Singles & Dating - 27 December 2007

So im in eighth grade and i like this girl a lot. Shes not in any of my classes but i see her around and i always say hi to her whenever i pass by her. We always talk a lot on AIM like almost everyday and we communicate really well. So my question is basically: Should i ask her out now or should i keep talking to her and ask her to hang out and wait to see what happens. Please help thanks

2007-12-27 19:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know every girl is different, but here's the question:

If a girl likes you, will she "give it up" to you? (generally speaking)

Give it up: Have oral/vaginal intercourse with you

2007-12-27 19:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me as I am very confused. I transfered into my school in January 07 and one of my RA took an interest in me. He was from Kenya and was very cute and popular. I had never actually dated a guy since I was always moving as a teenager. Essentially he made me feel like he was a great catch and was a good person. Two months into the relationship I began to realize that something was not right with him. He barely called me for example when I went to visit my parents in Italy and when I went on his Face book he was talking to some girl at another college. When I got back to the states I found out he was talking to another girl, and almost kissed her. He cried and pleaded with me to stay with him and told me a sob story about how he was insecure about himself and thats why he did it. I knew he wore a wig and stuffed his shoes to appear taller so I forgave him out of pity. Two months later he does the same thing again. He gives me same excuse and like a moron i forgive him.

2007-12-27 19:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by adastra1000 1

ok,
my problem is..
im dating two guys..kinda
one of them i can see occasionally.
the other idk when i'll see.
maybe not for a very very long time...
well, i think im in love with the one i dont kno if i can see.
but i also like the one i can see sometimes.
but...
i cant keep "dating" them both...
because as expected neither of them are happy about it.
i just cant break up with either of them. idk why.
i just need some help.

2007-12-27 19:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

basically when do i know when she wants it

2007-12-27 19:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by devin e 1

2007-12-27 19:36:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a sarcastic guy and just wondering as titled above.

2007-12-27 19:32:09 · 24 answers · asked by Ge1st 1

I moved three states away, we reconciled, I moved three states back. She says she still has problems with me, OK< and she says, Go Away from me, don't call, don't write, don't darken my door. I did. Now she sends all manner of e-mail, I have responded once, out of ten. She has called at 6/am, twice and won't speak, but the caller ID says it's her. I have not called, or initiated contact. Should I , and the love has cooled on my end. This woman inflicted herself on me, and now seems to think I owe her more explanations. Still three states away, and safe. Thanks.

2007-12-27 19:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Tacit Hue 5

please read my previous question . .
I just broke up with BF via email
ITS OVER :

The damn text isn't going through so I'll make this
really clear, I want out.

you know what? I want to believe that this could work
but sorry . . everything inside of me is screaming
that I should let you go and that I deserve better
than this. I am here and you are there and this makes
no sense and why are you driving upstate with a girl
named Ashley?? . . would you like it if we were going
out and I drove upstate with Chris or Kyle or Peter or
Dustin . . . I don't think so . . . and why don't you
ever call or return my calls. I remember when I was
really worried about you, you had cut your head on a
rail road track and I left that worried message and
you never never called me back not even to say you
were ok. If you liked me that much than why don't you
think about me as much as I think about you? Why don't
you make me feel all warm and happy inside? You make
me feel really sad

2007-12-27 19:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by L.o.v.e 2

my bf and i just broke up, but we are living in his parents house (crappy situation to begin with). and im like 3000 miles away from home and just got offerd a job i really wanted, so i dont want to go home. all he does is treat me like crap, and now his parents too. i dont want to leave my job! i dont have enough money to move out, there is no answer to this, i just have to save money and live in this hell hole till i can escape. the funny thing is, he doesnt work or do anything and hes 30! wow i picked a winner i cant wait until this is over. he doesnt even have a valid reason for the breakup, i guess i was the one that started it all, but he doesn't do anything and i work my butt off. I dont understand how someone can treat you like crap when you are hardly ever around. i dont even do anything to bother him? He sits at home all day and plays video games all day. Sorry i had to vent. Please dont tell me how stupid i am because i am already told that enough by the EX. i had to vent.

2007-12-27 19:28:20 · 11 answers · asked by Waitingforhim 1

I went on a few dates with a guy I really like. He would text me from work, then stopped. Our first date, things went really fast, and we found ourselves saying, how did this happen? Now he stopped calling me. Does this mean he's not interested in me anymore?

2007-12-27 19:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa M 1

2007-12-27 19:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Vinny 1

if i were to meet a woman(you) at a public place, bookstore, resteruant, etc. how should i strike up a conversation, without seeming like just a weird guy hitting on you?

2007-12-27 19:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

U have ever been on with someone? What happened? Did U ever get to go out on a second date with them & how did that turn out? If you didn't get a second date with them, did U ever see or speak to them again? Maybe even years later? What happened then? All shared stories would be kept in strictest confidence, U can even change the names to protect the innocent if U so desire -- I don't mind!

2007-12-27 19:16:26 · 11 answers · asked by Andy K 6

Theres this boy named daniel i met him about 4 months ago, i saw him all the time, and we would just smile and say hi, i had a little crush on him, and we would flirt a little. Then about 2 months ago I met a new friend named Leah. Leah and I aren't really close, but were cool. So I found out a month ago that daniel and leah go together, which was a surprise to me. Now I dont like daniel anymore, were all just friends.
Daniel and I have been talking a lot lately, about everything, even his relationship with leah. Were starting to be really good friends, even so much to where he invites me over his house, but only to kick it though, nothing else. I do know that i cant go over there without leah being there, so although we plan this stuff i don't plan on following through on it.
I just want to know what are my limits as to how close of friends we can be??? Were like getting to be best friends, and nothing more, but i don't want leah to question our relationship and think otherwise.

2007-12-27 19:11:52 · 1 answers · asked by I ♥ Jesus 2

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 1/2 months now. I called her late last night and told her that I wasn't sure if I should call because she is probably busy. Her response was, I am your girlfriend and you can call me whenever you want. So if a girl says this to her boyfriend..would she cheat on him? I was just wondering.

2007-12-27 19:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for ~ 3 months. It hasn't been an easy road. >> He's my roommates ex (from 2 yrs. ago), which is how I met him + he just ended a relationship w/ a girl who had a daughter; he loved the child, but now the mom won't let him see her + he has some fairly serious health problems and a big hospital bill to foot. >> I've tried to take all this into acct., but he's so odd sometimes. He lies to me about little stuff, telling me some big story from his childhood only to say later, "oh, i just made that up". >> + he insults me in small ways: telling me I dress sloppy, telling me not to "mark my territory" (hickie) when i was just trying to kiss his neck, and today he says "i always go for girls who look like little boys..ha...you could totally pass for an asian boy".>> All of his good qualities (there are some) are starting to fade in my mind. I've forgiven him up to now b/c of his "sad circumstances". But maybe he's just an asshole. And maybe I need to hit the road

2007-12-27 19:07:06 · 8 answers · asked by clearly here 1

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-12-27 19:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 1

I am 25; She works at People's The Diamond Store. I was there in September to thank this older lady (Jane) for helping save my life (very bad car accident). She wasn't there, but I struck up a conversation with this nice brown girl in her early 20s. We talked for 10 minutes. I came back 2 more times that week. Each time the brown girl was there, she was nice, smiling when seeing me, and we always talked for a few minutes, some flirting. But I had a gf at the time.

I am no longer in a relationship...I stopped by today to say hi to Jane, she wasn't there...but the brown girl was. I was 10 meters away, but she recognized me after 3 months, gave a big smile, and waved me to come over (she actually already helping a customer). She said the Jane is coming tomorrow. I grinned, and asked if she was going to be tomorrow as well. She smiled and said yes.

Do you think she's interested or being nice? She’s never tried to sell me anything, even stayed a bit after her shift in September to talk.

2007-12-27 19:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I get over this jealousy and pain? I just cant pic him with another women makes me mad we should had stayed married so i didnnt have to go through this.

2007-12-27 19:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

hes a gym rat, loves going to the gym and kinda watches what he eats in terms of high cholesterol or high sugar foods. I'm 5'3 119lbs. Today we were together and in his converstaion he goes "like you r not thin" which made me mad and I asked him if he thinks Im fat and he said "ur not fat ur average"..which makes me madder cuz I think Im thin ..average means between thin and chubby...what do u guys think??

2007-12-27 19:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by kera 2

ok like i just wanna go to sleep and not be bothered after sex and she wants to snuggle and stuff and i dont wanna do that. how do i get her to leave?

2007-12-27 19:00:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my birthday is on saturday and the BIGGEST crush i have ever had is comming (him and his brother) and i have now clue how i should act around him last time we hung out i was really flirty and it kinda worked but not really so i need some flirting tips things i should do (like hold hand and stuff like that)

plezzz help!!!!!


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♥me♥

2007-12-27 18:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by <3 Allie nash :) <3 3

so, my mom caught bf and I the other day (shirtless, both of us) and now wants to lecture him on respecting me, etc etc. she's worried that we'll be serious and he won't treat me right, even though he is the sweetest, most sincerely kind person I know (boyfriend or not) and he absolutely respects my wishes and goals in life. Do I warn him? Do I say something to mom?

2007-12-27 18:57:26 · 15 answers · asked by blorb 2

well at school there is this boy named connor and the first day that i saw him one of my friends told me that he liked me he is hot and he doesn't really talk to me is he shy? and recently i got a haircut and he seemed to loose intrest what can i do to make him like me more or to make him more interested

2007-12-27 18:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by Natty 1

I have been through a lot of relationships lately, & i think that i havent been single longer than a month in this past year. I feel that I need to concentrate on college & working & guys are not in the picture. I just need support that i can stay single- even when i get lonely-- idk TIPS on advantages of being single?? :D

2007-12-27 18:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl l 1

What is wrong with me? I seem to compare the guys to him we have two kids together. am i going to be alone forever. I am also studing nursing so I barely I have time. I miss someone wanting me. Should I be happy about being single or what?

2007-12-27 18:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

So my ex and I have been on and off for the past year. I was really upset about this final break up but I am finally taking the steps to move forward and keep the past in the past. I have tried to not speak to him at all as this triggers old feelings. I went away on a little vacation two days ago and just got back today. He called me and said " I have something you want" and I thought it might be the $200 he owes me. I call and he says he has my dogs leash. I say I'll come get it sometime. Then he asks if I want to come over to have sex. I say with confidence, No. He then says "Oh I can't have sex with you anyways.." And I hung up before he could tell me why. He then texts me a pic of him grabbing a girls ***. And goes on to tell me about his new gf and how much better she is than me. I only write back positive responces, like good for you congrats. I am changing my number tomorrow AGAIN. But I'm just wondering, if he is so over me why does he still need to contact me???

2007-12-27 18:46:25 · 22 answers · asked by lovin life in california 1

she has been my best friend for years!i understand that she trust me enough to tell me but i dont knowwat to doo!! hellp!

2007-12-27 18:46:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i am in high school and rumors spread fast so how do i do it right with out no one knowing i need help and yes i am 17

2007-12-27 18:35:06 · 58 answers · asked by Isabelle W 1