through my front door, I realized that I made a huge mistake. I shoudn't have told two guys, which I both like equally, who are friends, that I like them. I don't want to be like one of THOSE kind of girls that goes out with two guys at the same time. I'm kinda just hoping that one of them will stop liking me over break, so my desicion is easier. This sucks, please guys give me some advice. (Note: I have no way of communicating with these guys, no e-mails or phone numbers)

2007-12-20 20:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1

When I see my boyfriend this summer (I will not have seen him for 6 months) what are the little things that I should focus on? I want him to be absolutely blown away! Nails? Hair? What do I wear?! Help!

2007-12-20 20:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by *~*IllusiveButterfly*~* 1

I have a friend who I like, and he acts as if he likes me. Other people have commented on it too. He's a bit of a shy boy, so it would take a lot for him to say something. A few weeks ago he seemed to be avoiding me, so I emailed him about it. It took him ages to reply but eventually he said that he values my friendship but 'didn't want to give me any other impression'. I told him he shouldn't worry about it, and since then he's gone back to normal, acting like he likes me. What are the chances that he actually does like me? I think one of his friends likes me, so maybe he's not saying anything because of him. How crazy am I being?

2007-12-20 20:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were just chatting about his mates,and he just said im his best friend,is that good?did he make it up,i dont think he would,can i be agirlfriend and bst mate at the same time?

2007-12-20 20:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys ask me if i have a bf?

ive had like different guys ask me if im seeing anyone, but then have no intentions of going after me.... so whats the point in asking?
what are you silly boys thinking?

2007-12-20 19:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by daria 4

It just seems as if lately, my boyfriend and I have been arguing about nothing. He seems to go out more and more every week. When I first met him, he only goes out once a week with his guy friend. That turns into 2 or 3 nights now. Sunday is usually our day and now he wants to spend that with his friends too. We argue about where to go or what to eat.

He's into the clubbing and bar scene and I'm into the dinner and movie thing. He finds my hobbies boring and I cannot relate to his.

My question is: Can this work out in the long run or am I setting myself up for more arguing?

2007-12-20 19:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

yep umm what else do we do, what do we do on the Holidays.
We umm, we do what we always do, we rent a umm a private jet..
ya
and then we go up and we
and then we call up all our single friends say ahh, how does it feel to be alone at Christmas?
Right yeah, then we dump jet fuel into the ocean.
yep we fly and dump jet fuel into the ocean.
Yep but only where theres endangered species and stuff.

2007-12-20 19:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was out of town for couple of weeks but she still came to my place and stayed in night with my room-mate. She said they played cards and slept in different rooms. Should i beleive that? Or should i dump her right away?

2007-12-20 19:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend came drunk and connfessed his love for me than a few ours later he calls me and tells me more about htis, is he abeing good or bad?

2007-12-20 19:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this girl for 3 months now I really really like and she brought it up that she would like to try being in an open relationship with me.So do anybody think that it is a good idea to say yes or no?

2007-12-20 19:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jo-Jo 2

2007-12-20 19:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy online..and we've known each other for like more than a year now. It's almost as if we're crazy about each other, we fight a lot but we always get back together and it's kinda like no matter how hard we try to get away from each other, we can't. I always try to end it but I always end up missing him, almost as if i can't live without him. I don't even know if i want to get away.

But the thing is I haven't said any of this to my besfriend. I feel hella bad about it, cuz she tells me all there is to know about her love life...and I can tell her everything about mine too ( like crushes, this n that) except for HIM. Like I feel so stupid about it in the first place that we met online. He lives far away so it's not like we can jus meet up either. So i duno wat to do, I almost feel like im loosing a connection from my best friend cuz Im keeping this from her but at the same time, I think it's so stupid..i don't see the point of telling her. What do you guys think i should?

2007-12-20 19:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Ash C 2