Singles & Dating - 20 December 2007

Im a girl who cannot understand this guy I met recently in my job. We've often flirted before and had a connection..he even told me he was falling for me one day when we chatted, he seems really normal, has lots of friend..then one day you know kisses etc but not sex (he tried, but Im the type that waits a bit) . Seems like the usual start of something but he cancelled an invite he had given me for the next day!! I contacted him by & we chatted & I suggested we meet up. He got back to a few days later & its too late as I had left to go back home (live in a diff city to him). then he contacted me on and off but we never talk about our feelings, still we get on great. now he is calling me to say he will fly to see me on his next vacn and I hear feelings in his voice. WHAT'S GOING ON IN THIS MAN'S HEAD? Is he a bit unstable? It seems strange to me. We have mutual friends and they really like him. Did he feel rejected when I didnt move as quickly as him physically?

2007-12-20 05:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 05:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok we have been dating for 16 months already yet we haven't had sex before,so I'm feeling the real itch for our first times. But somehow he just does not seem interested in sex,and I'm getting really annoyed by his indifferent attitude towards it. Should I just jump onto him and rape him forcingly and let him understand the real pleasure of sex? I'm just tired of facing a piece of stoic wood!

2007-12-20 05:23:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up two weeks ago, i like a second chance with her. Partially it was my fault . i know my faults and have confessed to her that im sorry and for her to forgive me, she said no. She seems to be still mad at me. I still love her. what should i do to make things better for us. She wants to be friends right now.

2007-12-20 05:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend seems to be ignoring me.

2007-12-20 05:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by nikitakelala6 2

I'm attractive and plenty of men look at me, but hardly any ever actually approach me when I'm out..I don't know why, I don't think I seem unfriendly or anything. Men can you help?

2007-12-20 05:13:52 · 29 answers · asked by rachel 2

2007-12-20 05:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by Steve C 7

2007-12-20 05:11:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'am getting really tired of guys applauding each other when they hook up with women. When we do it, we are called everyname in the book. I would like to know why guys make it okay for them and for us it's not okay. Or like, it's okay for a guy to have two or three women on the side, but if we were to do something like that, in a way it wouldn't be allowed.

2007-12-20 05:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty 1

some one and cant tell them because you dont know what they would say to you or tell you that you are crazy????

2007-12-20 05:05:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy who juss recently got dumped by his gf of 6 years relationship. Although he showed interest in me but it seems he likes his ex gf more and they still talk on the phone and see each other.....he claim that there is nothing between them but why do they still keep in touch? Should i still pursue with this relationship or forget about him? Should i let him take me as a rebound?

2007-12-20 04:58:02 · 21 answers · asked by kk 2

something nice that would make her blush lol plzz

2007-12-20 04:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other night my fiance' found a text message from one of my female friends asking me when are we going to hook up. Nothing gay or bi or anything but he thought it was a man calling my phone so he called the number back while I was sleep and her boyfriend is talking on the answering machine. I wouldnt tell him her name because me and her dont talk anymore and I was upset about him calling the phone number back before consulting me in the first place. Should I stay upset with him or should I just let it go. He is mad at me because he feels like I'm wrong for not telling him the sex or name of the person.

2007-12-20 04:50:36 · 3 answers · asked by shawdy2fine 2

My boyfriend talks about future with me (marriage life, house and kids), but he told his mom, he won't be married anytime soon, and the house he is going to buy is for his single life. What does it mean?

Will it be hurting if I ask him directly about this question? Because I am afraid it will sound like I don't trust him.

2007-12-20 04:49:24 · 9 answers · asked by cryptogram 2

If you had to chose one..

To be loved.. but then forgotten
or
Hatefully remembered...?

2007-12-20 04:44:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 04:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by Josc 3

2007-12-20 04:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by Angelio Carbatini 2

do guys like girls with alot of convidence? not concieted but just walk around like they're great but are nice at the same time. do they find this sexy?

2007-12-20 04:27:44 · 4 answers · asked by JessicA :) 1

I had an extra marital affair with a single guy for about three months, about for years back. When I left the country he said he does not have any feelings for me, but by that time I was in love with him. So for four years now I've been writing to him and occasionally he also replies. Recently I got to know that he's had an affair and had broken off with the girl because she has cheated. He has really loved her and is going through a rough time at the moment.
I have told him I will love him no matter how many girlfriends he'll have but now I don't feel the love I felt for him after this incident. But, I still like him and miss him. So I still write to him.
If you were him will you think that I am trying to renew the affair?

2007-12-20 04:24:59 · 32 answers · asked by j 2

I'm a 46 year old male and i'm currently looking for a good mate.I'm 46,but i still look and act like i'm about 30.Unfortunately i found myself going to the dating sites online and i've accumulated a lot of women seeking the same things i'm seeking.I have female dates ranging in age from 25 to 51.I'm would like to know from the men what will be the best age limit for me to pursue.I have met some real nice ladies in all ages,but i'm looking more into the future than what i can get right now from a mate.It has gotten quite confusing for me to make a decision.I don't want to miss out on what's good to be with something that i might regret later on down the road.

2007-12-20 04:19:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this guy from work and we have become really good friends. He calls me every night, we even went Christmas shopping. We went to the work Christmas party and he asked me if I was trying to make people hit on me. The problem? He has a girlfriend and talks about her a lot, sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad. She is currently in college in another state and he only sees her on breaks. Does he like me??

2007-12-20 04:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by stephbrown2005 2

She has had a very different past than myself and it really bothers me to the point where I keep argueing with her about it. It's ruining the relationship. Am I just insecure?
Thank you.

2007-12-20 04:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by Dr. 2

y is it so hard? i have liked this kid since 5th grade and now were in 7th and he knows but he dont like me, and were just friends. i cant seem to stop liking him, and ive tried everything.

♥thanks♥

2007-12-20 03:44:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can a man sleep with someone and completely lose interest? Why do they do it in the first place?

I know not all men are like this, so I'm not generalising. But there's been a couple of guys I've really liked this year who have done this to me and it's hurt me a lot. It wasn't even like I jumped into bed with them on the first date as I waited a few months before doing anything.

I'm just genuinely trying to understand. How can you get that intimate with someone and not feel anything for them? I really don't get it!

2007-12-20 03:42:29 · 27 answers · asked by happyg 3

all through the night .

2007-12-20 03:42:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 03:41:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tanjoubi 2

2007-12-20 03:33:31 · 22 answers · asked by naosha H 1

A friend of mine,that I like as more than a friend,has recently become single again-after their relationship ended.

I got the impression in the last year that they may have feelings for me-but I`m not sure.

I obviously haven`t told them how I feel whilst they were involved with someone else-but now that`s over,how long should I wait before I say something?

I don`t want to seem insensitive,as i don`t know who ended the relationship-but i`m frightened if I wait too long,they may meet some one else.

We`re not kids-so any sensible advice would be great-thanks

2007-12-20 03:25:49 · 11 answers · asked by jennywilson1334 1

Me and this guy have known each other for about 13 years and every year he has always gotten me a birthday gift..roses.. jewelry..all when we were like 6 and 7. He would always pick me up for dinner on friday nights and skating on saturdays. I was talking to him the other day and he told me that he straight up loved me. That there was no one else for him. But I am in Arizona and he is in Arkansas..we always loved eachother but not like this. its a real love.. it like a into the stars over the fence world series kind of thing. I dont know if it is love or not. Can you tell me? When i think about him I my heart feels like it beats faster and slower at the same time. We know absolutely everything about each other.. he is the only person that knows everything about me. please help me figure this out?

2007-12-20 03:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by KK 1

Well this guy friend said that he really like and care about me but I told him I was not ready for a relationship. He wanted to buy me a gift for my b day but I told him that you dont have to. Well then he told me that the same gift he was going to give me he was going to buy it for his other female friend for her b day. Then he said he will call me back the same day. He did not. Now he called me a month later. Should I call him back?
I still care about and miss him.

2007-12-20 03:16:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous