Singles & Dating - 20 December 2007

ok..i hav abt 2 guys wantin me rite now. im goin out wit one of them ( the first guy). he is sweet, and i really like him. another i met at sk8n. he is alot like me and i like him, too. the first guy askd me out one fri b4 i was planin to go sk8n wit sum friends on sat, includin the 2nd dude. me and the 2nd guy had gone sk8n a few times b4 that sat, and had come to the conclusion that we liked each other. when the first dude askd me out, i said yes, cuz i didnt think the 2nd guy was gonna ask me out and i was lonely, but then i found out tht the 2nd guy was plannin on askin me out on sat, but when i showed up wit my new boyfriend, he got depressed. and i feel bad, cuz i really like him too!! but i cant cheat on my bf and i dont wanna break up wit my bf cuz thats wrong, and i really like the 2nd guy too. how do i keep both of them w/o hurtin ne of their feelings and w/o makin me depressed? it would b nice if i could sumhow get both of them,but i dont think thts possible w/o bein a slut.

2007-12-20 14:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love, 6 months ago we split up, I've been seeing other girls tryin my best to forget about her but I can't!!

2007-12-20 14:58:40 · 28 answers · asked by Carlton W 1

I just can't stand the abuse anymore. I am a white male. I am realy fat. Random people will stop and laugh at me. I eat fruits yet i am still heavy. Am I that ugly? http://www.dkimages.com/discover/previews/802/420983.JPG

2007-12-20 14:55:12 · 101 answers · asked by cubanchongo 3

Ok well I am 14 and I am very popular in school anyone that knows me and hangs with me becomes popular and today this guy that I toured around the school when he was a NEW student texted me talking to me and I was texting back and he asked me out (remeber hes a new student NOT POPULAR) and I said that I would think about it and he DOESNT know my last name my birthday all he know is that I am popular I dont even think he knows my NAME mabe becuase its my name on myspace but I have ONLY talked to him ONCE the time i toured him and a few time on myspace you think he likes me?

2007-12-20 14:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine 5

I want to send a girl pink roses, i like her and she knows this, what kind a message can i attach to them! Can anyone help me with this? What can i write? i need a nice note or a poem!

how is this: "I just wanted to show these roses how beautiful you are"

2007-12-20 14:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all I am in my 40's and have pretty much always found that fantasizing about other women when I am having sex helps me reach climax and was wondering how normal this is? Is it a guy thing? do women do it as well? or am I just strange?
P.S. I also feel a bit guilty, even though I am not actually cheating it sorta feels like I am!

2007-12-20 14:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

a butt than me..should I be mad? I am really hurt..but I am only a 7th grader..am I being pathetic..Theres ALOT of other guys that want me but I dont wanna be a slut...

2007-12-20 14:44:10 · 60 answers · asked by makaylaluvzyou 1

Well, I am not one to tell someone who they can and can't be friends with..but he has had sex with this girl and they went out for about 2 years..and they still hang out and talk/text and everything. I've only been going out with him for about a month so I don't think I can really say he can't be friends with her..but part of me wants to. It bothers me a lot because I am a jealous territorial mofo..It drives me up a wall when I hear that they were hanging out or talking on the phone..what should I do? I want her OUT of the picture..

2007-12-20 14:44:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what qualities should a good secretary have?
traits?what qualities should a good secretary have?

2007-12-20 14:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, please read. i need to know what to do.
i know this guy and im in love with him. every summer, we meet up and kind of have this love fling.
im broken hearted because he doesnt love me back.
he's in love with this other girl that is 10x prettier than me.
he lost his virginity to her and everything.

and whenever i see him.,. i get butterflies.
what should i do ?

should i pursue him ?
im crying, im in love, i need him.
he is what makes me smile... he is what makes me want to live.

hes everything ive ever needed in my life.

ADVICE, PLEASE ?

2007-12-20 14:34:13 · 25 answers · asked by riah. <3 3

I'm 18 this year, and i know that i'm still young but to me right now i just need someone to care for me and be there for me besides my parents and God. I have problems talking to boys i just don't know why. Whenever i approach them i feel shy and sometimes even scared to be near them. So i need some advice about how to overcome this feelings.

2007-12-20 14:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by purpleLv 1

I told a boy who flirted with me, talked to me a lot outside and inside school I liked him (hes never had a girl tell him that or had a gf) and he seemed sort of weirded out by it(said it too and never responded really).

so now hes mean to me, or rude, and ignores me and I ignore him back. I give him looks when he asks me to move out of the way etc, or for things.

He obviously has no interest and wants me to see it right? How come if I'm ignoring him back why is he still rude, and ignoring me and just realize it's all over?

2007-12-20 14:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by slayer_gurl888 5

Does he tell me that becuase he wants me to think sumthing......i donno, im pretty sure he use to like me but i dont no now. but since he is saying "MISCHA BARTON IS SOOO HOT" right in front of me, what des that mean?

2007-12-20 14:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you a boy or a girl, and how do you know???

2007-12-20 14:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by Cold cash and colder hearts 3

I got with my new bf whom i liked evan and it was the 2nd day we were going on, and when were leaving he hugged me and then asked for a goodbye kiss on lips, and i froze and looked the other way. He looked hurt and asked "why not?" and i said i wanted to save it for our date tommorow(friday) and said okay and left.

I felt soo bad and he told me that his friend in spanish class, (some senior girl) said that that was mean and ridiculious..... He said there was no presure and he would wait. But i was on the verge of tears when i told him i was sorry and i only did that cuz i was nervous and froze up plus i wanted it to be special but he said it was fine.... idk do u guys think that was stupid???? =( .... plz no mean answers thanks

2007-12-20 14:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like my ex again. We talk on the phone all the time. When he told me to call him back , he said you promise you will. And he always calls me back when he says he will. He has been practicing playing a song on the guitar perfect for me. And when we went out, he used to come to my house. And we are both looking forward to when he can again (which it will hopefully be this christmas break). But he said he is gonna bring his guitar next time he comes over. Ughh. I like him sooo much. I think he likes me. What do you think? I want to ask him who he likes but my mom says it's a mistake. What should I DO!??
i'm talking to him on the phone with him right now

2007-12-20 14:12:48 · 8 answers · asked by Bowchickawowwoww 3

2007-12-20 14:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl and she can open my heart even if i dnt want to i think that she may be the one when i think about im smiling and im happy and i do think about her alot wat u think? Im 18 she is 16 im 2 yrs n 16 older than her if age matter of something (we havnt date btu she love me and i love her we havnt go out cause she move with her dad when her mum died im asking this cause she is moving back after clases r over on may or june)

sry for the spelling i speak spanish

2007-12-20 14:08:59 · 6 answers · asked by Puertorican 3

since i was 15 yo i was with this guy, we were together for 5 yrs engaged for 3 yrs we have 2 gorgous boys together, he was everything i ever wanted and he felt the same, until a week afer my 21st b'day. He told me doesnt love me, without a warning!
He started going out with a 15 yo who was like my sister, after a few days of us breaking up.
we have been broken up for 4 months, and we are still having sex, i say he shuldn't cheat on her but he doesnt care, so why is he cheating on her if he loves her. when he never cheated on me? everyone says he still loves me you can tell by the way he looks at me and talks to me.
I just hate that i try and move on but i cant. i hate that he has put me through so much pain, and yet i still love him more than ever and i dont want to, i just cant deal with anything, and i need to be happy for my kids sake and i dont know how to.
i just want to stop loving him, i tell people im over it, but im really not, i just put on an act...HELP ME PLEASE???

2007-12-20 14:08:01 · 18 answers · asked by angel 1

When a guy sits behind you, his knees would touch the girls back. NOt like thrusting but like just against her back. Just because of being tall. Tell me what you think. Is it really annoying. Just against it

2007-12-20 14:05:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I've had a crush on a co-worker now for a while and he knows this. He's single and we get along perfectly. Christmas break starts tomorrow so this was my last day with him, so I tell him Happy holidays and just as I was about to give him a hug I hear him say "Don't-" and move a bit but I managed to still give him a hug. He had a big smile when I let go (it was only for a few seconds), but unfortunately all the other co-workers were around him at the same time, though only one noticed and smiled while the others pretended to not see. Why did he do that, was it out of dis interest or because all the other workers were around?

2007-12-20 14:02:33 · 2 answers · asked by Chained 1

He was truly in love with me and I freakd out. We were best friends for almost 5 years..he was the closest id ever been with a guy...he was so good to me... but as soon as he started wanting a serious relationship with me and wanting to get more intimate...i started freaking out and treating him like dirt...i pushed him away and ignored him for the longest time cuz i was scared...i really hurt him and now he says he moved on and doesnt want anything with me...do you think he'll ever come back?? is there anything i can do??? ive appoligized and came crying to him so many times since but he acts like he doesnt care....but inside i feel like he'll come back...i truly believe we belong together

2007-12-20 14:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl and she can open my heart even if i dnt want to i think that she may be the one when i think about im smiling and im happy and i do think about her alot wat u think? Im 18 she is 16 im 2 yrs n 16 older than her if age matter of something

2007-12-20 13:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Puertorican 3

This guy I dated broke up with me a year and three months ago we only dated for six monthes, but he was my first. For the past few monthes we've been close(we've always remained close) He sends me mixed messages, says he loves me but can't date me and doesnt' know why. I love him and belive hes the one, but he causes me so much pain, even though he doesn't mean to. I've been hearbroken for a long time know and I need some help because although I love him this is ruining my life.

2007-12-20 13:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 1

2007-12-20 13:48:00 · 2 answers · asked by kylee 1

2007-12-20 13:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by Thunder1 4

Do you prefer guys with or without facial hair?

2007-12-20 13:35:00 · 24 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 2

2007-12-20 13:31:26 · 2 answers · asked by stonerosedesigndotcom 3

i'm a very shy guy and im 17, theres this girl ive like for 2 years and shes 18, i have trouble talking to girls so i dont have many female friends, i dont see this girl much during school other than lunch, i havent ever talked to her before but when im with my guy friends i always see her at our schools basketball games and i was wondering how i could approach her?

2007-12-20 13:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by ballalot6 1

i really like him. i already asked him out and now im crushed b/c he said no. i just need some encouraging words plz

2007-12-20 13:24:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous