Singles & Dating - 20 December 2007

it's been about a year and half since the whole thing happened.But I was dating my boyfriend for close to a year, we were very serious and we even lived together.We were having problems,so I broke it off with him,but we still loved each other and seen each other if ever possible. I decided I one day I wanted to end it completely.Not even 2 weeks later I heard rumors 1 of my very close friends was seeing him.I called her and asked her,& she lied straight to my face.She deleted me from her myspace friends the next day so she could post pictures of them.I was furious,because she was staying with him and sleeping with him..but the whole time for him he was getting drunk & having parties and she basically just through herself at him.Long story short..it lasted maybe 3 weeks.Then him and i got back together & now things couldn't be better.She and i have the same friends,so i see her alot,but i just can't get past what she did to me.I don't like to have such hate in my heart,what should i do?

2007-12-20 18:59:48 · 24 answers · asked by noturaveragegirl 1

and i don't want to get myself involved in drugs, and i don't want to be known as someone that went out with someone that did drugs and have people think that i do drugs too, i really don't know what to do, can anyone please help me?

2007-12-20 18:09:32 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-12-20 17:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kasha 2

Last Sunday I texted my confession of feelings towards a guy and he did not response. So yesterday I left a message on his voicemail saying a good luck and goodbye. For a while a friend of mine kept hinting the guy was interested in me, but it never came out of him to say anything. However, I decided to come forward myself after a few months (almost a year). I wonder if I wasted my ten cents text? lol! Was it the right thing to do? Should I leave another voicemail to take back what I said? What impression does my message leave?

2007-12-20 17:21:10 · 14 answers · asked by Hello K 2

do u want to start some relationship with them?
any thoughts?

2007-12-20 17:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by Kasha 2

I am 24, single, haven't had a bf, or a decent date that actually likes me. I am bad at verbalizing things..I try to be funny but I just sound like a dumb a**. I am honest about my interests and goals. I don't expect too much. But I want a decent guy that likes me for me. I am decent looking, but all this dating and wondering and looking for guys is getting me nowhere I am soo stressed out by all this. I work all the t ime, I have no friends because people that I meet nowadays aren't interested in getting to know me or are just plain shallow and have no depth. What am I doing wrong?

2007-12-20 17:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl last night who is taller than I am (I'm 5'7" she's probably 5'9" or 5'10"), and older as well (I'm 22, she's 30) We hit it of great, and I've been talking to her all day today. She wants to hang out again, but I'm intimidated...A mutual friend told me that she "wants me." I'm just intimidated at what she will think if we do have sex...what if she thinks my penis is too small or something...she is probably also more experienced than I am, what if she think's I'm not "good" enough?

2007-12-20 17:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by puffer fish 5

ok well sometimes out of nowhere i will feel really sad and i will feel like the rest of the day or maybe even more than a few days, and i dont feel like doing anything at all. And sometimes i even feel like i like my friends less and want to hang out wiht them less. stuff like that. i mean i get this alot like im not sad constantly every hour of every day but i get really sad alot and it lasts for a short while but the thing is it happens several days a week not everyday but most days and its usually only for a few hours. i dont knjow whats going on but im confused because its changes the way i feel about my boyfriend, and my friends, and my family, and my life. i have no idea whats going on. Like earlier i just didnt feellike talking to my boyfriend on the phone which i usually love to do, and sometime i dont even feel like hanging out with him or my friends, its wierd, when i get like this i dont love anything anymore, i dont love my friends, my boyfriend, anything...

2007-12-20 17:02:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's the deal. I work in the kitchen in this restaurant. My chef is only 22 and quite attractive (to me). I'm 19. Is it wierd that i think she's attractive and like her (cause she's my boss)? Is there any thing i can do about it?

2007-12-20 17:00:16 · 23 answers · asked by frankenstrats_monster 1

omg i wanna have sex for once without socks on...i have ugly feet. i have a corn( Yuck) and these dark knots on my toes.
im so sad. i mean they dont ask. but i kno i have ugly feet. and i love wearing no socks when im home. but when my boy toys come's over to see me i run to the dresser and put on socks......guys and gals what shud i do?

2007-12-20 16:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

First question, is where can I find a prostitute or just an anonymous sex encounter. Also, if you think this is a good idea? i'm 24, and increasingly self-conscious of the fact that i'm a virgin, i declined at least one opportunity in college at a party, and i feel lately having hit a dry streak dating wise, that maybe this would be a good thing for me, just to have some sexual encounter, and get that out of the way, so i can not have to feel like i'm constantly having to catch up to my peers in terms of dating experience and everything else. our society is so sex-obsessed and sometimes i fall into that, i guess. of course, i also try finding dates, making female friends and all of that, but the whole process can be very slow. Sometimes, I also go to bars with the aim of losing my virginity, usually i just end up getting someone's phone number at best and that usually doesn't lead to much.

2007-12-20 16:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by sophomrecritic 2

2007-12-20 16:52:10 · 22 answers · asked by peep 1

if not ? is anything helping you? sources friends? and what percent are you at or reach from being healed?out of 100 of course. 50% being poor, 60 improving, 70 ok 80, better, 90, good 100% healed!if relates to anyone?

2007-12-20 16:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so a lot of these hot guys at my school stare at me a lot and say "sup" to me a lot in that you know tone and i've been asked out a few times but i didn't know i was hot? lol !!! i know im such a people person but is it that they like or my looks? i can't tell? i know this is a shallow question but help! o ya im 15 if anyone wanted to know

2007-12-20 16:40:46 · 42 answers · asked by vballer4ever 3

What attracts women to men like this?
Problemed individuals with deep rooted pain who are also very gifted and talented.

2007-12-20 16:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I got this guy (I'm in grade twelve) who I like. I'm very positive (99.9999%) sure that he knows that I like him. But whatever... Anyways, grad is coming up (In June) and I was expecting him to ask me to be his escort but because he was such a chicken and jerk he asked his cousin to be his escort. Stupid! He just thought that no one would wanna be his escort. He knows I'm pissed and also his cousin's boyfriend. Who in their right mind thinks of grad escorts 7 months before hand?? Worrying over such a thing? I desparately need help.

2007-12-20 16:36:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

For those who have one. Do u know where they are now, can u sense what they are doing or thinking etc. or is this figment of the imagination that we create?

2007-12-20 16:36:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys please tell me what he meant by this!

Ok so there is this guy in English lets call him K and anyway we were doing an activity and the teacher but us into teams.
About half way through the activity K (who is not on my team) come as stands beside me. Then he puts his arm around my shoulder and he says don't we make a cute couple to some random people. And then he tells me to move over (because i am sitting on a chair) and he sits down on the same chair as me (and those chairs are really quite small so we were like really close) And then he puts his arm around my waist and shouts his friends name and then he points at me and smiles. After he gets up and goes back to his group.


Also I like K i think he's really cute and i don't think that he knows that.
What do you think this means we aren't really friends but we don't hate eachother. So ya opinons are great...

2007-12-20 16:32:17 · 1 answers · asked by penguins 2

im 16 and still a virgin. i feel the biggest reason for this is not wanting to be but im soooo shy about my body! i have no boobs or anything, i wouldnt really want him to see me until i have really started puberty but he insists he wants to see my body and make me feel special because he loves me. He doesnt know about me being under developed and i suppose i do love him,should i just bite the bullett and show him my body/why im so embarrased? what if he laughs?

2007-12-20 16:31:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is kind of freaking me out but: So i really cared about this boy but i was basically invisible to him...so i went out and bought a fish (al i could afford to take care of) and i said this fish will be something i can have so i wont be lonely...fish dont normally have personalities but thisone did...and then finally this boy and i started talking only now our relationship is dying and my fish has started dying...do you think its connected?

2007-12-20 16:13:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a way to make this relationship more compatible?because the next time i kiss her i want to see stars and rainbows....how can i set my self up to do that?...plz help me

2007-12-20 16:12:39 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1

so i've always gone to dates with girls that were my girlfriends, now im going on a double date to the movies with my best friend and his gf, and me and this girl. my question is, usually i paid for my gf, but this time she isn't, should i still pay?
also i have got this new hat for a couple of days, and i wear it all the time, should i wear it then too, or do women find that disrespectful?

2007-12-20 16:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're in grade 8

2007-12-20 15:51:48 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

A month into my relationship, my boyfriend stated that he never wants to fall in love again because of all the pain it has caused him before. (He has been burned, haven't we all?) But I didn't run, because at the time I wasn't looking for anything that serious anyway and I figured he would warm up to me. But now I'm finding it harder and harder to get him to open up at all, about anything. Instead of telling me things, he closes off and doesn't call for a few days. I am starting to care about him, but everytime he pushes me away I become so discouraged. I just want to change his perspective of women and reassure him that I won't be the one to hurt him, but I don't know how to do that without scaring him away even faster. Is he a lost cause? What can I do?

2007-12-20 15:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 15:27:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl i kinda like keeps on accidentally saying like "stop it (bf's name) " and then she kinda blushes... does it mean se thinks about her bf a lot.? or that she wants me to be her bf or wut?

2007-12-20 15:27:09 · 46 answers · asked by wiseless 5

alright...i am a freshman in high school, never dated yet but have liked this girl since 7th grade. I have told a few people and they say go for it but i would hate being rejected. The main thing holding me back is I really have never talked to her, ever. I would always hope in classes i get to sit near here, to at least attempt to talk but never got the chance. Thats really it.....=(

2007-12-20 15:17:55 · 19 answers · asked by ... 2

Here's the situation...the guy I like works 12-15 hour days regularly at his law firm. He has a ton of cases right now. His work is VERY demanding and unpredictable. He's asked me if I've finalized my New Year's Eve plans yet didn't ask me out. When I asked him if he had made plans yet, he said "no," and that I should go ahead and make plans with my friends if I can but that he "hopes" that we do end up spending NYE together. What the heck does that mean? First, I know he's not waiting for another girl...he usually just hangs out with his brothers. Here are my questions...does this mean I'm the last resort plan? Does it mean that he just doesn't know if he'll be able to get away due to work deadlines? Should I assume it's that guy thing where they prefer to wait until the last minute because NYE isn't a big deal to them??? Serious answers only please.

2007-12-20 15:17:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf have been dating for a month and bout a week. how do you know when is the right time to do the next step?? like we have kissed already but when is the right time to start makeing out and stuff like that..?? how do know when it is the right time?? help me!!!

2007-12-20 15:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

WHY WHY WHY!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-20 15:02:15 · 30 answers · asked by brianna<3 4