im 16 and still a virgin. i feel the biggest reason for this is not wanting to be but im soooo shy about my body! i have no boobs or anything, i wouldnt really want him to see me until i have really started puberty but he insists he wants to see my body and make me feel special because he loves me. He doesnt know about me being under developed and i suppose i do love him,should i just bite the bullett and show him my body/why im so embarrased? what if he laughs?
2007-12-20 16:31:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have seen this question asked a lot and the more I think about it, if you have to ask Y!A if you should have sex or not then the answer is definitely no you should not be having sex. Have sex when you think your ready too. You claim that your boyfriend really loves, so if your not ready for him to see your body then he will understand, and if he doesn't then I guess he didn't really love you anyway.
2007-12-20 16:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jim M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have sex with your boyfriend, because First, why are you asking complete strangers about whether or not you should have sex, that's a question you ask yourself. Second, if you are planning to have sex, why don't you talk to a doctor or nurse about getting on the pill, and finding information about different types of birth control, and you need to know information about sex before you proceed the deed. Third, why are you so concern about having sex so much, don't you have better things to worry about besides getting some and worrying how your body looks... How about school, having fun as a teenager, a job, ect. Fourth, you need to understand that having sex is a emotional, and physically thing to do, it is not something to be taken lightly.... You are not ready have sex if you don't understand everything about it....
2007-12-20 16:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u have to ask the question,im guessing no,and just because ure 16 doesnt mean you have to have sex,you dont say how long uve been wiv ure guy,if he loves u he wont laugh,he feel in love with ure body to aswell as your personality,if u are not comfortable with the physical side of it,dont do it,u have to be comfortable with eachothers bodies before u do that,and feel relaxed around him,good luck
2007-12-20 20:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are defiantly not ready yet When the time is right you will know and be perfectly happy no matter what you think of your body.If really loves you he will respect your wishes .DO NOT let him pressurise you into something you are not ready for and don't really want to do.It won't be a special experience if you think he is going to laugh at you . You have the rest of your life in front of you .
2007-12-20 17:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um if ur not comfortable about ur body then wait untill u develope because u are only 16 and it seems like he just wants to sleep with u. all guys say ooh i love u sleep with me. but if he rally loves u he will wait untill u are ready for him. or untill u feel conftorble. dont let him talk u into anything that u are not confortable about. and that that.
2007-12-20 16:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by ctmnky12 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You ask a question to which you have already decided the answer,by that I mean you have shown common sense,in your heart you know, that to proceed with what your boy friend wants is, putting you at serious risk. that could, alter the rest of your life.
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2007-12-20 19:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you're not comfortable with the idea of sex. If you don't feel ready, pet, then you're not ready.
I'm sure he thinks you're lovely just the way you are, I doubt very much that he'll laugh at you.
2007-12-20 21:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it only when you are ready. Dont let nodbody pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable in doing. When you decide you are ready be safe ok. But dont rush- make sure its wit someone special- someone you love
2007-12-20 16:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he really wants to make you feel special then try to find some common ground and see what kind of vibes you get from him. the reality of your situation is what you precieve what is in a relationship. if you get some unfamiliar vibes then extend the losing your virginity by sexual intercouse for a while to let your relationship bond before having sexual intercourse. and if your preception is interupted then try to find a comfortable way to get away and journal as much as you can.
2007-12-20 16:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by astro9669 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just wait, they all say that kinda stuff. Don't do it until you are ready, if he gets upset then he isn't worth being with anyway.
2007-12-20 16:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋