ok..i hav abt 2 guys wantin me rite now. im goin out wit one of them ( the first guy). he is sweet, and i really like him. another i met at sk8n. he is alot like me and i like him, too. the first guy askd me out one fri b4 i was planin to go sk8n wit sum friends on sat, includin the 2nd dude. me and the 2nd guy had gone sk8n a few times b4 that sat, and had come to the conclusion that we liked each other. when the first dude askd me out, i said yes, cuz i didnt think the 2nd guy was gonna ask me out and i was lonely, but then i found out tht the 2nd guy was plannin on askin me out on sat, but when i showed up wit my new boyfriend, he got depressed. and i feel bad, cuz i really like him too!! but i cant cheat on my bf and i dont wanna break up wit my bf cuz thats wrong, and i really like the 2nd guy too. how do i keep both of them w/o hurtin ne of their feelings and w/o makin me depressed? it would b nice if i could sumhow get both of them,but i dont think thts possible w/o bein a slut.
2007-12-20 14:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reality is, you can't go out with two guys at once or have two boyfriends, and it's cheating. It may seem like an exaggeration, but it is. You need to chose the nicest, most respectful, guy that is right for you. They other one may be hurt, but they would be more hurt if he found out you were cheating on him. Who knows, maybe you can even still be friends, loyal friends, without a romantic connection. Good luck!
2007-12-20 15:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one basic rule (for 21 and above) - no promises no guarantees - it is enough you love/like them. This will not apply if you from the beginning has not make a stand. I went out with more than 2 guys at times, but I never promise anybody of foreverness and never promise anyone just to only to stick to one - no problem occur, not on my side - theirs - a few times, but not my concern as long as it does not affect me.
Well if you are below 21 - no rules stand for teen-ages - they are suppose to break rules and learn on their own mistakes - well adults can only guide them - it is not your problem hurting or not hurting either one of them - enjoy your status as a teen-age if you are one. Then my advise even teen-ages have no rules that they want to follow - do not do anything on purpose - it is not a civilize - don't go and hurt people's feeling for no good reason.
Some like to be popular by having so many partners and in the process hurting the others - that is not good. It is okay for wanting popularity, but put on your tag "No promises and no guarantees"
Good luck girl!
2007-12-20 15:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends with the 2nd one if u and the first one dont work out then u always had ur friendship with the 2nd one and then evenutally yall will get with each other and if u dont want to do that break up with the first one and get with the sencond or just hook the second one up with some girl then u wont feel as bad nor he will either cause remember guy are guy and they will come and go and they will be asses even if ur not
2007-12-20 15:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by mz_clean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just choose the one that you know in your heat and mind to be the best person for you. think hard about which you choose. As for the other person clearly explain your feelings for him but you want to keep your relationship with them as just as a friend. Tell him that if you and the other guy ever break up, that you will give him a chance. Good Luck!
2007-12-20 15:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah know sometimes it's fun just playing the field. Why does everyone have to jump into just paying attention to just one guy. Tell, your current boy that you would like to keep your options open to see other people. I don't understand all this seriousness at such young ages where you should be having so much fun!
Playing the field does not mean that you are sleeping with them either!
2007-12-20 15:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You already screwed it up by having too many and now that they know you probably don't have as many. Sort it out and decide what you wanna do and not who. You cred is fractured semi-mega for being Willing Wanda. If you find a guy like likes to share, go get him. Playas gon' play? Not if they take the board away.
2007-12-20 15:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by _ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oick the one you like most which seems like the second guy... BUT FIRST! Find out if the first guy still likes you! That's a must because you might break it off with a great guy for no reason!
2007-12-20 15:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 00:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-20 15:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gnizzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop going to the same place with both. Find somewhere else to go with one of them.
2007-12-20 15:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋