Singles & Dating - 27 December 2007

ok like i just wanna go to sleep and not be bothered after sex and she wants to snuggle and stuff and i dont wanna do that. how do i get her to leave?

2007-12-27 23:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I have been together for approx 2 years.

He always has these crazy ideas that I'm cheating on him. It gets tiring hearing it over and over. I do so many lovely little things for him just to remind him how special he is to me, yet he still accuses me of being unfaithful. Sometimes I think that deep down he knows Im not, he just likes to reassure himself. How can I reassure him without being hounded all the time?

He also gets angry when I talk to his male friends, it makes me feel as if I cannot be myself around them or even be friends with them which is sad because we hang out with them alot.

One of his mates used to be my best mate (met my partner through him) and he hates me talking to him. When I do he asks everything we talked about and what we did etc

Hes always telling me what to wear, or how to wear something so that I don't get any attention. But I just want to feel sexy (not sluttly), thats ok isnt it?

What can I do?

2007-12-27 23:35:20 · 11 answers · asked by staralise 2

he was coming home from work every night. we were everybody's ideal couple. i thought we talked about everything. then we had two kids together.things got frustrated and i did to.i started nagging a thing i didnt do before and the sex life slowly declined and we stop telling each other what was on our mind.byt all the while i still loved him and then he did the unthinkable and cheated on me.and think we could have worked it out before he decided to cheat. even though things wasnt right, i didnt go and cheat and i dont know if i should take him back.

2007-12-27 23:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by dangerously in luv 1

2007-12-27 23:32:27 · 12 answers · asked by zwanamer 1

yesterday my crush said yes to me to be in a relationship....
i m very happy now... but i feel to shy in talking with her...
advice me how to impress her nd on what topics i should talk with her.
its my first relation and i dont wanna lose it...
reply all

2007-12-27 23:26:17 · 14 answers · asked by ☜☆☞ 1

i mean people might say that i'm just young but i mean it's difficult you know, highschool, and i see all my friends with either boyfriends or admirers and i have never heard of any guy liking me or even close to having a boyfriend. to the guys i just seem like a friend, never more. is it that i am just ugly? picture provided.

i know it's pretty lame to turn to the net for life's answers, but well no one else would answer me.

well here's a picture of me. http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o317/LCKY94/IMG_2376.jpg it was taken only a few weeks back.

your answers would be much appreciated, thanx(:

2007-12-27 23:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by Leanne C 2

Does it mean that they would like to have some

2007-12-27 23:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anarchy 3

Do u ever wish you could just become a cold hearted *****, so u didnt have to feel pain, love,hatred ???I just want to cut out my feelings cos i cant stand the pain of not having him ad so much more... does anyoe know how to do this like hypnotherapy or something?? I know it seems drastic but i feel it would be worth it !!!!

2007-12-27 23:08:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you say a good number is for a woman who started at age 16 and is now 18? What about at age 30?

2007-12-27 23:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by jenny 2

i'm in my first L-T relationship w/ a man few yrs older than me, everything feels right, we've not fought, together for almost a year. He has expressed he wants a future, shown me so indirectly. We always have a gd time together, we can talk openly about many things, he is so caring.

But,I feel he is un-intentionally unreliable, I've been patient but, it is irritating me, sometimes I feel I am there when he can fit me in...there are always things, like work or he is not feeling well - I know him to be truthful, I understand and let him do what he needs. While things have progressed positively,we seem to dance around each other, when we are together it feels right, we only have our good side to show.
Eg, he was waiting for me and i was waiting for him coz i thought he was busy to meet up and vv..

Are we too selfless to each other? am i selfish for wanting more from him and him to want more from me? should I just wait since it still feels new relationship? all views appreciatd :)

2007-12-27 22:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by dsarkdsamned 5

2007-12-27 22:56:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and why do gals like to say something when they actually mean another??

2007-12-27 22:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by KANASAI 1

I don't know how to move on aftr a long time of being kept hanging on... My ex told me that he wants me 2 stick around coz im the only one w/ whom he can be open 2 about everything... id love 2b a friend and a listener, 7 just hope that the friendship will bloom in2 something else again... however, many of my friends told me 2 not stick around anymore, coz he's just making me his "reserve"... you think, i can still stay as a friend and just hope for the best that someday, he might like me again? Or not anymore, and just leave him? If your choice is the latter, how do i start moving on??? How do i teach myself to live with the situation? Please help me...

Man, i've been like this for 3 years.... Coz there really were times when he acts in little ways that only a boyfriend usually does... (holds my hand, getting too close, etc.) That's why i've never really lost hope... his actions had double meanings.. Help me please... I dont wanna be stuck anymore, and I just don't know how to begin

2007-12-27 22:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by pxyraeghll49 1

i know it sounds bad but if u know how many men she slept with more than u and i can count on our fingers and toe together and still calls like none things even happens i dont want have anything too do with her

2007-12-27 22:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by greygoose9805 2

how long do you wait before you know that this really is love and it is going to last?

2007-12-27 22:37:59 · 16 answers · asked by LBB 5

Hi,

Me and my ex were unimates and we have been together for more than a year. He broke up with me last night because he says that he doesn't see us in the long term, and he is attracted to another girl who is his colleague. He has graduated and is currently working, while I am in my junior year. But he doesn't want to discard our period of relationship and regret it, so he is giving himself a week to figure things out. He keeps saying he doesn't know what he is doing, and he needs a little time. What does this mean? Do you think I should give him another chance? I was very serious with him, and we are staying in the same house, but in different rooms. I would deeply appreciate any advice and opinion/ perspective.

Thanks.

2007-12-27 22:37:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so this guy never texts anyone, not even his best friend, and if you text him, he'll just ignore you

but a few days ago he texted me first and we talked for 3 hours through text and then after that we have been texting randomly and so idk i've liked him for awhile now so i'm sure he knows it and i also told he's best friend that i like him, and he said that he would ask him if he likes me back whenever he gets the chance, but the best friend hasn't yet so i'm stuck sitting here and wondering

but yeah i'm just really confused, or am i over analyzing too much? anyways, do you think he likes me? oh and the best friend even said that him texting me first was really strange that he did that cause he never talks to anyone, and he also said that it was a good thing

2007-12-27 22:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When speaking on yahoo messenger or MSN do you find more easy to give a naked picture of yourself to a strager from another country ?

2007-12-27 22:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by vietnam_ro2005 3

my guy is 60 i am 33, we have been dating 2 months just 2 months he told me he didnt like doing all the heavy lifting in this relationship, paying for dinner it has only been dinner and it has only been 2 months,he knows my situation & that i have 2 kids its hard i told him give me sometime he said how much time u need and all that stuff, i havent treated coz i dont want to just coldnt afford it like he can all the time. he told me i wasnt going to change i would always be like this i just thought he wasnr being fair or was he

2007-12-27 22:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have these:
funny
tan
knows when to talk and shut up
likes doin random things
adventurous
likes to party
brings gifts but not too much
loves music
doesnt embarrass or get embarrassed
lets you have what you want but say what i want too
aggressive lover but doesnt "push"
smart but a lil dopey
cute
doesnt get jealous but wont let another man get between- relationship
make you laugh when your sad
confort you when your crying
great with parents
loves allot but doesnt suffocate
works out sometimes
wont let you quit
sometimes drinks but not to the point of being a jacka$$ or passing out
occasionally smokes weed but doesnt let it controll me and is not a "pusher man"


lives with parents 14 years old



do you think i'd be a good boyfriend

2007-12-27 22:20:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not in this situation now, but I know I will be eventually. How does a girl deal with a moody guy? Sometimes if a girl reaches her hand out to help, he'll just bite her. Especially if she's the cause of his pain (whether she did anything wrong or not). So guys? How can a girl help the man she cares about without agitating him?

2007-12-27 22:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by YearoftheRat 5

in the beginning of the term, i was deemed as the most fun and well-liked girl in my class, everyone loved me and found me sincere and loving. furthermore, i'm rather tall slim and unique-looking compared to most people in my school, thus that maybe helped in drawing certain people closer to me. i was a hyper and fun-filled girl and always on the go with my friends.

however, s time goes by, i realised that friends started drifting away from me slowly. one day i found myself at a point w/o much friends. when having activities in class, i'd end up as the left odd one out.

right now is term break and i'm really bored and lonely. i have no idea who to call out to town with me, neither did i have anyone to celebrate with on christmas and upcoming new year.

where does the problem here?? guys can you pls help me out by telling me what's actually happened and how do i do to solve this problem? thank you.. i really need help.

2007-12-27 22:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by rachel 3

I met a girl last year in a bar. She was a stripper. She works on the side as a prostitute and I availed of her services. We never had intercourse just oral sex. She is not very good at it. We still communicate sometimes. She lives in another city. I find her very attractive but I don't really like her personality. But why do I always think about her? and when I think about her it is usually non-sexual. I asked her to look for another job and even help her financially. No, I don't want her to be my girlfriend. I am concerned about her. But I often ask myself why I should care what happens to her. She is just hooker. But I always worry if she is ok and stuff. What's happening to me?

2007-12-27 22:12:44 · 16 answers · asked by Simon U 3

I am sad and lonely.
six one seven
nine five six
two one three three

2007-12-27 22:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girl wants me to wear bra and panty when we r in bad

has any other girl done it

2007-12-27 21:58:23 · 4 answers · asked by ajay 1

2007-12-27 21:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by newell_dave 1

My friends think i'm nice, friendly, sociable, like to laugh and happy. The thing is that they've all got men and I haven't because i'm just seen as overweight by men. I've tried in person, online dating, pen pals. Can't win anyways. Depression is what i'm feeling about this. It's not fair as i'm not a slob. I exercise, walk, swim, am active, eat properly now cause I have to lose weight. People are too quick to judge, don't you think?

2007-12-27 21:49:03 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Shell ♥ 3

i met a man 5 weeks a go . he is unemployed so had no money well he has been staying with me all over christmasi fed him washed his clothes bought him ciggerettes and alcohol we had too much to drink the other night now hes gone home ,after me giving him 5 pounds bis fare home
since hes been gone i presume he has money now but i havent heard from him in 2 days should i ring him or wait i dont no what to think

2007-12-27 21:46:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and this really nice guy have been friends for a long time now. We even went out before, but I had to breake up with him. Dont ask why...anyways we never exchanged numbers before because we're practicly neighbors, but all of the sudden he asks for my number so I gave it to him. We text like everyday for 3 hours straight and he told me I was beautiful and he loved me! I was soooo happy! He asked me if I wanted to get back together with him. I really do...but how can I believe all of this over a text? Why doesnt he say it to my face, or even call me? I'm really confused...and I dont want it to be awkward at school or anything...please help! Thanks for your time to read this! :P

2007-12-27 21:43:37 · 17 answers · asked by Another Knife In my Hands 4

2007-12-27 21:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by CATRINA 2