Singles & Dating - 23 December 2007

In regards to a lying, cheating, two-faced, coke-head, that I happen to be in love with STILL.

I love him for who he is and aside from those things....hes funny, charming, witty, kind, intelligent, fun, wonderful taste in music, he's pretty much a millionaire, the sex is great, we were really good friends first too. BUT HE LIES TO ME AND HURTS ME OVER AND OVER

My rationale was that i love him& he will come around and realize. i know he feels bad-i can see it hurts him to see me hurt, but not enough i guess. I've been patient, understanding, and forgiving. I bite my tongue- grin and bare it....yet he continues. I've trying yelling, crying, fighting, talking....WHAT WILL WORK??? even if he never changes and I leave him with no explanation...do you think he will one day wake up & feel bad for everything he has done to me? If anything-i just want2 know that he will hurt atleast a little if I go. Knowing that, I may have the strength to go-ive just been scared bc i know he wont follow

2007-12-23 23:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Michelle Bell 2

2007-12-23 23:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by Timothy N 1

2007-12-23 23:42:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like I sometimes just lie about the stupidest things with no reason at all. Like if somebody asks me how long I lived in Los Angeles I say 5 years, whereas I have only been there 3 years. Then later people realize something does not add up and I look retarded. Do you do This, WHY DO I DO THIS?

2007-12-23 23:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. so i like this guy, and he likes me too. But what now? Just because we like each other doesnt mean anything will happen. Should I go with the flow and see what happens? Or push for something to happen, arrange something?

2007-12-23 23:38:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you make a shy guy cry and he shows his true side, emotions and all what does this mean?
is it a good or bad thing?
i was just talking to him about things, getting all technical. really trying to get through to him.
i think he took it the wrong way.
he wouldnt talk to me after that and was just silent and on his bed, trying to hide away from me. did i say something to upset him?
i felt as though i was spilling my guts out and telling him everything that i hadnt been able to for a long time. i felt good and bad at the same time.

i dont think he likes me anymore. he liked me at the start i think and since then his whole personality has changed, because i mentioned that we should just b friends. he is kind of ignoring and avoiding me.
what do i do?
should i just leave him?
help!

2007-12-23 23:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what the heck am I thinking to just blurt things out sometimes?

2007-12-23 23:29:43 · 5 answers · asked by jacquie 6

I am 18. untill 16 I use to have many friends, always somebody to hang out with and I was really popular. I have moved far away right after my 16th birthday because my dad got a job in another state. I was really sad to leave my life behind, I have just started to date at that point, I was at the top of the world. the first year after leaving I made no friends. I was so sad for leaving that I refused to make friends, it just seemed pointless. But after comming back the summer when I was 17, on vacation, I realized that people did not miss me as much as I missed them all. I got over it now, but I have regrets now. I still did not have a girlfriend, you know, just somebody to hang around with and to care about. My family is really nice and I do well at university. this keeps me going. I met a few new people, but its not nearly as fun as before. I hang out with these people just not to be alone. I have become shy and rearly come up to girls, and when I do it doesnt go well. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-12-23 23:24:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been many many years since I've had a date. I came across a girl I really like the other day and I'm not sure what to say or do. I tried to ask her out and then she just laughed at me and said, no not with a guy like you silly. Then I had a girl slap me when I complimented her on her hair. Now she's dating one of my bests friends. A guy who tells me all about their intimate encounters together. I fear that because it's been so long I just don't know how to talk to women anymore. Year after year goes by with nothing but horror stories on how another one got away. I really don't want to spend another 15 Christmases alone. I've tried the getting out there and meeting girls thing and it's not working. I feel like after 15 years of searching and then as I was told not to search, went by. Now I've lost the ability to do anything. I don't want to spend another year alone, but 365 days ago from now I was sitting here in the same place saying the same thing.

2007-12-23 23:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by Hilow H 1

Okay so at the moment i'm dating a latino guy in a gang he's 21, the rest of the gang don't know we are going out.You see 3 years ago, my family and i moved from Ireland to San Diego CA,USA.I'm 18 now.I'm 100% Irish and i have a thick irish accent...and i'm afraid this is the problem.I'm afraid that the rest of the gang will be angrey at the fact he is dating an irish girl and not a latina.It could cost me my life if they found.Do you think they would take it badly? or would it not matter to them?
I really need advice.

Thank you so much.

2007-12-23 23:15:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

No bf/no gf, and happy!

2007-12-23 23:13:51 · 12 answers · asked by Digital Age 6

Im about to go 2 austria for 10 days shud i ask out a girl i like before or afta i go??

2007-12-23 23:12:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are they lying?

How can I find out whether they are sincere or fooling me?

2007-12-23 23:12:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 23:08:32 · 15 answers · asked by Red F 2

Who would you date? Two guys had exactly the same nice personality... both were equally as good for you and suited you. But one's really really hot and handsome and sexy and the other's really not good-looking, big nose, few missing teeth, bald etc. Who would you choose? Just answer the question honestly. And don't say "it doesn't matter..." bla bla bla. Who? Hot guy or not hot guy?

And vice versa for men... Hot girl or not hot girl if they had the same personality.

2007-12-23 23:08:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

So he is always trying to get with different girls, not have sex with, just be with. Every time he talks to me its about another girl, i dont like him but it drives me insane! Than even though he is always trying to get me to help him out with talking to other girls for him, he tells me he likes me! how does this work? he says that he talks to me about other girls to cover up who he really likes(me), i think its BS. cause after he tells me that im like im only ur friend, and he goes back to talking about other girls. Some help here, is this guy strange?

2007-12-23 23:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would really like a boyfriend to take my mind off things at the moment but i am too shy to. some people might say i just want a boyfriend for the sake of it but honestly - i dont. also my mum doesnt let me go out much so i wouldnt be able to go anywhere anyway.

but my sister is 15 and cant have a bf because she cant go anywhere with him
my mum thinks that because she (my sister) doesnt have a bf i shouldnt be interested in boys

i want to ask someone but im afraid of refusal and because i have to sit next to the person i want to ask and will be REALLY embarresed if he says no.

please tell me what you think i should do?

all answers appreciated

2007-12-23 22:57:04 · 3 answers · asked by Confused! 2

My gf left me because i was caught flirting over the internet, we struggled for 3 months to try to make it work. She left me once but came back and said she couldnt stand a day not talking with me that she misses me so much, but a week later she left me again. She broke up with me in person when i came to surprise her and she seemed really mad and said she doesnt love me anymore and everything i did meant nothing to her. Did she say this out of anger? We have been broken up for a little over a week without communication. I sent her an email expressing that she will always be the only one in my heart. But she didnt reply. On christmas eve she sent me a msg saying that, Its almost christmas, and as a friend i wish you all the best. I gave her space but she replied me with that message, i will never let her go i will fight for this relationship with everything i got. Can some girls give me advice on how to win her back? please dont say move on because i wont. She loved me so much.

2007-12-23 22:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 family members left but they live overseas. None are left alive in this country. I feel that around this time of year when I'm off work and just sitting around watching TV or reading books or playing video games. Whatever it takes to pass the time, that women seem to look down on me for not having a family. I feel that sometimes when a girl wants to meet my Mom and Dad and then I explain they can't because I don't have a family they seem disappointed. Then lose interest in any kind of relationship. I've been an adult now for 10 years and have noticed that it doesn't seem to bother girls that want a one night stand. But it seems to scare away any girl you'd want more than just to have sex with her. I can't see any reason but it's just a pattern I've noticed over the years.

2007-12-23 22:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by Hilow H 1

Its a purple, mesh v string. Is it worth 11 bucks?

2007-12-23 22:53:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just told me hers was $800!!!!! I didn't know people could talk that much!!!

2007-12-23 22:49:48 · 20 answers · asked by Jani J. 1

Let me start off by saying that I'm not a hairy guy to begin with, but I do shave and trim my pubic hair when it get too long. I dread shaving because I always get red bumps from irritation no matter how gentle I am. Are there any products out there that you can simply apply to remove hair? Or is the only other alternative waxing? Please help. Thank you!

2007-12-23 22:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by Randy 2

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2007-12-23 22:41:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 22:38:53 · 23 answers · asked by T 3

I am really p..sed of with women who only want me to shag them. It seems to happen almost every time I go out. All I want is a date with a nice bird have a couple of drinks and maybe a meal but when I put them in a cab they seem to get all testy so I have to go the full monty. Don't birds ever think of anything else?

2007-12-23 22:13:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her and she says she loves me, but she's got a boyfriend and she lives with him. She tells me she can't leave because if she breaks up with him he'll kick her out and she doesn't have the finances to handle that at the moment.

I can't do anything about this because I still live with my parents and I just started college, so she can't exactly move in with me. I'm 18, she's 23, and my parents are having trouble just accepting the age difference, though they're trying. Haven't told them about her boyfriend- never will.

At first, things weren't so bad, but tonight she told me that she thought we should take a break until she could leave him because she felt terrible for cheating and for me being forced to know we're not exclusive. That fact bothers me, yes, but I don't want to live without her even for that "break". It scares me.

On one hand, I don't want to think of us as "just friends". Ever. On the other hand, I don't like having her feel guilty because of me. Advice?

2007-12-23 22:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend likes to spend alot of time online in different chat rooms chatting with women who he will sometimes meet in person and on more than one occasion, has brought over while I am at work or at school which I have asked him not to do but he says these women are friends, I should trust him and to mind my own business. What should I do?

2007-12-23 21:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by Special D 1

With All of my relationships that I have ever Had , I always got Love letters , but yes I was young then . I have been married for 9 years and with him for 15yrs. And I have never gotten A love letter from him. The only thing that would even come close was a few sticky notes that said he loved me and wants to be with me forever. Now just to give you and Idea , HE Dosen't have A romantic bone in his Body , well he trys so hard to , but he said it makes him fell embarresd, oowww. He is A sweety , and I love him so Much and he would do anything for me and our 2 kids. AS A matter of fact my forst child I had at 16yrs old , and he met me when she was only 2 weeks old and he was only 18yrs old , and he stuck by my side and heres , asaA matter of fact she has no idea he is not her real dady. he loves her. He has worked his tail off for us , and he lets me stay home , because he knows im sick. So here is what I want to KNOW I Ask himm always to write one but he wont. What should I do.

2007-12-23 21:56:04 · 12 answers · asked by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4

2007-12-23 21:51:02 · 42 answers · asked by Sanj 1

it keept happening since i was young and it's happened ever since..every single night..only not the same topic...

2007-12-23 21:50:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous